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01.
I call Li Chao, this year 36 years old.
I and wife king clean are soft it is to be in toy factory to work of understanding, the Wang Jie at that time is soft 24 years old, grow high to carry, the person also is born fair and clearly, of bright of a pair of eyes, let a person in the past soon hard dismiss from one's mind.
Await me 26 years old in those days, the peace talks before half an year girlfriend of 3 years parted company, cummer is Jiangxi person before, I am Hunan person, her parents does not want she is married too far, do not agree with our marriage.
I hear of from the back, do not part company with me 3 months, she comes home date to marry with others.
Sad be affirmation, but the family has married a person, I still am defending old memory to be not put is to imagine attraction from opposite sex.
Be in the first times when see Wang Jie is soft, I believe firmly, I am to like to go up really she. Her raise one's hand is cast sufficient a the sort of glamour that send out, make me deep-set among them.
I do not believe to fall in love at first sight previously, but after seeing Wang Jie is soft, I was believed. I admit, await me not to understand her in those days, not familiar also, she is to just came the new employee of our group, but see beautiful girl, in every man heart palpitant it is self-evident.
When actually king clean Rou Gang takes a plant, have a lot of boys chasing after her.
Perhaps be I compare composed simple minded, perhaps I am her spin (it is young group leader) , often be in she is busy the cause that she helps when coming nevertheless, I feel she has good opinion to me.
Then I strike while iron is hot, buy breakfast in the morning, eat late at night about in the evening, have a holiday make an appointment with her to go out to play, 3 months, she became my girlfriend.
02.
Two years that when just was together, we experienced the days of very sweet conjugal love really.
Wang Jie is soft very lively, need a person very enthusiastic also, the key is to bring back our family to like this risible girl very.
But, those who be together these year, I know, wang Jie is soft did not put what money actually, having 2/3 because of her salary is to hit come home, oneself stay only 1/3 do living expenses.
She says with me, body of her pa Mom is bad, the little brother also attends a college, be badly in need of wanting money in the home. Oneself serve as big daughter, behoove divides bit of care for parents.
I what await in those days did not feel what to have not only, be touched by her instead, she auxes would rather she selects tired site painstakingly, also want give presents parents, so virtuous woman can do my girlfriend, what what does not satisfy do I still have?
I am that 29 years old years, because have bit of culture, increase group benefit pretty good, raised a person in charge, also be that a year, my Xiang Wangjie is soft proposed.
She agreed, taking me to buy her Na Mei's far from precious ring, laugh one face tears in eyes.
When but follow her parents,discussing, her parents says to want the betrothal gifts of fifty thousand and ten however.
Actually I have fifty thousand and ten that time, worked after all so old, have some of stockpile more or less, but I plan is to give us to marry buy marriage room to use, plus marry to still must spend money, so money is used quite far from.
But Wang Jie is soft,say, her parents work laboriously raises her big, should marry a person now, point betrothal gifts is not beyond the mark also. I think, right also, be others raises big daughter after all.
Discussed with my parents then, demur of my pa Mom does not say, come down their scrape up 120 thousand take me completely.
My former thinks, from now on later, the marriage with I and king soft clean can continue go down happily too sweetly. But, till today, I discover, oneself are wrong.
03.
After marrying, I give wife my pay check, because I feel, in spend money respect, the woman is a bit better than the man from beginning to end, want us only two continue hard, regular meeting has a good still future.
Awaiting me in those days is a director, monthly pay has arrived 10 thousand controlled, and my wife, also became spin, also can take the salary of 559.
Eliminate rents a house, eliminate life pays expenses, eliminate room is borrowed, we two by the truth every month can be put below 10 thousand the left and right sides, also can put below 9119 fluctuation one year so.
And the little brother of wife, namely my wife's younger brother, the university also graduated, should also need not we are assisted all the time went down.
But this wife's younger brother, read university is 3 shed an university, after graduation unluckily have grandiose aims but puny abilities, do not become high low not. Disrelish this suffering, disrelish that tired, disrelish this boss narrow-minded, disrelish that boss bad contact with, graduate one year also did not find the job of 8 classics, full day is on the street east You Xi swings.
When doing not have money, look for his elder sister to act like a spoiled child, my wife also be used to is worn he, always of 3000 hit him.
These I did not say more, not be what big money after all, just say with wife, let her persuade to persuade wife's younger brother well, want socially hardheaded, not too have grandiose aims but puny abilities.
Wife always can say at that time, he is small still, it is a child, had not taken what pain again as a child, play two years first along with him.
I say, 24 still is dot, we are 24 years old when, go up outside cross a class several years.
