The Anhui province is fat east lady of prefectural inmate all this year 44 years old, native place is in Yunnan, hire the urban district at present. 4 years ago, all lady and marital agreement divorced, after can divorcing, she says she still gets constantly up to now the ado of former husband.
All lady: "The child goes to school the house is rented in school doorway, I did not go. He hits me every day, scold me, say to want to destroy me look, cent cadaver, I hear this word, I fear. I fear..
All lady expresses, former husband confronts before annoy, she chose submit to humiliation. But before paragraph time, former husband gives a people of all lady to call again, undertake ado, this makes her intolerable.
All lady: "He follows me to go to the school hitting me, I called the police. He did not call to me now, call to my family member. Call to my family member..
All lady says, 1994, oneself knew fellow-townsman Wang Mou via person introduction, see him still calculate for the person at that time honest and tolerant, grow a sentiment with him, before long two people got a marriage certificate to constitute little family. 1995 all lady arrives together along with the husband fat east the county is resident. The period of time at the beginning of marriage of people of talent, although economy is not rich, but the day also has calculated smoothly dependable, live and did not last happily however too long.
All lady: "When the daughter is 2 years old, with door mouth do femaly was in one case. My this person keen on face-saving, I am offended do not remove me to hiding your head office, we go to Zhejiang, after going to Zhejiang, he went this female belt again. He went this female belt again..
She says, their home town weighs male small female idea at that time confirmed, think him move was not husband to be delivered of a son, some ashamed remorse, add family scandal cannot outside raise, oneself also are done not have and husband plan is off the rails be related. Imagining time long, husband nature is met regain the right path. But later, all lady heard another talk again however.
All lady: "The female belt that he gets on more than 40 years old with building site again is excellent in come. "The female belt that he gets on more than 40 years old with building site again is excellent in come..
She believes this is a hearsay and misunderstanding only, till a day at night, all lady saw the one act of heartbreak.
All lady: "My daughter takes me to look for husband later, discover he is in with that woman, leased a building, 70 money one evening. 70 money one evening..
Xu Dajie chose submit to humiliation again, offend do not rise hide, persuade husband to go to another place again -- Zhejiang is faced how to work. Come ten years however, no matter they go where working, the happening of same thing or again and again is worn.
After the son is delivered of, the husband still does not listen dissuade, relapse off the rails and not repentant, all lady says she is driven beyond forbearance, put forward to divorce to the husband eventually, all troubles end when the main trouble ends. , however, letting what he did not think of is, after the divorce, former husband still is in harass oneself and family ceaselessly.
All lady: "I want to do not have a son previously, it is my fault, why be still opposite so now however I? Why be still opposite so now however I??
Xu Dajie says painfully, divorce a few years, former husband returns ceaseless and abuse him menace now, the phone harasses her family, the purpose has only, resume marriage namely.
All lady: "He wants to resume marriage with me, because he cannot find me such person, he is recreant, dare bully me only, he looked for a few, it is good to say returning is me. It is good to say returning is me..
Xu Dajie says the divorce is unfixed to her, oneself also won't resume marriage with former husband anyhow. Interviewed March 28 that day, the reporter tries for many times the former husband that the phone contacts Xu Dajie, but phone all nobody are received listen. The reporter also consulted relevant lawyer with respect to Xu Dajie's worry, the lawyer expresses, if the thing is true,mirror like place of all eldest sister in that way, so the behavior of her former husband may be suspected of breaking the law.
Anhui farsighted attorney office Sun Hao: "Small believe or telephone short message is abuse other clue is serious, be suspected of slandering, all lady can take criminal action initiated by an injured party without the participation of the public prosecutor.
The lawyer also reminds, in the life if the female encounters this kind of experience, should have done relevant obtain evidence the job, facilitating later period safeguards his rights and interests.
Anhui farsighted attorney office Sun Hao: "Can go looking for the Women's Federation to coordinate, coordinate the word that won't do to be able to be sued, had done obtain evidence, in the phone can recording, the friend encircles check scheme, can install in the home photograph like the head. Can install in the home photograph like the head..
Interview that day, the reporter accompanies Xu Juncui to come to fertilizer east prefectural the Women's Federation, the staff member of the Women's Federation expresses to mediate the help this matter.