Let the child choose family | | | Most child once faced the choice that live: "Like mom or like father? " , " you choose grandmother or grandma " the problem of and so on Yours Excellency to the part for, look at the child's embarrassed and embarrassed look, it seems that very interesting, can be children however very kink is painful, they do not hope to answer such question. So parents hear such issue, can shift a topic, do not let the child face choice. Compare the child and someone else | | | Some adult like to compare the child very much, this is harm to two children, hope to be criticized without who, and this or " foil type " criticism, let the child feel from others of personal be not a patch on, be in alive self-abased in, have very big effect to the nurturance of disposition. When so parents hear oneself child to be compared, no matter be complimentary,still be criticism should be prevented, although protect oneself child,also be to protect other child. Cheat the child to drink | | | Ever had had such news: Father looks after children attend friend party, but the son is Youred Excellency fill wine, some children cause cerebrum loss because of alcoholism, become gawkish, some children die. This also is commonner phenomenon, alcohol has loss to the child's liver, then poses risk. So parents teach his child to cannot drink first, the child also should let follow his when attending a party, do not give someone else an opportunity that can be exploited to sbs advantage. Provocative big child and the relation of 2 child | | | This kind of circumstance happens after 2 embryoes are born normally, they can tell the child normally " father mother had brother little sister not to want you " , know to amuse the child cry, they just burst out laughing praise the child is cute, caused big child and the concern between 2 child finally disharmonious. Encounter this kind of situation, parents should tell the child parental love won't be changed immediately, others is flimflam. With the intimate contact of stranger | | | Old people may be not clear, the child has scared heart to stranger, after the friend that becomes father and mother sees the child, the requirement is felt hold in the arms, probably most parents feels this it doesn't matter, but the child however very fear, uncomfortable, and some Yours Excellency when the cheek of clutch child true forcibly, let the child do not have good impression more to stranger.