These should face dead person everyday, be how of look upon life and death?

Develop as the times, clear and bright section allows the pay respects to sb at his tomb besides the tradition in a few days amuse oneself of ancestor of hold a memorial ceremony for, go for a walk in the country in spring, still be gifted more and present-day meaning, life is taught in recent years " add newly " one of festal themes.

Person of funeral and interment each days must straight face dies, the experience that what concern with life can they have?

Pure Brightness eve, we collected a few stories that concern with life from inside the worker of Hangzhou funeral parlour.

In the eye of person of funeral and interment, what does life mean? People to dying person what does back thing have " misunderstanding " ? These stories, it is the answer that person of funeral and interment gives out.

"So much accident, remind my care family "

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Remains receives carry labour Dai Hui east: Our job is special, want Chun Xiaqiu winter one year 365 days uninterrupted service, move back and forth in the city each corners, safety of the person that will die carries funeral parlour.

Have second, I receive a boy of 7 years old to the hospital, his family cries so that rip a heart to crack lung, child grandfather blames him ceaselessly, ought not to let the boy help sun clothes, won't drop otherwise...

Father of my body humanness, what can experience the parent is distress, the heart will be very distressed. All the time in the life is not mixed in the accident that produce ailment, reminding me to want to cherish family of life, care more.

"We more understand ' child be about to raise and kiss prep before ' "

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Zhou Jiaqi of ceremony guest clerk: I am " lay a coffin in a memorial hall 2 generation " , ever worked in Hangzhou funeral parlour before my mom is emeritus.

2017, I became person of a funeral and interment like mom. After pursueing this job, those who make my feeling the deepest is, no matter give birth to predecessor portion high and low, everybody is equality is in before death.

My constant is leaving can hear in memorial " tree desire is static and wind is more than, child be about to raise and kiss prep before. " this word, it also reminds me, still have in oneself opportunity, capable moment, should know be thankful, be kind to family member, filial parents, value this all one's life only close affection and lot.

"Respect the inaudible person that die "

Wang Gang is photographed

Mortuary serves a staff member Wu Guangrong: I am the unit accredits cure of short for Zhejiang Province a staff member of 2 courtyards mortuary, I should send the patient that dies in the hospital toward mortuary everyday, for them clean body, clad, bale, inform funeral parlour receives carry remains again.

Before the person that serve each dying, I can bow to the person that die say: "It is you by me now clean body change clothes. " although I know the person that die cannot hear, but this is to express the respect of the person that I die to every, also be pair of this occupational devoir.

Had served each person that die and its family, but beg feel no regret at the heart. When my service obtains a family member or the courtyard affirms just and be being praised every time, it is warm in the heart warm, the feeling does all these is worthiness.

"Misunderstanding "

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Remains face-lifting division thanks dawn: These year, I already wrote down the person that not clear service dies how many times too.

Impression is the deepest still is the summer of that sorching, I head for funeral door home, do for an already cankered remains anticorrosive. The reason with cankered remains is the family member thinks unexpectedly " after the person dies 24 hours cannot be done anticorrosive, such ability give birth to ecstasy early. " I helpless can be borne only effluvial, the canal that use a needle is the person that die draw-out 40 for many times abdomen bilges gas, eduction accumulates fluid to amount to 4 kilograms, with over usually the drug of nearly 5 times has anticorrosive injection, appearance of substance of the person that let finally die restores groove.

When leaving, I admonish family member of the person that die, do not believe feudal superstition again, science deals with types or forms of literature of involuntary discharge of urine is pair of person that die the greatest respect and best to oneself protection.

"Understand "

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Remains cremates labour Mo Ying bank: I had done remains to receive carry work so, remember 2014 good year 30 be on duty in the evening, I ran 4 times to receive the person that die back and forth between a hospital and funeral parlour.

When sound was knocked noisy at 0 o'clock, hangzhou is cracker sound everywhere, firework is outside car window, on the street with respect to my car, my mood is very so dejected. When wanting to receive the 4th person that die, the old partner of the person that die says to me: "Boy, you work this very great. You make a round trip several times, I saw, for me domestic old fogey thanks you. " say this word, she one bowed to me. I was touched really at that time, experienced the esteem of others, the heart thinks " return drily go down! " .

"Blinkers "

Wang Gang is photographed

Leave meeting emcee Li Yan is red: I am done leave can chair the job to already had 14 long time, time let me accumulate a lot of experience, also let funeral belong to to me very approbate.

Remember an uncle attends what I chair to leave meeting, appoint after letting me die in him, hold the position of leave meeting emcee, the feeling returns pretty interesting. Also have nevertheless afflictive when, funeral that I come up against an understanding on the bus is belonged to, we do not greet sb actively this row with others commonly, did not think of she sends one's respects to me actively, do so that I feel embarrassed instead. This thinking that she is unbiased to me, get off suitable mouth said " adieu " , she says immediately " see no longer " ...

Anyway, my constant gets the acknowledgment short message that a few funeral belong to in the job, these are the affirmation to me, can lash the travel before I continue.

In interview, people of each funeral and interment have respective life to experience, they mention generally is, perform constantly in funeral parlour " white hair person sends black hair the person " phenomenon, often see, more become aware regretful. Person of funeral and interment treats the distinctive sincere feeling of life, often result from the path of the life and death that they realize in system of the place on post, the life manner that this also lets them more connect fully open-minded.

Saying like place of a person of old funeral and interment " life once, without the future world, what we can do is to be cherished well " same, face death, people should not praise for the parting lament of life only, should be in more of life fugacious in, hold affirmatory instantly.