Father mother serves as the child allow teacher, it is very big to the child's influence. Because,be Ming Xiao this, many parents help advance somebody's career to child intention: Stress talent of achievement, development, for company child gets on all sorts of grooming class, cannot call need not heart.

But a lot of moment, parents however as a result of what go up in bar of a few lives carelessly, accidentally misdirect the child. So, these " nodular " what to have?

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Bad habit 1: Impatient

The job is busy pressure is great, return the home to see the child makes a noise to be troubled by again again, you cannot help eventually big growl rises: "How to often cry ah cry! Did not cry, it is a bored essence really! It is a bored essence really!!

Remind: A self-respect and the child that respects another person, it is to get adult is respected first certainly.

Bad habit 2: Not evasive

Marry old, the bagatelle that you and sweetheart often are a few trifles makes a noise before the child's face overturn the heavens.

Remind: Our hostility, brawl, provided the bad example of an aggressive behavior to the child.

Bad habit 3: Too " easy "

Housekeeping of your hardworking and thrifty, him begrudge buys new clothes, can be very easy however to the child, never teach him to save.

Remind: Our this kind " love " , can make the child is known only get, do not know pay.

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Bad habit 4: Do not care

Everyday you come off work return the home in, always ask the child chronically: "How to pass in nursery school today? " ask at the same time, at the same time busy move cooks, arrange a room, perhaps read newspaper.

Remind: Our behavior seems to telling the child: I do not care your answer. Then, the child got be not respected from the feeling on our body, learn perfunctory others.

Bad habit 5: Not acknowledge a mistake

Your child is contention toy and quarrel with other little girl, your penalty is a little overweight, but you think: Parental words and deeds wants around to agree, never call in the word then.

Remind: We made a mistake, refus is not acknowledge a mistake, the child also follows one fault after all.

Bad habit 6: Love complains

The friend fails to keep an appointment, you complain to the child and wife: "He does not manage again after. "He does not manage again after..

Remind: You let the child see, when facing disappointment, we think without actively method solves a problem, just be blamed blindly and blame others.

Bad habit 7: Not recreation

The child is making a noise to want you to give him taletelling, but you always keep busy other issues.

Remind: Our conduct behavior makes the child understood " truth " : Only the job does not have recreation in the life, only housework does not have game in the family.

Bad habit 8: Love conflict

You and child queue up to waiting to pay in the supermarket. Jump the queue of a woman stands in front of your. You and she is academic, quarrelled finally rise.

Remind: Our practice undertook to the child wrong gregarious skill trains, make the child thinks by accident quarrel, fling abuses and even fighting is the tweak that resolves conflict.

Bad habit 9: Lie, plead

You are the member of committee of nursery school parent, the teacher asks you to help write a few minor literary workses to be used on garden newspaper. Can be you all the time very busy, you call a teacher later, tell her you are ill, let her look for other parent to write again.

Remind: Shrink back first without the attempt, after the child learned the head that throws promise, rely on to lie and make oneself plead easily.

Bad habit 10: Speak ill of a spouse

Marital route goes to the end eventually, the resentment to another was full of in your heart. Of the daughter enumerate other one party that then you are opposite 6 years old is not, and tell a daughter: "Father / mom does not want you, you also do not manage again from now on he / she. You also do not manage again from now on he / she..

Remind: Such doing, the child learned hate and retaliation, bigger question is, she will be right the happiness of own lifetime self-distrust.

Bad habit 11: Irreverent old

In marry on the problem, your mother-in-law once by every means obstruct, then, after marriage you never give presents old person, never also take a son to play, often still curse an old person before the child's face privately.

Remind: Do not establish the model of give presents for the child, so sooner or later evil consequence can become of on yourself head!

Bad habit 12: Litter

You always are used to conveniently to litter, all things that the wife can drop about your conveniently had been cleared away, do not need you to worry about.

Remind: Such, the child also is met the habit that nurturance shifts all responsibility to others.

Bad habit 13: Words and deeds is abhorrent

You always encourage the child to learn Kong Rong to let pear in the home, and grab seat with old person, children however on the bus, perhaps be in " no admittance " the child lets climb to place Pose to sculpture below the brand.

Remind: We say, do, the meeting after the child is grown stands fast very hard oneself moral personal integrity.

Bad habit 14: Love to compare

You always say to the child: "Who who how how, he is stronger than you! He is stronger than you!!

Remind: We always measure our child with the standard of other child, this meeting makes the child puts attention in go up quite with others, after be brought up, work to be able to suffer someone else to affect easily.

Bad habit 15: Chaotic

The car is blocked up again on the road. You the car from urgent jockeyed to open the past on the road. Daughter of 5 years old asks you from the back: "Why do we go here? " you say: "The police is done not have here, also did not photograph like the head, irrespective. Irrespective..

Remind: Violate when nobody is supervised when us compasses, child go to school meets: Want to be not captured only, it what do is OK to what do.

Bad habit 16: Spoon-feed

You are busy in the kitchen in full swing, son of 6 years old is gotten want to help, you roll out the child rapidly kitchen: "Go, dot does not want ' officious ' , staying at the same time. Staying at the same time..

Remind: We are right of the child " cherish " , let the child think everything is parental thing.

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