We know, now this society has high intelligence quotient and doing not have tall affection business is very those who be in an unfavorable situation, when because be in,handling a few issues, it is more good that tall affection business compares high intelligence quotient really with.

This did not have one vermicelli made from bean starch to say with respect to the incoming letter yesterday, the child of oneself learns a thing very fast, in study the respect need not spend too much idea, see other parent work and be anxious to coach, oneself do not have the trouble of this respect however, but she has however on the other hand afraid, the child that is oneself makes her very disappointed in what respect of the ways one gets along with others behaves.

One day, kin came in the home, he sees others comes to the home in, ran back to oneself room at once, when having a meal, still let send in the room to him, after going till kin, ability dare give a room.

She is right this kind of circumstance of the child in the evening of anxious sleep to be not worn become aware, how to know to do? To this kind of circumstance, I gave out the following these opinions, tell treasure Mom, want the parent to insist to had done this only when, after the child is grown, having tall affection business for certain. The child in the home has the treasure Mom of same question, also can consult below.

1, no good of beyond the mark and complimentary child

Every parent is to be able to think the child of oneself is the most marvellous, the cleverest, the most polite, had done a business in the child so later, the parent gives out with respect to what can can't help complimentary: "Son dishy " " the son is very fierce " " the son is very clever " , such beyond the mark and complimentary meeting lets little imagine the child is easy and excessive self-confident, meet the child cause a kind, I am clever, the club is marvellous, psychological suggestion.

If things go on like this, the child is in when encountering setback and difficulty, lost challenge difficulty, the idea of active enterprising, what total him concern does is bad, can be considered as by family not clever, not marvellous. Slowly the child can become cowardly, dare not assume, do not go straight face challenge, hide in oneself comfortable area forever, such child affection business is destined too won't tall, even if is be on working station in the future, gain too great success very hard also.

2, beyond the mark and doting child is not desirable

I am small nephew this year already 3 years old, arrived to go up the age of nursery school, said to be able to have a meal independently normally, but when having a meal every time, can see elder brother's wife is carrying rice bowl, fooling young nephew to have a meal " baby, it is good to eat again " , look at young nephew as if nothing happened enjoy a car, elder brother's wife is carrying rice bowl to be in fooling aside have a meal. Be about to begin really to go up for young nephew nursery school life expresses concern.

My Yi Zhengyan the tells elder brother's wife to be done so consequence of demit, elder brother's wife also begins to make a change slowly, chasing after the child to feed a meal no longer, let young nephew learning his to have a meal however.

The child is about to do what thing in what phase, parents also should give the child the chance, do not want at every turn to do sth for sb. The child always should learn him to be brought up, such exorbitant are doting, make the child very hard independent grow, when will come and coordinating the work, also depend on can chronically to other generation, return the think of a way of responsibility of meeting occurrence shirk even, so consider this individual again outstanding, make a person very hard also trustful.

3, tousle disposition impact is big

A person can get angry in disorder, with him in one's childhood growing experience, having cannot intersected connection, if parental itself is grumpy, love gets angry in disorder, can be imagined, after such child is grown, it is the parents that follows oneself certainly same, do not control disposition.

So the parent is in the course that teachs the child, consider second birth angry, also want to learn control and the mood that manage oneself. Can be in before getting angry, the silent in the heart counts 10 numbers, when the mood alleviates temporarily come down to be communicated with the child again, otherwise, taking a mood to teach the child when you, when perhaps be being communicated with the child, not only the effect that does not have to teach the child, those who return meeting him general is bilious deliver the child.

So, proposal parents is in daily life, particular attention restrains his behavior, establish the model with a positive obverse side to the child, loving and good-tempered in grown child, in the future affection business intelligence quotient too won't poor oh.

4, look after children make friend

Want to let the child have tall affection business, need parent is fostered as a child, often can look after children go space of a few common, for example park, amusement park, make the child much contact a person, communicate with the child more, in letting the environment that the child is loosening, how does the society get along with stranger, how to communicate with the child, slowly, business nature can promote the child's condition, also can make a few good friends slowly, the child's disposition also can become optimistic subsequently, look after children more go making friend, it may be said is with one action 3 gotten good methods.

5, praise others

The attention that everybody hopes to get others and praise, and often the person with high quotient of a few affection, always very be good at praising others, praising is not applepolish, however a person understands the sentiment that takes care of others, just is the expression of tall affection business.

? Accordingly, the parent can encourage the child to praise more the good thing that oneself see, see the flower is opened, can praise the flower is sweet 4 excessive, see birdie has flown, also can praise birdie body appearance is strong and vigorous, be in to the child of course a few good performance in the life, the parent also should give actively praise, for instance, the child poured cup water to you, can praise the child directly: Having a son is good, mom feels very happy! The child washs the dress actively, also can praise the child, be grown really, oneself wash the dress fast clean, can help mom work.

Great praise others, can harvest a friend not only, still can let you see different good world.

6, good domestic atmosphere

After wanting to make your child grown, become the person of business of a tall affection, what pack up you please is bilious, pack up acerbity speech, pack up dissatisfaction, change small genial smile, sweet face, to child creation a warmth has the home of love, be brought up in the domestic atmosphere that makes him good in!

Every child is having tall affection business go qualitative, and what appearance can be after the child is grown, very major depend on parents, so we try hard together! Of effort let the child become outstanding the person of tall affection business.