Be destroyed on spirit, break down behave even if lose proud self-confidence in mentally, smash a pot to pieces just because it's cracked -write oneself off as hopeless and act recklessly, appear exceeding angst, depressed, self-abased, helpless wait for psychological disease to suffer from!
Is spirit how be destroyed? One, the drive that controls him, limit his freedom.For instance, parents is right the child. Of the after school timeline him full, besides sleep onlily have a meal beyond arranged study time, and the canal accuses very strict. For instance, the wife is right the husband: On money the canal accuses, in interacting with the person the canal accuses, important matter bagatelle accuses to marital canal.
Have a word everybody familiar to the ear can detailed: "Life sincere commendable, love price is higher, if be free reason, both all can cast " . Do not have freedom to would rather die! Free to one individual body and mind limitation reachs certain level, can make person or is in silent in death, or is in silent in erupt! So, want to destroy a person, restrict its completely freedom of body and mind is enough.
Of course, this cannot make the excuse of the liberal. There is absolute freedom on the world, have the measurable freedom with reasonable limitary only! Here no longer give uncecessary details.
For instance, parents is right disappointed moods. The child most be afraid of take an exam every time taking report to come home, letting parents sign is interior torment. Look at parents to be like water-cooling desert to be like glacial expression murkily then, his heart is trembling, his heart is in freeze. After parents sees his result, the sort of disappointed groan, even draws on a curse! Beat up suddenly even! His right now heart is how loneliness and helpless!
For instance, get young associate people isolated, be isolated by classmate, work in the same placing, that is a kind cannot what character says is painful!
Disappointed, isolated, make one the individual's confidence times stricken. Let him feel self-abased, alone, helpless! The person is gregarious animal, if make a person deep-set and alone, be equal at be being planted group cast from. Scared loneliness is to result from the instinct with human inherent ancestor, sincere if Liu Zhenyun is in " one carries 10 thousand on the head " in be narrated, a person is born firstly eventually seeking the person that can talk about a word, search can mix the person with him same spirit. Also no less than because Maerkesi was written " hundred years loneliness " and won nobel prize. Be far from loneliness is lasting topic of the mankind, from ancient up to now extend is ancient changeless!
He should be destroyed to debase him on spirit, let him lose self-confidence, be immersed in self-abased!
He should be destroyed to go on spirit humiliate him, let him lose proud self-love, the feeling is ashamed!
He should be destroyed to disregard him on spirit, let him feel him how footy, the lowliness of what kind is insignificant!
He should be destroyed to despise him on spirit, let him feel him is how dirty and dirty!
Have a girl, going up first 2 when eat forbidden fruit stealthily with the classmate, be pregnant carelessly! Wait for abdomen to show a bosom be discovered by aunt, told father and mother, parents is in open-eyed did not review oneself, right however daughter a mad beat up, the curse of a right on the face, aunt comes out girl belt, went to a hospital doing induced labor. From now on discontinue one's studying is in the home, parents always is one face cold-shoulder, despise distained expression to her, breathe out to drink go doing not have good utterance, erupted in a day of girl eventually, broke the thing in the home madly, ran from the home, a person works in the city, age gently with respect to smash a pot to pieces just because it's cracked -write oneself off as hopeless and act recklessly, had done KTV princess, go learning to had done great health care, even now and then also make stage daughter. The male friend that has followed early or late countless, had been delivered of 3 boys, before was being thrown male friend. Nowadays 30 came forward, give 40 come year old of married man do Moll. The time passes those who get fear, kin friend borrows. She gentles and graceful besides a suit beyond threatening leather bursa, the heart is drawn out early empty, the have cuts and bruises all over the body that spirit is destroyed already!
Still have a kind of kind that destroys close to shock type. That is a person think acme be goinged to by love bestows favor on acme, abrupt a discovery all these is crammer, oneself are goofy like same by family home animated treason!
This I not citing everybody also not character is axiomatic, all breaking off of the leg, off the rails, why to no matter be,plant form, why to plant gut, having approximately same consequence! The blow that goes up to sweetheart spirit namely then is deadly, destroyed at a draught approximately!
I have a female fellow worker, her husband is the Party committee committee member on the town, they marry the 2nd year, her husband breaks off a leg with respect to a girl that goes up with the town, was discovered by her. Her spirit broke down at that time, she cannot forgive him, very fast two people divorced. Because his husband makes extramarital love, make impact of shocking men and women, by punish record a demerit, be dismissed to examine, he cannot stay in the unit, resign simply, oneself opened store of a pottery and porcelain on the town.
We this female colleague, be in after coming down calmly, see he got a so tragic end, ate the heart of compassion, mix again he is compound. Compound did not arrive one year, he is done tonsorially with a on the town again was in one case. After our work in the same placing detects, made a divorce with him again. He and got period of time tonsorially, by cheat tonsorially it is good to went tens of thousands of, inn of pottery and porcelain went bankrupt, be forced to go to factory of a spinning making short-term work.
We this female colleague sees he is so miserable, have pity on him again, also be to hope the daughter has a complete home. Two people again compound. Held to this more than two years, below the help that works in the same place again, he runs a store of a pottery and porcelain again. And, he looked for a helper in inn of pottery and porcelain, a northeast girl, grow very beautifully. The colleague sees he looked for a young and beautiful girl to become assistant, the accurate in the heart, go checking almost everyday, two people are troubled by very unpleasantly because of this thing. The colleague lets his demit drop the girl, he says what does not agree, two people fight to hit fiercer more. Result, he lived not to come home simply in inn. And be live together in inn with that girl rose. Later, everybody is witting, that northeast girl is a daughter of lose one's footing, do in the county so massage!
The colleague divorced with him again, pass 3 do sth over and over again a few times, colleague spirit broke down thoroughly, prematurely senile, less than 40, hair on the temples is white hair completely. And investigate breast cancer, last year the autumn year only 40 died.
Spirit is destroyed, bring about the generation that all sorts of spirit disease have directly, even the generation that all sorts of disease have drag in body! Everybody wants him vigilance, do not be immersed in the affection trap that others digs to you, the mistake that also is not others buys sheet! We are certain oneself belief, had done oneself, feel no regret at the heart, let psychology be full of energy, do the person of an active sunshine, do bouncy abundant person, hopeful and optimistic trend hopes, trend tomorrow!
