You say, does contemporary youth fear marriage?
The ego that I think to of most person fear is not this graveyard after marrying is mining. . .
However marital feast does, betrothal gifts is drawn out, purse becomes absolutely empty. . . scared!
Be, calculate carefully, photo of colorful marriage gauze, dream, marry get banquet of Buddhist monastic discipline, grand marriage, honeymoon to travel... almost each, the price does not poor.
Summed up roughly make preparations a bridal flow, have nearly 200 fully!
The netizen breathes out greatly: "Mom, son's wife is married in China too expensive, I did not marry! I did not marry!!
Wisdom grind advisory data shows, every bridal to new personality average expenditure, be 76 thousand.
2016, marriage market dimensions is 861 billion yuan about, predict market dimensions will amount to 940.8 billion yuan 2020.
8000 much, it is about 2016 of GDP of Korea whole nation very one of.
"All one's life, want to be patted more good-lookingly than them "A reader backstage shares the mood:
She is meddlesome near, preparation pats marriage gauze to illuminate.
Marriage gauze is illuminated became a necessary accept as a souvenir already!
Because,also be these idea, marriage gauze photography grows in China fill do not decline, become custom of a newly-married even.
A lot of people feel, marriage gauze is the west, marriage gauze illuminates affirmation also is passed from the west.
Not be actually.
Hesperian is done not have at all " marriage gauze photographs " concept.
They think generally, one person lifetime can wear marriage gauze only, be in namely bridal that day.
Most Euramerican husband and wife won't film before marriage gauze of a marriage is illuminated technically, choose to let cameraman record the moment of next bridal spots however.
One is to place pat, one is to catch pat.
Former more good-looking, latter is more natural.
Without the cent that has whoed to who bad.
Since not be Euramerican,transmit, why is the Chinese fond of to pat marriage gauze to illuminate in shadow building?
Its are really clear face, people has the ceremony that wears long gown, unlined long gown to pat one Zhang Jie marriage to illuminate.
As time elapse, the demand that people reflects to marriage gauze is increasing also, the pattern of shadow building also plays to gain ground more more.
2000 around, with romance, only the United States' celebrated Han drama begins to occupy Chinese screen by force.
First time of a lot of people knew, "Original wedding is returned so can romantic " .
Subsequently and come, eliminate big all sorts of expense outside patting marriage gauze to illuminate namely.
For instance, the man before marrying must propose first, hand of ground of odd genu genuflect holds rose and ring in both hands, male like Han drama advocate in that way;
For instance, marriage give up must be Buddhist nun of X of the base of a fruit perhaps blocks X inferior, want belt getting, resemble TV ad in in that way;
For instance, marriage banquet must be held in high-grade hotel, marriage gauze is illuminated must pat exterior, honeymoon to must travel...
Of marriage " the ceremony feels " give no cause for more criticism.
But the problem depends on, a lot of people are not to care about a ceremony to feel really.
Torment oneself, still change will not send the satisfaction from the heart -- it is prestige exercise evil influence actually.
Be in China, one the individual's thing, always need the person all round him to decide jointly;
If a person is not listened to all round the person's opinion, act wilfully, so the concern net that he can is in by him abandons.
Marriage is same also, be in China, this is the thing of two family.
The man does how old feast, give how many betrothal gifts, represent the good faith of bridegroom not only, more be being married on behalf of the bride is creditable.
Some are so bridal, want to be held twice respectively in bridegroom home town and bridal home town;
When planning marriage banquet, how many desk was placed when the child that recollects kin friend neighbour first marries, the effort inside the range that permits in purse exceeds them...
As if do morer, can represent the man's attention more, let woman father and mother feel the daughter is treated cautiously.
Those who suffer bad-mouth " Chinese ceremony feeling "The place that makes a person uncomfortable depends on, immature Chinese and Western is shirt-sleeve, make Chinese type bridal become perform like.
Shutting an eye to be able to think of the flow that marry.
The wedding of very much now average household also can do so that resemble star same " dream " / visual China
Nearsightedness frequency platform is arisen, let more person see, original wedding still can be a show of large talent show.
Need not ask others, bridegroom him bride is displayed on the stage sing, hot dance with sth in one's hands, say cross talk even.
Below such video little not a of the netizen:
"This year did not nod talent to dare not marry. "This year did not nod talent to dare not marry..
The bridegroom on wedding and bride are antistrophic / visual China
Not be talent the play is bad, it is most moment, the exert to one's utmost on the stage earns eyeball, the atmosphere that falls with the stage is not built completely.
Be moved back and forth to move back and forth on the stage like carved figure of a pair of new figure, or immerses oneself in the people below the stage to eat suddenly, or lowers his head to play a mobile phone.
