Having a word is so those who say: "The person that is close to the more, each other harm is deeper. Each other harm is deeper..
We can be paid attention to and of stranger formal, meet can say you are good, disturbed can say to I am sorry, every word and deed appears cautious. Because be clear about in our heart: Who doesn't owe between person and person, without the person meeting be used to is worn you.
But the feeling that we were used to the closest person beside negligence however, when talking especially, because classics regular meeting hurt their heart without proper limits for speech or action.
Actually, can talk, reflected the discretion of business of a favor, and the woman of tall affection business, these 3 things won't say before the man.
Do not talk about the feeling in the past
Do not talk about the feeling in the past with him, not be him only, still have you.
Everybody has the past, since those things happen already, not was necessary again bear in mind constantly, be troubled Yu Huai.
Learn to put down, it is a favour to you and him.
You tell about your associate with to him, you once feeling is without reservation to be shown before him, you say probably mention lightly, he listens so that also look to be like absent-minded, but who can know he is in pretend to be indifferent to.
The man won't be shown face to face in that way like the woman probably grouchy, but same meeting is separate to oneself the Yu Huai of past be troubled of the half, you say morer, the fault must be jumped over much, envious meeting buries next seeds in his heart. So, do not talk about oneself past with him.
Same, also do not talk about his past. Curiosity kills dead cat, do not promote the curiosity that have temporarily to satisfy his, cannot restrain the ground to want the past to him one dug unexpectedly. You knew, of jealous is you, afflictive is you, what can haggle over every ounce still is you.
Let off oneself to also let off him, since chose to be together, want to learn to pay no attention to associate with necessarily.
Who has been done not have once, forget the past, scan widely did not come, you just are met happy.
Do not say the mother-in-law's dispute
Marriage is very complex, not be simple had crossed two the individual's easy life of a small family to go, a lot of moment, consider the domestic member of the other side even. This among them, need to take seriously most, wife and mother of nothing is more... than concerned.
You feel the relation of oneself and husband is very good, now and then before him the certain behavior of mother-in-law does not have rebuke to hinder greatly, if you think so, that is off base.
Probably to you, the mother-in-law just does not have kin " on the way family member " , and oneself and husband are husband and wife, it is the person that has wanted all one's life, so you feel to be before the husband, can not say without the word.
But did not forget, to your husband, you are the truly of husband and wife that has wanted all one's life really, but your mother-in-law, it is he gives birth to the mother that raised him, it is close kin of his flesh and blood.
So, when the seniority issue that involves a mother-in-law, what the woman wants to maintain altitude is sober, what word can say, what word cannot say, bright mirror must follow in the heart like. Because,kilowatt does not want temporarily a slip of the tongue, let oneself be immersed in awkward condition.
Do not expose the man's weakness
Everybody has proper pride, be concerned about face-saving more. Compare the heart the heart, if the man says you this bad that is bad, are you also in understanding very accurate? He if or else knows anyhow land before close friends before rebuke you, is you are afraid of to beat dead did his heart have?
So, what do not uncover a man casually is short. You think just is husband and wife between spit groove daily, can look in the man, can feel you are to cold-shoulder him probably, it is to look down on him even.
More what is more,the rather that, the degree that the man is concerned about face-saving before alien, exceed your phenomenon far probably. A lot of men are in the home when informal how do you say, but if you spit groove before the face of others him, he is mixed immediately you are urgent.
The woman should learn a bit cleverer, treat a man actually, also want to learn to fool and be encouraged. A lot of moment, you chatter, it is to scold even, can be just the opposite to what one wished only, be inferior to a bit more euphemistic, say with him well, he can listen more probably go in.
What must not uncover a man is short, especially the face before alien, more stop talking cannot be carried, the woman must remember this advice.
Each paragraphs of good feeling, it is to manage come out. Since here face has joyous sound to laugh language, also can have naturally include and concede.
The society does the wife of business of a tall affection, hold to before the man " 3 do not say " , must not because of won't talk and destroyed feeling of husband and wife.
