The old schoolmate that for a long time disappears
Did half talent to discover
Will lend money so?
Netizen @sorry lets your kick one's heels explode makings:
Say the whole story of next things first, the other side is the better fellow student that my high school plays, after high school graduates, had not contacted, come to Hangzhou to have a job to college graduate all the time, hou Gang comes to Hangzhou to work 13 years in those days, the other side comes to Hangzhou say the money of it doesn't matter that enjoy, look for me to my unit, say to do not have travelling expenses, lend hundreds of yuan of travelling expenses lash-up, await poor student to just graduated in those days, the heart wants those who fall to old schoolmate is to should help, oneself only the money with not much remnant gave 300 yuan (answer travelling expenses of our native place to want 100 yuan to be less than only) , come to an agreement or understanding can be returned a few days too my, later without phonic message.
Open homecoming till this class, the other side adds me again.
One pile thing said with me after was being added, for instance oneself married, begin deal, still chat with my video next, say to prepare to do new business next again later. To before the thing that lends me money shuts a mouth to be not carried. I took a heart, estimation looks for me to lend money again.
Just as one would expect, passed two days to come over to look for me to lend money, oneself know to feel embarrassed to still start to talk ask. By me a decline.
I search after lying between 10 days again, start to talk even if lend money, one married to have the person of wife, 3500 yuan should look for me to borrow, anyway I am not believed, his wife, his family is connected 3500 do not have, still marry, press a root this to did not reply he. The money before also did not plan to ask he wanted.
Mark our parting student time with this post only, the person can be changed slowly as time really, everybody cherishs the person beside well.
About lending money this issue
Many netizens expressed him opinion
But also somebody thinks to be able to help a friend appropriately
Many people are basked in went out to be the same as a paragraph " classmate " the story that lends money
Still the netizen offerred the way that settle to the original poster
Want to lend a friend money about otherwise
of Yi of female star horse ever adopted the point of view that he has expressed in visitting in a paragraph:
She never borrows money to give others,
Even if be boudoir,never also is the economic contact of a minute of money between honey.
Attendant honored guest points out:
The practice of Ma Yi appears the milk of human kindness is cool,
Do not have test with the emotional classics between boudoir honey?
Demit ground answers Yi Zhengyan of Ma Yi :
Either via having test,
Be know well greatly as a child " help sb to deal with an emergency does not save end " this truth.
Ma Yi says to have two kinds of cases normally she can lend money,
The first go out to did not take money temporarily today namely,
The 2nd it is the somebody in the home be in hospital, be badly in need of medical expenses.
Even if is money lends between kin,
Also want to make good bill signed in acknowledgement of debt,
And should be written on the IOU understand the time that lends money and interest,
In black and white, in order to make a tie.
Had you had such lot?
If be you, can you lend money?
In case borrow money to be not returned, how should do again?