Resembling is make a gesture to give the impression of doing sth, in the mood that most person did not blend in beatific new personality.
Such wedding, to new personality, compared with happiness, more is overworked.
"It is a dining room nevertheless cursory ground plays the part of cathedral, the priest changes emcee, a bit marrow does not have western wedding in acquire, dine together in order to have a meal however instead gave priority to!
If dish is bad to eat, new personality still must not fall definitely grouse.
Should not say more, on wedding those " ugly performance appears in all " .
To go in for pomp, eat how to much do to appear too " miserable and shabby " ;
Ten pieces of tables in the assembly room, the dish on every pieces of table remnant many, baling also is not, refuse still feel distressed.
Also can give u.
The skill that the idea that wedding misshapes in people and marriage celebrate a company is held do, its meaning goes with photograph of its original intention already very far.
This kind of waste man power and money, with marriage celebrate a company coxcombical and costly, engineer machine-madely again, having the concern of countless ties.
Chengdu a pair of new personality, feel car of a person of extraordinary powers is insufficient air, motorcade used several bright red lubricious freight car, the bridegroom bride that is carrying bridal place to use is gigantic a placard, light rose is installed on every van / visual China
Bridal motorcade must want even numbers, include head car trailing car;
Car number can not be 4, because 4 ominous in Chinese. So a motorcade most at least also gets 6...
First one end 5, good luck head one end 7, all successful heads one end 9, long" east abstain from and lump of all of western wedding concept, the key is, new people to pursue auspicious, marriage celebrate a company to say whats are believed, where to come actually so much exquisite. " a friend that 11 holiday played 3 wedding spits groove.
Have the person of urgent matter, if be encountered on the road,grow to receive close motorcade longly, the hard to avoid in the heart emerges on one hard the anger that character says.
The safety of motorcade also is a problem.
" the current situation that marriage of current our country celebrates the market and think " in, the lengthen edition Lincoln that the awaits hire hire when the author discovers new people is very much does not poor, kaidilake car, it is to use likely secondhand old car changes his costume or dress.
Fluky, more not worth those thousands of money.
Marriage celebrate an industry to serve as have not normative industry, the doorsill is low, good and evil people mixed up, collect fees confused phenomenon cans be found everywhere.
Also pledge from element of personnel of course of study uneven, photography level is low, marriage car not time keeping, have emcee more formal difference, rely on to say bad word, tell Huang Duanzi, make a practical joke the circumstance of dynamic atmosphere exists.
Bridal, the wedding that to who does be?
Marriage gauze otherwise should be worn, bridal otherwise should do, real key, depend on two people that marry.
Hesperian holds wedding, and take wedding seriously, because be opposite for them, wedding is a kind of ceremony not only, still be a kind of acceptance to belief, celebration is holy and grave.
This holy acceptance, this solemn oath, just be bridal core.
Huang Lei is in " strange flower says " in say: I won't marry my daughter do not be willing to do the man that does wedding for her.
But, if marry two people want to do wedding far from, and by force of pressure, hold for close friends royal " show " , this is to burn money undoubtedly insignificant.
The field of air, luxurious marriage car, costly cate... everything is the costliest appearance.
Unluckily everything is not oneself.
Compere Dou Wentao ever gave " brother " had filled bout a place where people gather for various purposes.
Old before, a boy flounder that is not acquainted with him a few relations, find him to help him chair wedding.
Bridal occasion is quite grand, place had a person that has a face to show up.
Dou Wentao also " do sufficient play " , did not show a sth gives the trick out.
After feast, bridegroom is true to Dou Wentao confide character: "This wedding is false, do father and mother. Do father and mother..
Original, two people of bridegroom bride did not want conjugal plan.
Daylong motorcade attempers, luxurious brother battle array is to let once look do not go up neighbor sees bridegroom, how does him home have " occasion " .
Alleged and bridal, it is the farce of a feel sad constitutionally.
"Face this thing cannot give a definition for it. It resembles honor, unlike is honorary.
It cannot spend money buy, it can give man or woman substantial sense of pride.
It is empty, the man struggles for it, a lot of women die for it. It is aeriform, rely on to indicate people ability presence however. Rely on to indicate people ability presence however..
If old hind the marriage gauze that recollects oneself is illuminated and bridal, more, was to break how many money, met with how many blame, change close friends a few may be done not have so take a heart praise, is not wedding had much happiness that day...
not very the loss outweights the gain?
The means that uses 3 wool says: "If I do not like, again simple wedding also does not do; If I like, much trivaller ceremony is not disrelished. Much trivaller ceremony is not disrelished..