Civil | My favour Qi
My teacher once had written a word: "Life is alive, be inferior to meaning thing nine times out of ten. If we always see comedy, do not go seeing tragedy, how to face the nine times out of ten of this life again. How to face the nine times out of ten of this life again..
This is I look " she faulty " when, in brain often a word of thrill through.
" she faulty " , very the work of low pressure. When I look, the heart is very painful, cannot help weeping all the time.
I too feel distressed Mu Lian was born. My doing to Mu Jing, too indignant also. I want to say, indulgent boy friend is martial the daughter that abuses oneself, mu Jing is really " foolish " woman.
As a woman, for the love that oneself go after, go after a man to bring her safe sense, chose to abandon oneself child thereby. Such " carry not clear " , pardonable Mu Jing can spend the time so miserably.
Mu Jing is looked at martial mistreat daughter Mu Lian to be born, is she not afflictive?
She is afflictive certainly.
In the heart that I believe Mu Jing, be very fond of Mu Lian to be born. Accompany Mu Lian hard to generate all the time from her grow to be able to see. She also hopes to be able to give birth to a happy family to Mu Lian. Just, want to reach this desire, too difficult.
The life of orphan few mother is too hard really.
Mu Jing is tired was afraid of, so, after bonze fierce is together, her life had new hope. Martial family circumstances is pretty good, mu Jing thinks, had martial a such men can be relied on, herself also need not resemble again so hard before.
Mu Jing martial regarded as on the life help straw, then, she is infinite and indulgent martial mistreat to what daughter Mu Lian is born. Because too care about martial, it is so before him, mu Jing is more and more cowardly.
She dare not check martial, even, she pleases by every means martial. She thinks such, go down with respect to hold together of can good the be on speaking terms of two their people land. Of Ke Mujing " cowardly " , let me see the ugly one side in human nature.
Mu Jing is dozen of move nevertheless " cowardly " cover will conceal his " selfish " stopped.
Mu Jing is the woman of each illicit undoubtedly. What be born compared with daughter Mu Lian is happy, she more care to whether oneself can pass chicly wanton. She is too enough the life that looks after children alone, her hope is martial the backer that can become her life to go up, the backing on spirit, let her no longer so painstaking.
But, martial and essential do not like Mu Lian to be born, he feels, it is redundant that Mu Lian is born with that, he wishs Mu Lian is born to disappear on this world at once.
Oneself daughter and oneself man, became cannot two shirt-sleeve contrary people. Finally, the two upright unbalance of balance, mu Jing chose martial. A man that she feels to be able to give her better life.
One exchanges his happy woman with sacrificial daughter happiness, too selfish really. Such woman, do not have responsibility heart. Mu Lian is born is a child only, she did not choose the influence of own life, also do not have the ability that can make oneself happy. It is unfortunate that she is returned happily, want rely on her mom Mu Jing.
And Mu Jing however the happiness for oneself, stripped Mu Lian's unripe happiness. But she is done so, can she get wanting really " happy " ?
Scarcely meets.
Want to know, each scar that Mu Jing causes on child body, also be actually in injury herself.
Martial mistreat Mu Lian to be born every time, it is painful in Mu Jing heart. Just, she dare not revolt, can bear only. But fine think of rise, mu Jing every time is borne cowardlily, the injury gets far more than is Mu Lian lays one person, actually, it is her more.
The person says, mother and daughter connects a heart. See when Mu Jing Mu Lian is unripe when sufferring grievance to be able to laugh to her as before, her expression accumulate contained too much and too much, but on the whole, she is sad.
The one act with my very deep impression, it is Mu Jing sees Mu Lian gives birth to the princess skirt that wears white gauze, after wiping lipstick, she is particularly indignant. But she is martial without blame, criticise Mu Lian is unripe however " dirty " .
I see at this moment, feel Mu Jing lives too pathetically. She knows perfectly well this work is the hand with martial out, but she not dare blame is martial, send disposition in daughter Mu Lian to give birth to a body.
She serves as so, be to be in covert censure the incapacity of herself?
Because do not have skill, so ability can bend house person to fall. Because want to seek a backer, just meet so submit to humiliation, do a few want even oneself disgustful oneself thing.
Mu Jing is used " cowardly " change this kind " screwy " day, she is cannot happy.
And her misfortune, more than still hereat.
Her of one mind wants to get the love of a man, but " dare " the man that abuses her daughter, be absolutely impossible to love her.
Mu Jing thinks the yield that uses his, compromise can get martial love, but her love, too low-down. Zhang Ailing says: "Like a person, meeting lowliness arrives in dust, open a flower to come next. Open a flower to come next..
But Zhang Ailing is in her low-down love, did not open a flower to come at all. In the love of she and introduced from the northern and western nationalities or from abroad Lan Cheng, her too spoony, hurt herself finally.
What I advocate all the time is, we can think love is blind, but the bottom line that cannot abandon oneself for love stoutly. A paragraph of love that comes in order to trample him bottom line is changed, not be true love at all.
You think you gave him all, can be in his eye, these are worthless.
Woman, fasten really foolish.
One can make you assuming the man of the bottom line, enough proves he loves you far from.
I did not see really martial love Mu Jing. If he loves Mu Jing, won't harm her child absolutely, hurt her pride, her love watchs twist. Let her feel, such allergy, screwy love, it is true love actually.
Martial destroyed Mu Jing not only, even her daughter Mu Lian gives birth to finish. So we should like to ask: "What can Mu Jing get finally? "What can Mu Jing get finally??
Actually, ending is destined already.
Lin Xuzhi gives birth to a mother to say: "Some debt want him to return, even if also still want to return all one's life. Even if also still want to return all one's life..
Mu Jing gave martial the opportunity that mistreats Mu Lian to be born, this, it is the debt that she owes Mu Lian to be born. I think, she also is to should use those who go returning all one's life certainly.
Although, this is work of a movie and TV only, but carry this work, had refracted the real life that gave us. Say really, mu Jing such mother, in real life actual existence.
We had seen such woman in news. I still had seen even the netizen appeals on the net, the boy friend that says her can hit his child, how to ask everybody she should do?
I believe is me not only, when still a lot of netizens see this appeals, can enrage the tooth is crawlily, next ground of set a high demand on somebody in the hope that he will improve goes pointing to this mother " cowardly " .
Such man, staying to spend the New Year even?
This is the netizen gives a reply a maximum sentence. Right, I believe we are most person, look thoroughly. But I also believe, since somebody asks so, her heart also has kink really.
So, I want to advise those to resemble Mu Jing sincerely today such woman: Asked you to must not lose your in so called love. You can pursue your happiness, but you should be judged carefully, what kind of love, just be happy really.
That dare is opposite your child's bad man, not be to love you really absolutely.
One does not love your man, how is even if you are right,he borne indulgent, how don't have concede of bottom line ground, he won't fall in love with you because of this. He still can be worn with your hold together sweethearts concerns, no more than is you can hold him in both hands, make him contented " stand high above the masses " attitude, the vanity that satisfies him thereby stopped.
Finally, I still think with Mu Jing such wife says, must not harm oneself child for a man that does not love you. You want to know, the child follows you is blood thick at water, everybody cannot part you. And to the man: Get, I I hope; Break, my life.
You want to remember: Can get a fine matchs, nature is lucky, if do not have, set sb's teeth also wants to go down well too. Only such, your life just won't leave a regret.