A lot of people can have a doubt, why by the person can make a meteoric rise, from even more commonplace however already. But whether had you examined your conscience? Do oneself have shrewdness? Can you see a person? The medium that what others does not have is there? If you are done not have, so you how is extravagant hopes successful? Cao Cao has a famous remark " teach me person of negative the world rather, do not call the world person to lose me " . What is this? The abdomen is black undoubted, so is those who follow 3 minutes of his the world other are 2 people sages and men of virtue? Liu Bei says, alone virtuous alone heart, can take at the person, he is a face black. Sun Quan also is black the person after, because he says: " can use numerous power, inapproachable Yu Tian falls; Can use numerous wisdom, dauntless at the sage. Dauntless at the sage..
See him 3 people, the world overlord, have a characteristic however, that is thick black. If you are OK,the back meets this 3 words, then you can have individual kind sooner or later.
The first, with suspicious the person works together, the thing won'ts do surely; Work together with good profit person, oneself surely be put into trouble. We know, if one individual disposition is suspicious, he is completely won't trustful others, cooperate together with him so, get necessarily his jealousy, after there was accredit between two people, the major issue that how becomes again. And those egoistic people, they think have oneself only, with them collaboration can get necessarily their calculate. But humanness plays is very contradictory, hope others honest and frank, hope oneself are pliable however; Hope others is straight-out, oneself however the ways of the world. But affairs of human life always expects hard, so we need to remember a word necessarily: The heart that kills a person cannot have, the heart that prevents a person cannot be not had.
The 2nd, alone benefit is defeated, numerous seek a release. If we go doing a business, it is him consider only, go not far necessarily. But if we the plan in the heart at others consult, had divulged secretly with respect to the delegate, successful possibility becomes extremely low. To the thing of own plan, must scrupulous, if be known by oneself enemy, that nature can get block of all the different kind is difficult. In our seek interest when, ten million cannot be solelied pocket, should leave others a few, otherwise how does others help your accomplish sth.
The 3rd, to kill constant because of not examine, send disaster to be attributed to cannot bear. Because,many people are by harm, without careful observation others; And when sufferring disaster, because,often be temporarily softhearted, keep the cause of disaster thereby. There is good teacher and helpful friend not only in our life, also can encounter mean Lilliputian, polish only oneself glasses, just won't by knife of person backside bucket. Had injured oneself person to those, scarcely wants softhearted, put him one horse buys next disaster for oneself namely. Person scarcely can be indecisive, should break ceaseless, get its chaos surely. The moment of truth should reduce attack necessarily decisive, the risk always is some, make a meteoric rise rely on oneself to grasp an opportunity even.
