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Had a meal together with the friend yesterday, speak of the educational problem of dot, she is accuse the child of own home is how be in charge of hard, discipline of small off year knows piquant make trouble, still do not hear parental word, be returned occasionally even and parental backchat! Enrage her thinly two jins, drug reducing weight also need not be bought after thinking, let oneself that smelly boy enrages him gas more, still perhaps can restore to give birth to the good figure before the child. I find both funny and annoying, some admire her cerebral loop. Also be nevertheless, before present dot unlike, not obedient hit, or else is hit twice all right. And present child is to hit must not scold must not, can tell a truth with them only. But present dot is very clever, have oneself idea very much. Especially a few bad habits are to let the parent headache more, wish to let the child completely give up. But you had thought, have some of bad habit in your eye, the following to the child growing development will be very helpful. Have the child of these a few bad habits, be brought up to be able to have prospect very much later, the parent fastens rapid move to let change.
Always mix parental backchat
A lot of parents complain now, the child often is mixed him backchat, always still think oneself are very justifiable, a pair of inexorable appearance, letting a person is good energy of life it is comical. Always wanting to let child drop this one bad habit, can a bit more obedient, his what does parents say can darling accept, good gracious correct, it is good that that should have many. But you think carefully so true good? The child gives parental word for imperial edict, what idea also dare not speak out. Parents occasionally if also not be completely correct, and the child is darling still the ground is obedient, the fault regard as right. All the day obsequious, disposition also can become weak. After waiting for the child to be brought up, can he have prospect?
With parental backchat incorrect of course, but change an angle to want, the child can do the courage that explains he has him expression so, still have the capacity that thinks independently, in the process with parental backchat oneself logistic thinking also becomes more agile. And a person that courage, meeting thinks, can there be prospect after be brought up? Of course, this is not to let parent indulge child, however can the sound of listen respectfully child, encourage the child to talk bravely, try to the child in wrong place point out mistakes so that they can be corrected.
Hold to oneself idea, more obstinate
Major person likes obstinate person not quite, because of their proposal to others often turn a blind eye to. Some child are same also, obviously the parent tells him to be done so can have what consequence, he still holds to his idea, do not bump south the wall does not turn round. Parents can accompany the child impossibly all one's life, having a lot of things is to want him child to experience ability goes personally. The child can hold to his idea, understand oneself want what to do, want what to do, even if can fail, but this one experience can make his biggest money. Parents does not try to change his think of a way forcibly, can give a few proposals, list a few consequence, other let him child decide.
Like to be in alone, do not like lively
Like a friend says her home child resembles a young old man simply, holding a book in the arms to wait for all the day in the room, just a few years old of great child lives are so as dry as a chip, after be brought up but how good? She tries to look after children with respect to idea go out, do not let his person be being waited for, the little girl that still calls kin the home comes roister in the home. As a result her son also can play with the child, it is the person goes only, he hides again in the room. Can die her anxious, thinking all the day how give up he this bad habit. In fact, jump over loner thinking to be abounded more. The child likes to be in alone, in this process his mood is gentle, do not suffer the interference of the outside, can think better, intelligence also can become more tough, face a setback also won't cannot recover after a setback. The following to him growing is very helpful.
Does your child have these bad habits?
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