A lot of girls are discussing now " the men and women differs a few years old the most appropriate marriage " , seek safer than oneself are done not have smally sense, the word of about the same age, feel the life wants to begin anew, although older than oneself saying has certain base, but have do not be at ease, look for a how old boy to do husband after all. . .
"The young man student of heads of those 20 annual expenditure can be only play with you play just, think really can you assure to life of your assorted Zuo and happy? A certain number of he can make you suffer harm only after year, be in even him himself 30 years old to did not want to write before want to marry, he wants to marry to also do not have postulate. He wants to marry to also do not have postulate..
Investigation and study makes clear: Be in contemporary, those who be in our country is big in urban Xuan face, the girl 24 years old of men that marry 32 years old to come 36 years old to 26 years old are relatively appropriate.
Change a kind of view, the girl had better marry 25 years old before, marry bigger than you the 5 men that reach 14 years old are appropriate. If the girl 25 years old (the latest 26 years old) still marry oneself quickly very much go out, that is married harder ideally later.
But the boy does not have a thing, common saying says " 40 one branch spends the man " , "Woman broken bits of 40 years old of bean curd " .
The boy in big now city more and more people, concentration married later to 30 years old. Why so say, the face has a lot of reasons here:
Reason one:
From the point of change of male and female appearance, posture, the girl was to pass 25 years old commonly, one day declines than a day, and rate is very rapid, appear a bit old to 30 years old.
The woman resembles a moon, 25 years old reach a baby's completion of its first month of life. Why the girl often get fast, besides gene action, because every month meets the woman,still come official holiday, year in year out the vitality that loses the body.
The boy different, the boy than the girl grow as a child development is gotten slow, just begin to decline to 35 years old about, and speed compares the girl get slow much.
An eldest sister of many years old 50 has said, she compares her with when 20 years old big man of 16 years old is in love, parents says age difference is done not have greatly later, but after 30 years, she says that man compares her to still appear young it seems that.
Common saying says " feminine classics is vivid not classics is old, man classics is old not classics is vivid " , what this word says adequately to understand physiology of male and female to go up is different.
We say, the boy should compare the girl at least big 10 years old of above, be this truth, but optimal difference is 15 years old are controlled.
Reason 2:
From genetics, from the point of birth offspring, unborn whether healthy main be decided by at the mother, because the baby wants to grow in Xuan of the mother's body, unborn whether clever main be decided by kisses at father, this is genetic. Young mother can assure unborn health, and the odds with old father only clever offspring gift is greater.
Still be the account with different physiology of male and female, intelligence quotient growth of the woman grew basically no longer to 18 years old, the woman with a lot of very so old ages, looking very innocent still is this truth.
The man is different, man development is later than the woman, but intelligence quotient development of the man grows ceaselessly, resemble a bit everlasting, the age appears clever more greatly more, what we say is clever can not be memory good, the capability that analyses a problem to solve a problem however is strong. Modern science considers to think, unborn intelligence quotient basically comes by father genetic.
Reason 3:
Will consider from economic respect, the capacity that man of many years old 30 raises the home to paper a mouth is a lot of more ambitious, no matter money is much money is little, at least direction is clearer, the work is relatively steady, this is 24 years old, little boy of 25 years old cannot compare, 24 years old, schoolboy of 25 years old, the university just graduated, everything is unknown.
Reason 4:
The man goes up generally to one is plant fondly puny psychology, somes age difference is so big, the woman is met very suffer favorite, the man likes generally to be very fond of puny psychology. Everybody the age is euqally old, can have presence.
Reason 5:
The man with old age is mature, have include heart, very few meeting and you are intense brawl, marriage will be so stabler. Young man student is antipodal, do not have method, youthful vital energy contains authority, who doesn't let, everybody refuses to obey who, hang on mouth by what classics regular meeting.
Reason 6:
According to the popular statistical data on the net, university lover graduation is occupied with respect to what part company 85% , only the meeting of 15% marries, graduation year part company namely year.
The Beijing that sees according to us signs up for paper data, this parts company leading is 95% . Without giving thought to 85% or 95% which correct, occupy about anyway 90% the left and right sides.
Does for assorted Zuo graduation part company namely? The reason is very simple also, by force of astringent real pressure. Everybody works to be not stabilized, annals does not stabilize situation, probable home also is absent a city, ideal idea is running at any time, do not part company Zuo waiting for assorted.
Reason 7:
The man does not like female strong person generally, do not become oneself too strong so, the woman can give a man too by force very great pressure, bring about nobody to want.
Although official statistic data makes clear, number of our country male is at present high Wu Nv sex, but appear in reality " remnant daughter " always be much at " remnant male " .
The report still says, disposition is similar person love each other more easily, "Male strong female weak " marital satisfaction is spent tall, marry 3 years inside two into much husband and wife " regret marriage " , the wife has record of formal schooling of undergraduate course above, the marital satisfaction of its husband is spent, remarkable tall at the wife it is three-year institution of higher learning the husband of the following record of formal schooling; Marital record of formal schooling is tall with wife record of formal schooling,
Marry it is good to should seek gift, do obeisance to gold not blindly, record of formal schooling does not differ too big, it is good to love much place jointly, habits and customs does not differ too big, best to the view close of the thing, family of viewpoint of value watchs close.
Anyhow is a difference Yue Xiaoyue is good, marriage is stabler. By Wu Mao aegis causes all divorces, contradiction is by Wu Mou the difference of the respect is too big cause. Be matched for marriage is conjugal point really.
