Youth is wide yuan
The friend that your tentacle can reach is encircled
Different level has life different mission, in student phase, study masters knowledge, for them the following life obtains the capability of achievement, it is them the mission with this the most important level.
For this mission, they must want to learn enduring, society to abandon, learn to pay, this is the need of study not just, also be a kind of Xiu Lian of life.
Study is not a comfortable thing,
Abroad is same also
Review the person beside us, in every case obtains what accomplish certainly is to should pass tough effort, the world did not drop the matter of pasty, pass the indefatigable effort of oneself only, study ability assiduously to have successful possibility.
Study also is same, who is to take an exam all the way go all out in work come up, everybody is one pile homework in one's childhood, do badly to be criticized twice by the teacher even sometimes? The child is not adult after all, intelligence is immature, in this process more do not experience what joy.
A few parents think foreign education is happy, be in abroad actually, outstanding student wants like them very the study result that effort study ability has obtained.
For instance the elementary school of Singapore is taught, education field is very extensive, besides a few special courses, still have the field such as respect of artistic, language, exploit the student's talent adequately.
But at the back of the classroom of middle and primary school of Singapore not also often a pensile ferule? Allegedly, child performance is bad, the teacher is to want to be hit 3 times according to control, and it is to want two teachers attendant ability is carried out.
So, letting child joy grow is correct, but learning process wants pain certainly, contain teachs Yu Le's education way, do not mean child extracurricular not to need to review, do not need to learn assiduously.
Dull without the course the learning process with hardship,
Have happy study result impossibly
Majority child regards study as impossibly is a happy thing, the taking of outstanding study result, when needing the child to play game in others, others is in when seeing a movie, static next hearts will learn.
Some child intelligence are earlier, have oneself ambitious ambition from pee, so they have their struggling cause in learning a process, try hard for this; Also some of child did not establish ambitious goal, but at least one resembles taking an examination of superior middle school or good university such short-term goal.
But no matter be which kinds of circumstance, they are to have a cause above all, in the process that achieving a goal, try hard to pay, this process is not to talk to go up happy.
Joy is to reflect the result that studying to go up, obtain outstanding result when the child, when hard effort pays off, the happy ability of study can be shown.
But also do not eliminate the person with few part very high intelligence quotient, itself has extremely strong talent, do not need to be able to obtain very good result hard too, but this is an exemple only, inside the range that does not discuss in us.
Let the child know, effort study is a kind of responsibility
The parent is in the process that develops child learning, more it is to should let the child be below the circumstance of effort study, pains is paid, foster them up, the spirit that go all out in work and sense of responsibility.
The child is going to school level, their main task learns namely, to the child of this phase, effort study is their responsibility.
We imagine very hard, a person is not learning hard in one's childhood, aimless, do not know pay, all the day idle away in seeking pleasure, after be brought up, can become in working process agree to pay, agree hard, agree to go all out in work.
Child of the education in saying to be taught in the child with its so can learn independently, have the mind that goes all out in work conscientiously, be inferior to saying is to fostering them to stand from sapling case active up, the fine quality of responsible feeling, after the society stepping after making them grown, have active up, the sense of responsibility that gives hard, the mainest goal that this ability lets the child learn the study in the process to arrive in effort.
Why does the United States want those who study us to should try education,
Because we can bear hardships
A lot of people are in bad-mouth China now should try education, cry is highest is child burden is weighed, the nature that strangles the child.
Cannot deny, all students must not master the knowledge that some learn on classroom, the content of very much even study is the following to the child grow and use without what, the child does not have necessary beautiful too much time to learn, this circumstance is not the content that we should discuss mainly today.
What we care is, below the big setting that at present China should try education, if you are unalterable this kind of system, how that gets used to it.
Alleged survival of the fittest, education also is same, for instance the university entrance exam, if be,come according to so called quality recruit students, student of how much cold door does China have to you can enter Tsinghua, Beijing University these advanced institution of higher learning?
System of the university entrance exam cannot change, because we cannot find better than the university entrance exam system temporarily,be, be faced with now likewise should try education, everybody knows it is not best system of education, but we can change it very quickly not possibly.
