People often says, most aversion is certain most resemble oneself; Wind younger sister never has think of, the noise in first time brain has this word, it is to be in what heat sows recently actually " Dou Ting is good " in.
In be updated tonight, su Dajiang of essence of ask for trouble faces Ming Yuyin impatient and the speech of aggressive, abominable to concerning with the mother Ming Yuda cries those who go out " Zhao Meilan " 3 words.
Who is Zhao Meilan? Die in the first concentration just about, be in however later a few concentration " soul does not come loose " revive mother.
The goodwife that Su Mingyu is a model is set, so called collect " the United States is strong miserable " at a suit; And revive the origin can say be Home Su " the root cause of illness or trouble " , her heavy male light female, doting son, exacting waits for the husband to be buried below certain level issued the contradiction between follow-up children. Such seeing be like good impression to spend day of poor ground other two people, true likeness?
Not be the family does not take one door
No matter be a collect in right revive the indifferently that the mother dies, still recall extremely medium past event, we know, revive the mother works obstinate, be opposite especially Ming Yu of one's own daughter, the aggressive when conflict, not leave some leeway. Su Dajiang feels her cruel, absolutely affection, be afraid of in spouse concern and awe-stricken more.
And the problem that there also is likeness on Ming Yushen, face do a client hard to hold to the job not to back down absolutely;
With Shi Tiandong word of the firm when conflict says absolutely.
Face highest grade kin to dare painful hand leaving firm, send into the jail (the meaning that did not talk for the uncle)
Such likeness is not confined to defect, ming Yu as a child outer dozen go all out, revive one person of mother is painstaking manage a family, two people are strong as much there is tough heart below appearance.
And face daughter of so familiar strong, su Dajiang again covet enjoyment also not dare occupy her a person of extraordinary powers curtilage in go, it is to result from greatly the fear that plays to continueing to live in environment of wife high pressure.
And such likeness also appears on body of Home Su mother and daughter not just,
Su Dajiang force is pressed " disappointed eldest brother " and " Mom treasure 2 elder brother " , be troubled by go abroad, making investment, be troubled by buy a house, be troubled by marry, a few big play natural and smooth writing, can saying is paltry thing ceaseless, a person is roily family.
If we are careful,observe however, with respect to meeting discovery, between Su Dajiang and two sons, also having transcend strong similar gender.
Su Mingzhe acceded revive the good outer part of pa and escape psychology
One announces big package is pulled greatly buy a house
One is do one's best leaves before old friend beautiful
Eldest brother receives father to go to the United States becoming a face to close to interrogatory choice machine
Children is troubled by contradictory Su Dajiang to escape a room or wall of face about side
2 elder brother were to acquire the dream mixes the ill-gotten wealth that be between tears and smiles to be not worn tone
The lottery that Su Dajiang is fond of daily and the economy that make water float plan
Investment dream of Su Mingcheng
Su Dajiang eats duck neck in disorder, know perfectly well hypertension still washs sauna result to enter a hospital again and again
Su Mingcheng does not have deposit cost to gnaw old one is assured and bold with justice greatly
Blossom most aversion -- be vicious circle fated still?
We will become us eventually an aversion, the more evasive, the more scared. In those and the environment with contradictory and great family, we most swear one sentence when often hear pledge even if: "I do not become my father absolutely / Mom in that way person " but same, a lot of people erupt in the mood out of control when, open-eyed him discovery resembles extremely the person that once abhorred.
Tell on psychology " force a gender " repeat; Even if is very deep to us painful memory, because be familiar with, bring place of a kind of manage then ought to safe feeling, also can form subsequently inertial.
Such case is more clear in the family; Parentage, be based on involuntary study originally. But luckily, the person is independence is individual, we can urge a change through trying hard to go conciously. Realize the shadow of former unripe family when us, begin the first step of the change namely.
Eldest brother learns to back down appropriately in the be locked in a seesaw struggle with sister-in-law, persuade father finally to change sell old curtilage, also begin to return to a family; Bright into lose everything, begin to take on and be appreciated instead, pay off not only be in debt, after knowing bright jade helps him find the job, also cannot help laying a person for Ming Yu, had the state of mind of be repentant. And the crust with bright hard and radical jade also is changed because of Shi Tiandong, agreed to delete a photograph in the journey.
No matter be family or job, the person's disposition can be come from adversary, companion, the ceaseless influence of passerby, and in the growing process in lifetime, we probably cannot completely evasive become those who be fed up with oneself, but absolutely not should helplessly wait for death.
