Do not admit parents more, you can become resemble him more
You can never hate the fountainhead of your life
A lot of people hate parents, this is the most foolish. I know the world has a lot of is not parents, some parents are very bad really, but you can never hate the fountainhead of your life, you want to come to the world today, it is the life that parents gives you.
All things are energy, yourself itself is taking the energy of this parents. Parents gives you the source of life, if you hate the fountainhead of your life, do you have joy? Can you feel the heart is installed? Do not have.
How does parents treat you, did not close completely with you
No matter parents did what business to you in one's childhood, the most important is to follow them to reconcile, see the knowledge at that time and educational rate, they had endeavored. Young like my mom when, exceedingly busy, she is in charge of me without time at all, of what mood, but use up her can loving me.
No matter your parents did what thing to you in one's childhood, perhaps be born to send grandmother the home, 3 years old send put one's child in a boarding nursery you, no matter parents was you to do what business, it is in them at that time under that state, the best decision that they can make, and the most important a thing is, do not be aimed at your individual. The business that parents does to us, do not be aimed at our individual forever. He is not to be aimed at say, I should kill you intentionally namely, I am fed up with you intentionally, so I send you, I am fed up with you this child, so I feel you are not the boy, I am very regretful.
I am others as a child very admiring daughter, homework good, talent conspicuous, filial also now parents. But be, I give birth to the sort of parents home, they also can treat me so, be not so involve an individual. As good as you, right incorrect, float pie-eyed, did not close completely, how does your parents treat you, did not close completely with you.
Those who see pair of parents is critically, be willing to reconcile, be willing to put down
But you are they bring this world to go up. You must join with their energy on, how does energy join on? It is to see really critically to theirs, be willing to reconcile, be willing to put down.
She loves my Mom very much I, but I follow her concern,compare insecurity. Because I become aware, I have a lot of to my mother critically. But I visit my mother conversely, why do I have to her critically? Because she has to me,be critically, my mother dispute often likes the person of critically person very much. I am done so that do not have very much again today with, she is critically still I. She present reason, because I do not believe Jesus,be, in farfetched make what heart, what thing! Still say " daughter ah, so much person is willing to listen to you to talk, you do not say with them so much, trashy, call them to exclaim together, oh, advocate Jesus, with respect to have nothing to do, trouble was solved. " does she say " why are you helped advocate do a bit thing? The thing of your what heart to do? " she is so critically all the time me, coming home also is, she can use sundry method, do not agree with her to mine write on her face. But you should ask in reply her a respectful form of address for an old person says, is De Fen a good daughter? She can say " my consider oneself most fortunate, just give birth to so good daughter, too marvellous. " but return the home, of one face do not agree with, still place over.
You are jumped over not the certain part of approve of parents, can resemble them more (the collision of the similar share that this is each other disposition) .
Same, it is I also have to my mother do not agree with, I also have critically she. So I am observing all the time, do you know why?
The most terrible a thing is, you are jumped over not the certain part of approve of mother, can resemble her more. I feel very horrible, I do not resemble my Mom after the hope became old in that way, because my father is told with me, when mom has a meal together with him every time, begin to complain, next churchly brothers elder and younger sisters, take one by one scold. She goes up in table, say negative thing all the time, scold all the time, all people are scolded, she ability is satisfactory.
That if I am repellent she, I do not admit her, I am critically she, I look down upon her, do you know? The most terrible is I can become her. True! You are held back more, you jump over the thing that goes resisting, you think you sweep it besides, other come up to your body, because the female energy on my body is,come from at my mother. Mom gives me energy of the female on my body, if I am repellent she, defy her, I can become as her. Defy more last more. Defy even if add hold. I have little to become aware know, so I do not hope to become as her.
But my mom her individual character is this appearance, I can feel to say, I also resemble my mother occasionally, like to atttack others, like to criticize others, so if I cannot admit her quite completely. I became old can follow her same, so each parents also is same, no matter parents hits you to condemn your it may not be a bad idea in one's childhood, to you how it may not be a bad idea, must think method reconciles with parents.
Parents is all be to secure mode to change actually to your words and deeds. This is the characteristics with willingness involuntary fine long hair. No less than motor-car of a high speed, it is to leaving so all one's life. This kind of mode comes as to her his former unripe family and whole and familial heredity and be on the move. You cannot be changed. Final you also can be in resentment like them. Your child is euqally same also at the same time circulate. . . . . . Accordingly, you must begin to grow from oneself, break the characteristics pattern of oneself, go from inside be on the move. This is only way. Bless you.