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Before believing a lot of people paid close attention to paragraph of misfortune of time Ethiopia aviation aviation accident accident.
On March 10, plane of 737 Max 8 of a Boeing is in the Ethiopia the crash after taking off 6 minutes. On machine 149 passengers and 8 unit member, die entirely, nobody survive.
Do not know these victims are whose parents, or whose husband or wife, whose children be even? Should see " die entirely, unmanned survival " these a few words when, hold tight wears the heart. I am unthinkable when be informed this message, people is in the home of these victims is how aching.
Life is variable, everybody does not know to will be mixed tomorrow accident which come first. Abrupt be enlightened a thing, which have life what is eternity?
We have some happy it may not be a bad idea now, the dilemma that faces at present, metropolis die, also can go.
Life a few years, we each person can move toward death finally, this is everybody is inevitable. So, final result is not important, important is to be in this process, what did you harvest? What did you experience again? It is only even, a few this years must you leave too not happy?
Had looked on the net before so a paragraph of word: Life lives nevertheless and die two parts. You can live a few years only, and you should die a few years, that you postmortem so long the day-to-day state of affairs that is born when the grow upping, living a few years this is short regarding as is to go one Cidishini Eden. Since can play only, experience to the top of one's bent with respect to what, need not anxious, can leave Dishini to return to final lockup nature anyway go in daily life.
Think carefully, life seems is really such, but a lot of people cannot be accomplished such open-minded.
Why? Because be mixed accidentally,death is the does not talk topic that we avoid all the time. But actually, life is alive, the fear to accident and death we avoid hard. So, before they come, we should as far as possible try to learn to face up to life through this fear, spend this lifetime with positive unripe active state.
02
This let me think of a topic that discusses in heat two years this: Is the person with clamour very difficult life argumentative?
When brushing a friend to encircle this morning, see my classmate sent one strip form, "' the child that build up from nothing from seek one's fortune ' hear these two words of song, nose at a draught acerbity, but also hope oneself have the life attitude in this song " , the small video of this song matched below.
The first comment comes from my teacher below this strip condition, she is written " what live without who is easy, it is the suffering of everybody only, the respect with meeting different now system, but still always should use positive life attitude, live well. There is a dream in the heart, hard! Hard!!
I this classmate is a schoolboy, domestic situation is very common, be like front courtyard of odd still relatives by marriage. The city that stays in university place after graduation does poineering work. Can say, it is really from penniless the small-sized poineering company that to now one takes shape, can go to today, this among them miserable distress has him himself to know only probably.
Hear those who do is pretty good still now nevertheless, feel glad for him from the bottom of the heart. But also be to be in flashy feel very deep feeling. Yes, whose life is not difficult?
I think, see when him " the child that build up from nothing from seek one's fortune " when, he feels in the heart this is this true portraiture. Accordingly, what go all the way is not easy just let him feel with hardships " nose at a draught acerbity " . Because only he knows, in this process, whats did he experience.
You look, the life is really difficult, doing not have a person is easy, everyone is very bad, it is everybody has each each difficulty, phase to the difficulty of each phase stopped each only. Didn't that pass because of embarrassing? Presumable person can feel life is variable, drift along calculated. But resemble in front say, if will to this world regard as go enlighten person Buddhist nun Eden, can not be everybody has an opportunity to go of Dishini ah.
So, had " go Dishini " opportunity, if is drift along too wasteful? Because life is variable,be, you do not know your where day is about to be pushed by the accident " daily life " in go, so ability should cherish instantly, live actively, experience to the top of one's bent. Although the life is very difficult, we also should difficult in is making merry?
03
It is probably will begin December from last year, be arrived to want to cry by a client create difficulties for sb that exceeds word of it's hard to say, every time small letter and phone ring, my heart quivers accordingly, everyday nerve stretchs tight very closely, daydream working.
Think of recently will want to go, always feel this is not a benign working status, used the idea of abdication then. The trend that this idea resembles a parabola is same, peak peak is reached on taxi the way home of every extremely big midnight, how sleeping again however the early morning of one evening disappears disappear. Day after day, circular move back and forth...
Still be after all not dare demit. If demit, can break economic origin above all, but I do not want to be returned in this age to aid of parental dehisce ask for help; Next, in show the society with this competition intense with each passing day nowadays pressure, once demit current job, want to find to suit his the job with pay good material benefits nots allow really easy.
Because,in the final analysis still is " the life is very difficult " . Of course, this word applies to present network to speak not just, instantly words condition also is accorded with in be being put in complex and a day of 3 eat, trifling real life namely.
Because, after all " abdication temporarily bright, demit is over crematory " . In show the society with this competition greater and greater nowadays pressure, as an adult, the life has not allowed me so capricious. We are the adult that maintain one's composure, the life does not admit the mood that we run from time to time to change.
Is the having that nevertheless you say the life is true so difficult? Actually also may not. Of depict of the place in the knight-errant novel that the world in real life does not resemble Mr Jin Yong in that way, existing what deep hatred, bear is worn of and so on of what intense and deep-seated hatred, put possibly even in to want the enemy that goes be being hit truly far from.
Under photograph comparing, real life is much easier, we want the likelihood exclusively those who Ko is fictitious " the life " . Presumable person or meeting feel the life is too difficult, no less than I am happy going to, but if came really accidentally one day, that momently how can you think? Perhaps you can feel how the life is good at that time.
So, the difficulty in life of correct look upon, using opposite of active face of state of mind is the thing that we come to this world to must want a society alive. Otherwise, came in vain really.
04
In one's childhood my grandmother is told with me, the child, life is alive difficult ah! But I think, it is difficult to can you have many? Should have a meal have a meal, should sleep sleep, when should learning, learn, when should playing, play, without what difficult. The ability after be brought up discovers, the life is very difficult really.
In real life difficult it is a bagatelle: The likelihood is to rise in the morning late, go to work next be late; After was being scolded by the boss, a bit error gave again on the job, delayed next time to be able to work overtime only then; Work overtime to leave a floor to the late night finish just rains to did not carry an umbrella actually outside discovery, can make a drop only, the master is disrelished cancelled order too far...
Is because drop drop master cancelled order to cannot come home in the evening greatly,you say we feel the life is difficult only? Either, cancelled order to just become last straw that collapses us.
Difficult it is difficult, cannot the time pass?
Can pass, what the likelihood looks to had been returned even is pretty good. But namely put up with, patchy.
Most person suffers and depend on sadly living put up with day however the heart has unwilling. Why? In the final analysis still did not establish true life attitude.
So ah, the time that the person lives a few years, if do not want to have the success with particularly great what, that is happy live lightly flatly too, not be everybody should become so called successful public figure on this world, everybody has the right that chooses way of life. But the most important is, once chose this kind of way of life, do not want not reconciled to, and should be happy among them, those who learn to have oneself is small I hope truly.
Contrary, if want to make big career one time, the illuminates oneself program work steadily that is free from anxiety then goes ahead, do not envy others to need not be used so painstaking, also do not envy the insipid happiness of others, because you chose to follow the life style with different other people, be destined to be about to bear different pressure and hardship. But, what you harvest finally, also will others cannot be had.
Come so, it what live to still have is difficult to live to still have? Although come accidentally, are we also in " Dishini " in is those who play about the same be? The most important is us those who play is very happy ah!
So, life is variable, no matter make what kind of decision, face the life with active state of mind, cherish instantly, do not regret for all associate with, you won. END
