From May 2002, step the entrance door that took funeral parlour, become funeral parlour woman formal chair one of the group, in ordinary formal chair post to go up, li Xiaoting (last) work to already had 17 years up to now. Now, she is funeral parlour of city of port of mussel of the Anhui province formal ministry undersecretary, political situation of mussel port citizen is round appoint committee member. Respecting emcee, the meeting that most person thinks of is sweet wedding. Be opposite however for them, although be emcee identity likewise, the death that what face everyday is cruelty however -- the place that works because of them is on the memorial meeting. Memory says Li Xiaoting, that still was May 2002, year only she 19 years old resolutely break through lay bias, step the entrance door that took city funeral parlour, the figure that chooses high, regular facial features, quite magnetic " broadcast antrum " , let a lot of coming funeral parlour attends leave ceremonial person experiences profundity. She is in ordinary formal chair post to go up, be like a day more than 10 years, plod is in forefront of funeral and interment, extend the service space of funeral parlour with outstanding language art, the youth that uses oneself and sweat sow the bounty that aspersing love silently, warm the heart of countless pain. In December 2008, as local city funeral parlour new house builds and investment is used, more female undergraduates join industry of funeral and interment, they have a beautiful name, "7 fairy " service group, in the meantime, this service group also is expanded by original 7 people present 30 much people, spread all over whole house each main station. In recent years, they with " it is see sb off of the person that die to life salute " for the tenet, sturdy " life has terminal service everlasting " target pursuit, the major that becomes a widely known serves a team. Besides formal chair beyond, li Xiaoting and her colleague returns the Bao Jie that can help ark of a few ice, bier wait to work. Li Xiaoting says, in funeral parlour, formal managing the job is funeral parlour contacts the main station with funeral most door, what see everyday is mixed leave crowd, those who hear also is to wail the cry of fetch. And the cognizance that funeral and interment is chaired is lifetime of pair of the person that die, it is a kind of special spirit more at the same time placatory, the requirement has taller language to convey art and situation palm to accuse skill, still need psychological dredge. According to place mortuary and consuetudinary, go to the fields wants to bury before 12 o'clock, everyday in the morning 7:30, li Xiaoting has begun the work -- put on very straight profession to take, slowgoing walk into leave hall, chair leave discuss form. From life of the person that the introduction dies, bow a portrait of the deceased of stand in silent tribute, look with reverence, end to the ceremony, remind note of family member of the person that die, one leaves the ceremony needs the left and right sides 30 minutes. Recollect those who remove oneself ten years to chair experience, get besides the station tired, word of that is to say is tired. The busiest when, one morning 67, have any opportunities that rest hardly, closet going in the job is one smooth trot. Be in especially burning hot summer, when to the remains of serious decay need leaves, effluvial diffuse whole leave the hall, relative of the person that die even those is covering nose, do not wish, and she does not have detestable expression however, stand fast to go up in oneself post, the person that make a living calmingly and relative of the person that die are serving. As a result of working requirement, need arises for long, her leg ministry sufferred from varicosity, bear hard sorely, cannot walk normally sometimes, but she still holds to. The people that loses a relative is a special group, it is difficult to should discharge care to solve for them not only, should resolve the contradiction that arises to it more, a lot of industry fear sign always should note more in the job, have a bit inadvertent, cause funeral door possibly to complain, the likelihood brings needless trouble to the unit, even economically loss. Lose a dear one momently, it is life in the the most painful, most helpless when, I hope to pass considerate, close service, the person that let die rests, let a relative obtain warmth and solace. Accordingly, before she is chaired every time elaborate preparation, "When condoling, stalk of grain without the speech in my hand, all words are written down be in the heart. " be engaged in formal chair 10 one's remaining years, she with great concentration learns and perfecting job of emcee of funeral and interment all the time. Every person that die has different story, every relative has diverse demand, and different age, profession, memorial is endless also and identical. For this, she gets online consult data, consult expert of concerned etiquette and custom and psychology to seek advice from division, designed those who differ to manage a statement for the different person that die. Identity of the person that die different, age is disparate, but identical is her that " the life respond to a curtain call of the person that let die is more perfect, take trifling solace to the person that be born " heart. "Hope to let life leave