The relation between person and person, most the after be familiar with namely inhospitality that be afraid of. The feeling between two people, most those who be afraid of is enthusiastic later unfamiliar.
Had experienced these things to just can understand really, when a few people are in since your wind unboiled water, they attack like the bee. When your sunset west hill when, they make bug animal drop off.
Because this is a very manipulative times, others is close to you is taking a purpose to come over mostly. Add again some closer year, the valuable socialization that more people put forward, everybody is in repellent no use is gregarious.
Those no use are actually gregarious, from the point of another angle, just be a kind of communication that arises for fundamental place with feeling condition. And those so called useful socialization, more it is a kind of manipulative socialization, cannot enter a heart.
A such condition, not be certain person some is planted the concept can change, because this is a weakness of the person, this is everybody basically is met some common fault.
Guo Xuewen changes " dish root Tan " in say: Be hungry is added, full a Zuo ; Yu criterion hasten, cold abandon; Favor is connected suffer from also.
The meaning that is to say of this word, others of go and seek refuge with sb goes when hunger is impoverished, have ample food and clothing with respect to swagger off. See the family has authority situation go insinuating fawn on, see the family is abjection poor when, abandon disregard others, this is a lot of people some problems.
Have a word, be test and verify a such truths. Archaism middling says: Poor in busy streets nobody ask, rich there is distant relative in remote mountains. When you valuable capable everybody is driving moment insinuate on the metropolis you, when you one day abjection when, people can leave immediately, it is a lot of people actually a some condition, can need not be this affliction.
The lifetime of everybody is put in the Fu Zhongsheng since twists and turns, the metropolis in everybody's lifetime has experienced a few heights, had experienced a few trough. In the height when the feeling that has experienced everybody to attack to oneself, in trough when the setting that like experiencing others to resemble bird, drops off. Among them joys and sorrows, only oneself can be experienced.
It is under a kind of such condition, do not use reprimand others, also need not blame others, this is normal human feelings only, the common fault of the world. Gu Jin is such, this is not strange also among them a person, everybody is in yearning valuable socialization, everybody has been cultivated greatly in yearning back enjoy the cool. But once the tree falls,the monkeys scatter, this is the person's common fault.
On relation of person arteries and veins the face is circulating a such words: When you true end passes, ability sees through a few people.
There are a such words in archaism: One deficient one Fu Naizhi makes appearance, one expensive one cheap friendship sees therefore.
When you experienced a height to experience trough, ability sees through popular feeling truly, ability sees the state of others truly. Of experience much, also was indifferent to, also need not dispute those things.
When you face such a few people, more it is the heart should have a kind of gentle and open-minded state of mind. If say, you because others once the tree falls,the monkeys scatter, because the departure of others grouses, resentment, so the error that you take others namely will punish his.
The person's nature, it is probably such, go why dispute that a few predestined relationships get together the predestined relationship comes loose. Be inferior to arranging its nature, when people comes well treat, when people leaves, cheesy brandish waves.
? If fear,such thing brings a loss to yourself, that resembles Confucianism what in learning, say, have a kind of capacity that identifies dissembler, namely Confucianism what what in learning, say is goody, know when you identify the appearance with a goody dissembler, ability avoids the harm that such person brings to you quite.
Are you changed to Guo Xuewen " dish root Tan " how medium wisdom understands?
