Had heard of " ursine child " , had not listened " ursine kin " ? If you encounter these a few kinds of kin, ask what hesitate none to rancor go back, let the child be far from them! Do not feel embarrassed1, capture is worn the child kisses this kind of kin to let a person very be fed up with, although they kiss the child,be a kind of expression way that likes the child, but do not know you have this kind of feeling, meet in the child heart that sees others kisses him at random very midriff should, do not say the child can be affected by the bacterium first, the person that loves child addiction now is very much also, everybody says to forbid to be able to be encountered, if encounter this kind of circumstance to want to adopt the child immediately, politely refuses, of course the family member besides the child (grandfather grandma, grandfather grandmother except) , premise is to should assure clean sanitation. 2, do you love father and mom more which? Although the relative that asks this kind of word is joking, but replying to the child also is, replying also is not, if answer love father is some more, kin can say your Mom for certain work laboriously is born you, raise you in vain is a supercilious look wolf really, if answer love mom is a few morer, also meet in father heart uncomfortable, if answer two to love, kin can say those who deceive people to the child lies again, this kind provocative the kin that concerns personally or little contact had better. 3, your Mom had the second not to love you this issue is done gently so that the old fears him disfavor wipes tear secretly, weigh the darling in abdomen of pairs of an olden is big mom to be full of animosity, bring about parentage not harmonious.