Is present life you what want? Achieved the 1/5 that you want? , it is you want achieve you to live, the word of the 1/5 that you want communicates in comment area. No matter your income it may not be a bad idea, no matter your social class it may not be a bad idea, we were not achieved! Your this study not serious, what do you do after all then? Of such psychosis, do you have the mind that gets the ground to play?
When you had a kind of mind that grinds only, study produces best result, the key depends on raising a question, raise useful question, put forward to have the problem of quality, because promote the quality of the problem,decide the quality of the life.
Can acquire among our life, there can be the person that you cannot bear the sight of or thing between the crowd certainly, or others cannot bear the sight of you, is regular meeting put in everybody to approbate? In teaching child course, regular meeting has attrition, contradictory, different opinion.
In the life if you are dead like the fish is same! If we do not change this kind of current situation, child desire filial piety and close prep before, tree desire is static and wind is more than, you still have the child the support that you are your child, you are the example of your child, you still have a wife, you still have husband, want to begin to hold your hand hand in hand, grow old with you, going two people came loose, because of what? Of the life complain, because you are not successful, because those who be the life is embarrassed,came loose.
Because be born to be inferior to alive meaning do not earn money for you, because you are not successful, feel abashed again, because your father mother is inferior to others, your parents mentions you, mention serve as a son you groan, because they are so big the age, should rest, should enjoy good life, enjoy old age, accordingly, we grow mug-up, good?
We are the child's example! We need hard, make a family harmonious, we should squeeze a time to accompany the child. Allow when to await us to have a choice, you do not choose also is a kind of choice actually, it is passive choice. What the thing happens is good with bad not important, the key depends on our view, idea and practice.
Because the thing happens, it had happened, be a fact, you cannot be changed, once the result comes out, you also cannot be changed, what we can change is our look upon the view of this thing or evaluation. For instance, child midterm was not taken an examination of good, took an examination of 59 minutes only, the thing has happened, and the result had come out, the view that what the parent can change exclusively is bisect number and the evaluation to the child.
Our parent mights as well say with the child so: "You see treasure, if we take an examination of 70 minutes next time, we should make some of what preparation, what do you have to need what father mother helps? " do not decide the goal 90 minutes or 100 minutes, you can frighten the child, do not arrive too high quite. You stand in the child's angle to ponder over a problem, raise a question, also raise a help, I think the child can be accepted gladlier, is not to come up to approve or be blamed with respect to, fact and result had come out, the child also cannot be changed, we can look only long-term look.
