A lot of women believe a life, look in themselves, a lot of marriage that oneself are experiencing are not happy, because,be destiny him joke, it is God inequity, want to treat them so, if oneself life is a bit better, won't experience these paltry things.
Scatter the madam that cut Er once straight from the shoulder the germ place that pointed out this kind of wrong think of a way:
Notice your habit, because he can model your disposition, note your temperament, because he can decide your destiny!
Say with its the destiny that is oneself brought up the predicament of instantly, be inferior to facing up to oneself habit. Once the woman catchs these " habit " , marital happiness cheats ghost, rare and exceptional.
The habit is in its hold back the woman in the heart, live very tiredly
Before a serious illness of streak little one's mother's sister, the later generations with good disease is thin also big, do not love to talk with the person, even if be as good without a word as the uncle,say. Outer person looks, the life of little one's mother's sister should be very happy, have a pair of children that reading an university, have the job with a relaxed good also income, the car has a house, still can go out one year to travel twice.
However little one's mother's sister always feels the heart covers tightly unbearably however, investigate its reason, no more than is her it is one is used to an everything hold back is in the woman in the heart, the uncle makes a few decisions, when discussing with her, she always feels uncle hereat meaning does those who enrage her in that way, and careless uncle, do not be aware of little one's mother's sister the idea of this young woman, matrimony actually very tired.
Communicate the important rate in marriage, be just like have a meal the important rate to the person is same, the person that very difficult imagination does not have a meal can at ease. So, communicate more, be quite important in marriage, without giving thought to what thing, hold back is in the heart, morning and evening wants hold back be out of order to come, have the woman of this habit, live very tiredly, happiness is to speak of hard more, even if corporeal condition is again good also of no help.
Habitual everything relies on the woman of others, safe feeling always is insufficient
Colleague Xiaomo speaks of his wife morning, always can plaint: Firm love when, feel morning morning is too good, it seems that quarter cannot leave him, let him a hero wants to protect the heroic spirit of beloved woman, just often was less than half hour apart, be about to call breath of post a letter enquires a circumstance.
After marrying, xiaomo feels this habit of wife morning morning became a kind of burden however, no matter oneself are,attend a meeting it may not be a bad idea, drive, the wife always asks why he doesn't go back earlier accompany her, why to pay no attention to her.
Morning resembling morning such woman, was used to everything to rely on others namely, safe feeling inadequacy is inevitable, to capture that the root helps exclusively straw, what they always should get safe feeling with the language is contented, final meeting lets marital not tire of its are irritated, sheer actively. Of this moment them, often also can reach unanimous verdict: "You do not love me! " happy? Have no way speaks of.
Be used to the woman of assume sth as a matter of course, often jump to another hole from a hole
Had looked " know to deny knowing to deny should be green manure red thin " person, to a few sisters-in-law of Xiaoqin certain impressive, because these women do not like to think, everything assume sth as a matter of course, often become the piece of Xiaoqin, want Xiaoqin to be incited a little only, they can look for the trouble of leading role of male and female actively.
The woman of assume sth as a matter of course is used to in the life, often be jump to another hole from a hole, not clear and hapless why be often oneself, even if had arrived to step forward the degree of dimension difficult, also not be willing to think think.
The mankind thinks, god syares blankly, everything does not want assume sth as a matter of course, go to more in want, happy feeling of marriage can explode of canopy.
Was used to the woman with not independent economy, become the appendage of other easily
Swallow of classmate of come across elementary school, discover this woman of 35 years old however, became appearance of 45 years old alive, mention the past event, always swallow always is sigh and groan, say him living conditions is OK also, the child is obedient also, just the man is good to him not very.
When I ask why she doesn't choose to argue strongly, she says she dare be not contended for, because oneself do not have economic origin, already 12 years did not work, do not know what oneself still can do to earn money feed oneself, once follow marital fall out with sb, afflictive finally affirmation is him.
Was used to when a woman economically after standing not only, it is spirit necessarily next those who go up is not independent, conversation works to want to see the hint given with the eyes of others, take family hand after all short, have family mouth short. Once became the appendage of other, oneself happiness, also be taken to hold by others was in on the hand, marital happiness, it is the friendly feelings between two completely independent people.
Black rose sums up:
Habitual force, believe to be able to suspect without the person, just arrived to want to correct a few improper habit moment, often feel ability not equal to one's ambition again. Fasten when when must changing, will correct those early in the morning again should the habit of give up, let oneself break away from comfortable area only, perserve next, ability has happy life. If be used to to perplex by these, change to be not dropped all the time, want marital happiness, it is to want really much.
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