The ancients cloud: The dutiful son gives below bludgeon. The life is in contemporary we very can clear cent gives this is feudal scum, it is incorrect. But be in those who face the child not sensible, piquant when making trouble, mom of very rare pa can keep back inmost fury, incorrect child abreacts. But the grown child in the environment is beaten and scold in this kind, tremendous scar can arise in mentally, can affect them badly even the following life, for instance, traumatic one: Recreant and timid, self-abased and weak. Of parents at every turn the harm that growl abuses indrawn child cannot be stroked more smooth, the child was not doing a thing good, grumpy parents is met have a fit. Traumatic 2: Violent tendency. Parents errs in the child or the child is beaten and scold to undertake abreacting when the mood is not smooth, but the child can passive bear, cannot abreact. Or they can pass what learn to come according to parents to beat and scold other, toy, flowers and plants, animal to undertake abreacting only. Long-term life depresses depressed childhood years in this kind, the child can have appearance play the ape with parents, become violent. Resemble Duo the fat tiger in A dream is same, be in for a long time of mom in beating and scold, grow, can bully other little girls. After he is grown, violent tendency can let him also start work to his child, wife beat and scold, namely the home that common saying says is cruel. Traumatic 3: Hate another person, chill aggressive. In parental growl the grown child in scolding, can become chill gradually, will pretend oneself with inhospitality, protect oneself. Use a suit thorn to protect his like hedgehog, do not suffer the harm of the outside. Be very fond of in what see someone else has father and mother, parental tenderness is considerate, they can be hostile to that individual, what they have envy and hate. A lot of turn over social character to be mistreated because of what suffer parents in one's childhood namely scold with growl, just can form. Because have surely,all things has if really, parents to the child, must have patience, ten million cannot impatient. Especially the child's puerile heart, once suffer scar hind,restore very hard.