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The man feels, the woman after marrying is me; And the woman feels, everything of the man after marrying is me.
So, appeared in marriage a lot of malapropos " of course " .
The man feels, the woman after marrying does her washing cook photograph husband godchild is of course, the woman thinks, the man makes money raising the home to hand in salary to get stuck also is of course.
This kind indescribable " of course " , a lot of come from at be opposite " an organic whole of husband and wife " the mistake is unscrambled. Many people think, an organic whole of husband and wife, it is two people are in after marrying, be without borderline not to divide us with respect to this, be in naturally economic respect also is such.
But in marriage, even if is the husband and wife that each other is an organic whole, go up in economic problem also happening of hard to avoid thes upper and lower teeth not meeting properly.
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Some people feel, 2 people of husband and wife make money jointly, should together controlling economic source, this money that put is being put together, the money of this expenditure is spent together.
Also somebody thinks, the man makes money the perfectly justified that raise the home, and the salary that feminine responsibility is administer good man gets stuck. Dominated the man's economy only, ability restrains a man prepare off the rails heart at any time thoroughly.
So, two people are in after marrying, to show the loyalty to marriage, the man should give his pay check wife canal, can reflect the sincerity that gives him not only so, also can let wife acquire more safe move at the same time.
Actually, this kind of idea, a lot of moment are some one party is self-righteous.
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On this world, everybody is unique, same every paragraphs of marriage also cannot duplicate.
Spend likeness year old years old year after year, every years old of year old annual person is different.
Marriage also is such, it is one male one female union, but each circumstance always is all the different kind differs however.
If you do not understand yourself the disposition of other in part, do not understand the fundamental current situation that oneself lives, however blindly others of follow the lead of, the marriage that can let you only and life become one ground chicken feather.
Watch elder sister is together two years with the husband, this short two years, they are managed broke down the first paragraph of marriage of each other life.
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The fuse of the divorce, it is the husband every month the pin money of 800 money.
Elder sister is expressed to be chased after before marriage, watch elder sister's husband is obedient to by every means to expressing elder sister, she says to go to east, he absolutely not dare westerly.
Once watch elder sister comes official holiday, of collywobbles fierce, and also ask for leave because of stomach trouble as watch elder sister's husband of the boy friend by chance at that time lie in bed.
Watch elder sister should drink brown sugar water, equipment brown sugar can be done not have in the home, watch sister said subliminally " you go to a supermarket be being bought to me " , demur of watch elder sister's husband does not say to still bearing stomach-ache really went to the supermarket outside one kilometer.
Those who express elder sister's husband is compliant, also be the critical factor that the prevail over all dissenting views that express elder sister holds to to marry him.
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Since after marrying, watch elder sister all the time the salary that the palm is accusing husband gets stuck, although express heart of elder sister's husband to have complaint, but she also was not put on the heart.
In the watch elder sister looks, husband gives wife to be in charge of be of course money.
Say the man is rich with respect to addle, fear oneself husband chaos spends money, every month gives watch elder sister watch elder sister's husband only the pin money of 800 money, she receives the fund of the others entirely return oneself have, had strict control.
Expressing elder sister's husband make a sale, need a dinner party occasionally, watch elder sister does not like Laogong to go out dinner party, what attend to money so is closer and closer.
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Watch brother-in-law ever said with watch elder sister for many times, the money with enough stock needs on him body, in order to answer all sorts of sudden states when the dinner party, 800 money spend every month not quite at all.
Since after marrying, go out every time dinner party, he dare not follow same before heroic spirit to work cloud old hand cringingly one brandish bought sheet, brought about popularity to also be differred many.
Watch elder sister's husband feels very hold back is bent, but the every time that express elder sister very bully gas, do not allow the resentment of old public the slightest amount or degree.
Advanced paragraph of time, watch elder sister's husband is malty wine comes home, put forward to divorce to watch elder sister stoutly.
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03
To watch elder sister and watch elder sister's husband, so called pin money, it is a fuse only nevertheless stopped.
Most woman saw the man cares about pin money only, had not wanted what to need after all in his heart however.
The man can choose to divorce because of gold question, because you moved his purse,not be, used his freedom because of you however, injured his reputation.
Each job has different property, the work that some men place is engaged in needs person arteries and veins, often go out dinner party nature also is of course.
More what is more,the rather that, among real life, friend of a few kin doesn't have again? The wife lets his husband often be in embarrassed condition, do this let his where there is outer part but character?
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Most man, when the wife that confronts oneself, OK and patient very much thing, but the bottom line that freedom and face are a man, now and then touch it is OK to be returned probably live in peace with each other, but if you challenge his bottom line all the time, when he is driven beyond forbearance, inevitable meeting chooses to part company with you.
In the home, the wife can act like a spoiled child with the husband, OK also be mischievous pretty tangles, but once gave a door, perhaps have alien attendant, the man that gives oneself please retains dignity and reputation.
You are in when defending him husband, also be in the marriage that safeguards each other, and yourself's public praise and face.
Understand your husband, hold the measure that each other get along in good marriage, what marital ability goes is farther.
I intelligent achieve formerly, borrowed surely investigate!
