According to newest Internet data investigation, the whole world used the number of small letter to had exceeded 1 billion person-time, china has 900 million about, that is to say, throw an old person child and out-of-the-way and a mountainous area outside, basically everybody has small letter, use small letter to send the person of the message, in the life everywhere is seen.
As now Chinese most one of software that often use, small letter is handy while people communicates, the problem that also invites people to communicate by infinite enlarge, internet is really probably " good thing " , because do not have face-to-face communication, more and more people also are met in the bearing of words and deeds on the net more and more licentious, evolved into more chill nowadays society even.
E.g. , there always is those is in to send the friend of all sorts of small business products ceaselessly in small letter, still a few is pull ceaselessly group friend, a few people became familiar stranger through small letter, also a few people won network friend through small letter.
Nevertheless, when if be to be in,small letter chats, encounter the person of these two kinds of behavior, pull directly black, undeserved interacted again.
01 sent ten small letters, your person that never replies
Believe a lot of people once had encountered such situation, that saw an information obviously namely, but do not reply namely you, have do not have a reply so you, that is excusable, what go because of time even is too long, did not want to reply again, also can forgive probably.
Modern person life is so busy, without who available staring at you must reply, sent for example " I am occupied still go first busy " , result the other side did not reply a long time you " good " two words, probably he had seen, but feel to need not reply again below this kind of circumstance, if you know his nature is such, so of all quite good understanding.
But also have can appear this kind of circumstance, you sent message of several small letters, the other side did not reply, it is obvious does not consider a response actually you, more than 4, do not reply 5 times message, can explain the other side is to be fed up with you really only so, want and your disengage, if you are a bit cleverer, know to did not search again actively with respect to this.
Such person, undeserved really association, if he is true,do not want to lose you this lover or friend, so he knows how to find you actively with respect to this, if he also is done not have again,contact you conversely, so you can delete him.
02 occupied look for him, exceed two days of people that do not wind
Present person is everybody mobile phone does not leave a hand, some people look for bit of excuse to sound make a person laugh, there is a mobile phone beside want you only, so small letter basically is 24 hours of on-line, so some people say " did not see an information " basically be impossible, if you are occupied,look for him, send a message to him, he exceeded two days to did not reply you, so suggest such person is not contacted with him again, showing him is do not want a return really you.
If you give him hair information tonight, he may not see, but daylong tomorrow he is to see for certain, perhaps he will is in tomorrow busy thing, did not reply at that time next you, arrived to sleep in the evening before also may be to forget, but arrived three days from now has not replied you, it is so important to in proving your heart in him, be done not have really so.
You have a thing actively to look for him, he two days do not reply you, with respect to the proof he did not mean the appetite of the reply, also may be pull you black or psychology very be fed up with you, such person is undeserved really interacted again!
Those love your person truly, won't because temporarily did not reply and get angry, but absolutely also won't you send a message not to reply you, disregard you even, if he loves to answer to you really,pay no attention to, it is so important to in proving your heart in him, be done not have so, waste this time with its, return those who be inferior to try every means to put down small letter, do oneself business.
Now topic: In small letter, do you have such is opposite do you love to answer the person that pay no attention to?