become have honor more, this reflected the estimation of opposite life. " " lose a dear one momently, it is life in the the most painful, most helpless when, we hope to pass considerate, close service, the person that let die rests, let its relative obtain warmth and solace. The Li Xiaoting in the life often is all smiles, and she in the job always is very earnest. To this, she says earnestly, this one profession does not have laugh, but the esteem that means pair of person that die, right the humanitarian consideration of family member of the person that die. Each days, she can meet the setting of take leave of of life and death. Sometimes, family member of the person that die is heartstricken, cry loudly, before she goes up actively, comfort, guide them to go anteroom stabilizes mood of one conditions or feelings of the lower levels. The person that face what die suddenly to die sometimes, its relative has a sentiment when extreme, ill-mannered phenomenon, she is to avoid first its ability, advise in earnest the ground gives dredge, be considerate ground is funeral door consider, the understanding that gets funeral door relative in order to ask for and cooperate, it is difficult that ground of leave no stone unturned discharges care to solve for them, and do not know to asperse however rear how much to issue miserable the tear with grievance. Her memory says, in November 2005, because reason dies,company of Xi Menzi of Germany of Chu state city is stationed in district general manager, place asks high quality finishs the service of appearance of lay a coffin in a memorial hall of foreign nationality personage, funeral parlour of Chu state city comes round to recourse. Li Xiaoting knows very well responsibility is major, she consults relevant data, the funeral according to the foreigner is consuetudinary, engineered meticulously to leave ceremony, ling Defang's personage is well-content, gave height the opinion, produced favorable international effect. On the base that gains certain honor, li Xiaoting is gone after ceaselessly perfect, accomplish start well and end well, be apt to to do be apt to to become. As the window of funeral parlour, chair working shoulder heavy responsibilities, bear the weight of annual nearly 5000 leave ceremony. Issue the citizen's higher and higher funeral arrangement demand to satisfy new form, she learns the service concept with advanced other place actively, strengthen perfected service function, all satisfy the need of funeral door possibly the most greatly. The sister of other brother sister of she and person of the same trade communicates and share a result, uninterrupted " charge " , examine ceaselessly through the means such as post training study result, get farther promotion. She still is unit of brother of countrywide each province, city to study the data that provided a system, from leave ceremonial flow, memorial is arranged, the language conveys skill, characteristic chairs musical editor to wait a moment, she is without reservation share and impart them, accomplished " rose giving a person, the hand has lingering fragrance " . The development as the society and people thinking idea are more and more ongoing, rose 2016, local funeral parlour advances appearance of characteristic lay a coffin in a memorial hall to serve with all one's strength. Regard formal ministry as the undersecretary, li Xiaoting every time plots the life orbit of the person that die a little with the family member, what has she done all one's life, have what contribution to the family. The album that designs big screen next, leave music, again compose manages a statement. She says, her job and " journalist " the place that has likeness, if come up against,a few have famous the spent person that die, still can get online examine a data. In she and colleague joint efforts, formal service is accomplished already majestic and solemn and respectful, deepen the understanding of opposite life meaning ceaselessly, promote a profession the state ceaselessly, the service of appearance of lay a coffin in a memorial hall that allows individuation in inheritance China filial piety, promote foundation of culture of advanced funeral and interment to go up, " thick raise thin bury, civilized hold a memorial ceremony for " appearance of perforative lay a coffin in a memorial hall serves the concept from beginning to end, conduct masses change idea, abandon mortuary and abusive, behavior of funeral and interment of Xiang Wenming, economical, environmental protection dresses, respect funeral door desire adequately, contented mutiple level need, won authority approbate become reconciled to judge, ceremony of lay a coffin in a memorial hall the service is turned gradually to new height. She (among) the specific characteristics with say this industry has funeral and interment certain, this kind of characteristic often originates people does not understand ours, group of dry group, love group, concentrated travel, energy, this is my professional target; , fight every day the forefront that working, let the volition of adamancy of our in order to, gentle state of mind, taking a genuine heart, the heart that be thankful, it is life see sb off with love! More atlas and deepness person narrative, click attention graph to say Jiang Huai please, bring you to have the visual life of temperature, greeting illicit letter provides story clue.