Rich Lan Kelin ever said: "If you are contended for strong emulative, like a controversy, think in order to refute him fun, can win temporarily victory probably; But fine long hair of this kind of victory is insignificant, because you cannot get the good impression of the other side forever. Because you cannot get the good impression of the other side forever..
There can be a controversy beside everybody, no matter you are in what age, no matter you pursue what job, small to ordinary common people, be full of a controversy to national level greatly. If you once had been troubled for the controversy, argue to win and temporarily complacent over- , then I hope to see Yang Zi the view to the controversy, hope everybody is right the controversy has new view one row this to meet.
Controversy, we cannot prevent its happening, the boundless universe, all living things, different person can have different view to same thing, the essence that this is human thought and great, also be controversy and the source that contradiction generates at the same time, the job on medium, study and in daily life, since cannot we prevent that to have idea,avoid? The answer is affirmative.
In times of my junior high school, my classfellow is one tastes the student that learns to hold actor concurrently, have wisdom very much, such learning take seriously that those who give birth to manage merit to the teacher with commend, but he is very exceptional however, the teacher catchs a cold to his not very, why? I remember him having him definite idea very much, want to be found out after all to everything, stop anything but. Every time when teacher lecture, as long as it is the place that he feels open to question he puts forward to refute to the teacher immediately, and of unbridled speak him think of a way, two second teachers still can be accepted possibly and explain one time with him, can be if things go on like this, occasionally teacher also by the be a nass of bruises of criticize and denounce sb, because his one the individual's behavior delayed the education plan of whole class and plan,more serious is. Later, he always wants to before making a speech, be checked by the teacher, although he has idea again, also cannot get classmate and teacher approbate.
You cannot win a debate, also was defeated; Although won, still fail, you can let the other side felt to get only humiliate, he can hate your victory naturally. Budda says: "Hate more than hate, love to be able to stop only " misunderstanding can never rely on a controversy to eliminate, rely on skill only, adjust, good-tempered, and will see the point of view that needs each other with sympathetic eye.
"Be contended for with its and dog and be bitten by the dog, still be inferior to letting dog foregone. Because although kill the dog, also treat Lincoln of bad cut " to ever said so, this shows, the only method that wins a debate is to avoid a controversy! Read an article whether did everybody have new view to the controversy? Welcome everybody to speak him viewpoint beneath, we learn together discuss!
