Of the child grow with education, need the joint efforts of family, school and society, especially of the parent and school, teacher cooperate. But the teacher that still a few parents did not realize his a few verbal behavior affected teach Yo person actually.

A senior a teacher in charge of a class ever said: "It is better that the parent and school blend, education can succeed more. I am very OK bear the blame the ground says, always the parent does not cooperate with the school, the result is tragic, this does not have one exception in my educational experience. This does not have one exception in my educational experience..

The child walks into the school, the teacher is very big to his influence. Occasionally, the teacher is right the child's manner, depend on not just the child, still can suffer the effect to the parent.

As the parent, check oneself please, below a few kinds of bad behavior, do you have?

1, how a thing happened from beginning to end of not fair thing starts work even boisterously with the teacher

Each child is the parent's baby, the child sufferred grievance in the school, the parent temporarily actuation anger is very normal. But going to the school " denounce a view " before, it is clear to must produce its cause and effect must produce its cause and effect first.

If be him child fault, that apologizes actively; If be the fault of other child, can reflect a condition to the teacher, ask a teacher to coordinate processing; If think the school or teacher processing are not proper, can talk things over to handle way next to it.

Between this process, the parent should show understanding and lenient attitude, if be in,the school goes when making clear Hunan state " be troubled by greatly " , can let a teacher feel only parent willfully make a trouble, leave such negative impression, nature also is met to the child's impression to the child sell at a discount.

2, should not answer the regulation of the school, teacher thing

To the regulation of the school and teacher, best method cooperates namely. Take a mobile phone than allowing a student surely like plan of a few schools, had better abide by the regulation of the school with respect to educational child.

If the parent has an opinion to a few regulations, acquiesce to urge child deregulation even, this meeting makes the school and teacher very embarrassed, the job that also meets a teacher brings very great difficulty, also can affect the child even, decide ignore to the compasses of the school, teacher. Look occasionally seem rigid system, often be to protect the safety of major child and learning environment.

For the angle from the parent, need to face oneself child only, but to the school, need confronts on 1000 students. Before the child, the parent should endeavor to safeguard the school and teacher, the way that wants ground of genuinely and sincerely to think with conversion does the work of good child.

3, do not join the parent teacher of meeting, disaccord is communicated

The child's education, the first controller should be the parent, and what know the child most also is the parent, teacher nature hopes to be able to establish connection with the parent, master the child's circumstance in time, can adjust the educational pattern to the child in time very much.

No matter the parent works again busy, also must smoke time to attend the parent to meet. If fruit is honest cannot get away, also want to be communicated with the teacher regularly.

Otherwise teacher inaccuracy decides you to whether care to the child's education, also do not decide whether you can accept your processing way after your child occurrence problem, whether are a few problems that won't know the child appears in the school more concerned with domestic problem.

The child is taught finally what kind of, domestic education, school education, society education decides jointly. Do not communicate with the teacher, the teacher assurance to whole of educational neither one, natural very difficult teach students in accordance of their aptitude.

4, the issue that takes society and whole education comes judge teacher

What want to make a patient healthy most like this world is a doctor, can teach the student each is outstandingly, it is teachers' biggest dream.

Some parents are very sensitive to the child's education, once appear socially incident of a few education, can think whole education industry gave an issue, also censure substantially to the teacher of own child thereby. The teacher that can let a bosom put educational ideal, cautious and conscientious only so hurt a heart.

If the parent can be right,show sympathy, what teacher nature also can sign up for to the child is good-tempered and encourage, this kind of benign loop, can let the child be benefited all one's life.

5, face a teacher in order to lead attitude

Once, had had a such investigation socially: Is the teacher the most cheesed the sort of parent? Was in in order to lead the parent platoon that attitude faces a teacher the first place.

A lot of parents can feel now, education is service industry, the teacher should provide first-class service to my child. But education is not merely " service " , the guiding that it is interior level more and alimentary.

Treating the teacher's best manner is esteem and accredit, the affection with the greatest hearts of such ability activation teacher, ability lets teacher intention treat the child, give the child a the most high grade education.

Each life is complex individual, a child makes quite one everybody child headached. And what a classmaster should face is about a hundred a few children, parent, in facing unripe vivid job even other a variety of item, can say to be paid already much more quite.

Be kind to every teacher please so, especially those are good for your child, to the teacher of your child severity. Ask the parent many minutes good-tempered with understanding, give a teacher a few esteem and credit more.