In the feudal society that is in China to be as long as more than 2000 years, once had appeared mixed person, also had happened lots and lots of thing, but, at this late hour, they follow historical dust to bury time black hole greatly like as transient as a fleeting cloud, nobody knows nobody knew future in the past, the logion name that knows those the ancients stay only sentence how-to from beginning to end we advance ceaselessly, let us know advance and retreat bright gain and loss, master be an upright person working proper limits for speech or action. Common saying is to be below such circumstance, form ceaselessly, they circulate more in rock-bottom common people in the mouth, the kind that carries buccal mouth according to legend circulates all the time up to now.
Small today making up a folk adage that takes everybody to look is " nobody say whose person backside " , common saying says, the person does not have perfect man, very ideal person cannot appear on the world, it is an immortal, when he also has snooze, be a person what is more,the rather that more. So err after the event always can be commented, their rearward is eristic you, this kind of behavior of this kind of person lets a person feel special to get angry, but think carefully want, oneself get angry with these people why again, look for indolence to oneself fast?
But one at the back of this word is " whose person backside does not say a person " , those who say also is exceedingly true, it is the weak point that said to show human nature even. We always can are fed up with be commented by person rearward, be fed up with those people that make carding comments, but think carefully, when oneself have, also can comment in the life it seems that others, gossip, often be involuntary conduct behavior, but let oneself turn that into oneself however also aversion.
Actually, the person often is such, always can discover the defect of others easy to doly, and however the mistake that consciousness is less than him. Actually the first word is to tell us, no matter do what business, do not need to see the view of others particularly importantly, a thing, what want oneself to feel to handle only is unashamed, it is good to did not regret in the heart. Take oneself route, after all whose backside makes carding comments without the person, the talent that makes carding comments at the back of more successful even person is more.
The 2nd word more it is to want to make us much review our, on the body of everybody faulty, we are in be fed up with when be being commented by others, why unthink do oneself discuss a of others rear? Do not let oneself become oneself aversion.
We need not value others make carding comments, but the opinion that needs to listen to others, have what change, without increase strive to do what is beyond one's power, the defect that staring at others not always looks, the advantage that always also cannot stare at oneself looks, everybody has his insufficient place to need to improve, always want what progress in be corrected ceaselessly.
So, we ought to review ourselves constantly, others rearward him comment when, are oneself also rearward comment others? Give others more only good-tempered, others just is met redound you are good-tempered!