Wife should not return a responsibility, rise sleep.
Did not pass how long, wife's younger brother shifted a car suddenly. My heart thinks, be farther-in-law mother-in-law at the outset does the money of that stipple ceremony that I give take wife's younger brother to buy a car? But this boy connects serious work to be done not have, what to buy a car to work to use?
Who knows, when I ask me wife, she hesitates in speech at the beginning. Be asked by me from the back urgent, she says, I help him buy this car, you are not to say he is faineant! I buy a car to run to him the net restricts a car, I gave 100 thousand to pay to him, the car is borrowed let him himself return, such he also has pressure, unapt all the day east You Xi swung.
100 thousand ah! My doing does not eat one year to be not drunk also just 9119. Can be my wife, do not agree through mine unexpectedly, take out the 100 thousand little brothers that give him this not dry one's proper business to buy a car. Want to know, await in those days, we did not decorate even the building, oneself do not have a car.
That is I get angry to her for the first time, can be her however more subdued, say she has only so a little brother, do an elder sister assist him to come to who help him, you do elder sister's husband do not help calculated, I help him be said by you even.
See wife cries pear is beautifully to take pluvial look, I at once the heart is soft. 100 thousand 100 thousand, authority becomes this one year I worked in vain, anyway money or meeting earn come back. Then, ground of bump of fart bump fart fools her.
04.
But I did not think of, this 100 thousand ability are merely begin.
In 3 years two later, marriage of wife's younger brother, she not throat ground was taken 50 thousand come out him; The house of farther-in-law mother home is renovated, she was taken again 30 thousand come out.
These I not know the inside story, still arrived final area, namely this year, feel already enough to money buys store of a business again in the home when me, when talking about good value to prepare to pay the following day with intermediary even, I just discover, in check of my that piece of pay, lying have trifling only 80 thousand.
We marry 7 years, go out to live expenditure, eliminate chummage, the charge of eliminate child, eliminate room is borrowed, press what the truth put 500 thousand more than sufficient on this piece of card. I every monthly wages is close now 20 thousand, she also has 8000, but reality gave me to mark staggering blow however, put 80 thousand only unexpectedly.
I run furiously to challenge she, money which went?
She may see I send so big disposition for the first time, just say, these year, she gives the money that wife's younger brother buys a car, the car is borrowed from the back also she returns there is car of period of time to borrow when still rising; Marriage of wife's younger brother she was taken 50 thousand, but she took unripe child of wife's younger brother again 20 thousand; Native place house renovated her to take 30 thousand, but have second go back her mom falls ill, she was taken again 20 thousand; But this is not big head, big head is this year she is in a county to wife's younger brother unexpectedly bought one flatlet, head pay used nearly 200 thousand.
I temporarily giddy, within an inch of is grown at once.
Yes, whats had wife's younger brother now, house car, wife child, even the just a little of altogether of betrothal gifts money that the father-in-law still left to include me to take the past at the outset to him 100 thousand, simply recumbent I a few years this a ready source of money is short time was on life summit summit.
Can be me, house or that covers little room, the car still does not know to be in which corner, the person deposits money to also be done not have so to middleaged and abrupt discovery, more lamentable is, discover so old before exert one's utmost effort, hardship is hit going all out is to raising family of wife's younger brother unexpectedly.
I sit on sofa, the whole body is faint, feel suddenly oneself life actually so funny and absurd.
The wife sits in aside, she is so beautiful still, so white still fair-skinned, but my discovery is like him already extinct all hope for to future.
I say: "Clean is soft, tomorrow, we went handling divorce card! We went handling divorce card!!
People often says, sad not die at the heart greatly.
It is axiom really.
05.
Here, I must say, this Mr Li, also be a heart really big.
Above all the wife is right of the little brother assisting is not bout two, also not be the sort of of 349 take, however at every turn by tens of thousands take, mr Li however a bit did not put this issue on the heart.
Do not call in oneself salary gets stuck to stop, you at least family capital moves toward daily bother about unapt also fall to today this degree ah.
As to this Miss Wang, excuse me my speak bluntly, such woman basically gets happiness very hard, the family that joins oneself does not know cherished person, how to meet those who get others cherish again?
Marriage, not be a man one the individual's responsibility, however two people carry a hand to come, joint efforts, ability runs a home had maintained.
Regrettablly, this Miss Wang, of one mind is thinking his little brother, forgot oneself husband and family however, final ability takes divorce empty after the show.
, END,
Discuss now: You feel, the woman is in after getting married, it is normal to assist a married woman's parents' home?
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