1, goodness should have a bottom line, easy should have a principle. Do not divide green red black and write, know pair of people are nice only, that meeting him disappoint a good intention. 3, previously me very fear to offend a person, dare not ask, not dare missay word, be afraid of awkward silence at an occasion, be afraid of by oversight, be afraid that the other side is grouchy, with reverence and awe face everybody. Regretful is, I did not get corresponding respect. 5, appearance decision may be together, disposition decision is comfortable do not suit together, material decides what can stabilize to be together, trustful decision can be together for a long time. 7, person, want to have pressure, but cannot collapse; OK and confused, but cannot acedia. Real life admonishs we: The person's destiny relies on him to struggle, do not hold an illusion, do not forgo a bit opportunity, do not halt effort one day!