Below this kind of system, the child can do, go getting used to it namely, must want a society hard, be brave in to challenge, only such ability are planted in this live below system.
Why the United States does not hope to recruit too much Asia now especially Chinese student, because Chinese student can take an exam too,be, the much in the student that the United States allows much emphasis university to be recruited every year is Chinese student, so the United States studies conversely why Chinese student is such " outstanding " .
From this angle for, of China should try education to foster Chinese student to be in instead 1000 army the ability that shows itself in the competition of 10 thousand horses, the reason with this the mainest backside is we agree hard, can bear hardships, for the exam we not hesitate the effort of all cost.
Do not think the child has fun at can like to learn,
This is the false appearance of a kind of of course only
We have some of parent to always admire educational way of abroad, in fact eliminate bias, the educational way with a little excellent foreign country is to be worth us to learn.
For instance phase of middle and primary school takes student ABC seriously very much accumulate and the education that learns skill, use encouragement form more to the child's education, teaching way also is forward the child's interest likes development, teach students in accordance of their aptitude, this is the development way that we teach system future.
If one day our country also implements such system, the interest that the student encourages to pay attention to his like develops, that wants to have fun at only, can you also gain a success hard?
We think: Interest perhaps is best teacher, it is the motivation that assiduous study, but the opening that this just learns only then motivation, a lot of children have fun at to a lot of respects, but did not become them the following successful ability, the reason is very simple, they do not have for this interest effort.
Say Qiaobusi for example, somebody thinks because having outstanding talent,his success is, but this kind of endowment also is to want anguish of uninterrupted in lengthy process experience, ceaseless attempt fails or accumulate come down. Everything is impossible to accomplish in one move, likewise outstanding person also is to should pass ceaseless effort, pains ground pays ability to succeed.
For instance a child, he is to like a painting very much, but he had not tried hard for this, can that become an artist after him? Because the child has fun at, learn with greater efforts to some thing so, more the target learns, make a lot of sacrifice for this even, this ability is the reason that succeeds after him.
Do not think the child has fun at so can like to learn, this is the false appearance of a kind of of course only.
Integrated ability of the child should be developed in study,
It is very difficult to be brought up otherwise successful
Below the bad influence that should try education, a few students fall in study pressure of height, learn very hard, almost ground of be oblivious of the outside world learns, become great master hep bookish.
Truly good education, not only should let the child learn knowledge, rear the child even the integrated ability in learning a process, group spirit, business counters sentiment business.
Pure for the exam exam, this is not scientific study method absolutely, the child just also makes the machine that the unified exam tries. But if do his utmost to repel accordingly the education of the school, just also be on another extreme just.
The precious character that the child rises in the education in learning a process is to be able to accompany their lifetime, these can let them work better in the society with intense with each passing day henceforth competition the life, and this ability is the ultimate goal that we teach.
Child nature likes to play, the parent does not let them know study is painstaking, how may they learn actively hard?
So we must let the child know, always accompanying on any road that gain certain success labyrinthian, be full of hardships, want to have good study result, must want hard, want hardship to pay, this is the responsibility of each child learning.
What we should let the child goes experiencing effort study and obtain good result is happy, go fostering a kind not to give the viewpoint of value that did not harvest.
Want to let children know, different level has life different mission, in student phase, study masters knowledge, for them the following life obtains the capability of achievement, it is them the mission with this the most important level.
For this mission, they must want to learn enduring, society to abandon, learn to pay, this is the need of study not just, also be a kind of Xiu Lian of life.
The phase that if be in,learns, they are wanting to play everyday, missing happy life, and the process that did not go experiencing life is a target this kind and effort is paid, after they are grown impossible for the job, go for the target of life going all out in work hard, this just is now the main problem that the child faces.
Now the 0 children after, the life basically does not have a burden, they live below a kind of environment that does not have pressure as a child, the more that they experience is happy, what they were not the life as a child and be anxious is necessary, so joy is of course them to, and hardship is paid is a kind of needless idea.
Aimless, without pressure, emphasize pleasure, this is current much 0 hind life condition of the child.
How to foster the child to try hard to pay, help them establish long-term goal, try hard for the target, this is a kind of responsibility of the parent and teachers, also be a kind of ability that the child should develop through learning.
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