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Xiao Mou of 47 years old fastens Guangxi guest city to promote guest Ou Mou to press down teacher of dean of one elementary school, mathematics, semester came Summer 2018 December 2019 during semester, to satisfy individual sexual desire, seek sexual excitement, use capacity of its mathematics teacher, in order to correct, examination exercise is cover, wait in seat of classroom dais, student, office avowedly public, for many times, the 3 grade that teach for long to its 17 schoolgirls (all not full 14 one full year of life) carry out act indecently towards behavior.
Via after the court is tried, thinking, xiao Mou is seek sexual excitement, wait for public place in seat of classroom dais, student or office avowedly, for many times, long act indecently towards children, the clue is abominable, behavior already made crime of act indecently towards children, should be in set term of imprisonment of 5 years of above, and from heavy punishment, sentence Xiao Mou set term of imprisonment 7 years lawfully then 6 months, prohibit at the same time its carry out ending day to rise 4 years from penalty inside pursue education and relevant job.
Yesterday, of actor horse Yi is in small gain dispatch, make clear angrily: "As a mother, think act indecently towards children person blamed blame! Lifelong must not be engaged in teaching career taboo children! " divulge the move is right in the word act indecently towards person of anger and law of the law in be opposite but.
Actually, to each mother, see such sentencing punish, can feel too light! This follows like trafficking the child, should be punished again! Because of it not only finish a child, also destroyed a family! Even if does not handle death sentence, without period always want, even if not without period, also should sentence a few years, even if is not sentenced a few years, most at least also should make these devil lifelong must not be engaged in teaching relevant job.
And this individual " wrapping around the wolf of sheepskin " in act indecently towards 17 minor children sentenced 7 years only however 6 months! What can accept least of all is, just prohibit 4 years cannot be engaged in teaching the job, that is to say after 4 years, this " diabolical " will OK again student of return dais damage!
Chinese law is too good-tempered really!
In recent years, case of act indecently towards children happens from time to tome in each district, because a lot of children fear to dare not phonate, a lot of parents fail to cause take seriously, bring about fail to discover in time and report a case to the security authorities.
And how to let minor learn ego protection, outside the assessment that should strengthen pair of education personnel besides the orgnaization and management, parents should teach the child how to know ego to protect, only child itself had the capacity that ego protects, ability lets these " diabolical " nowhere does it. This kind of education should grab as a child, especially the parent that the home has a girl, when do this teach no time to delay!
One, the body that protects oneself, do not allow other lay a finger onEducation of this kind of idea should undertake as a child, had jumped over earlier, and want repeat to the child ceaselessly, let this kind of idea be formed confirmedly in the child's brain.
When the child is small, can this form comes to draw of have the aid of education, tell them, the place that vest underpants enclothes, do not allow someone else lay a finger on stoutly.
When the child is nodded greatly, can act means to deepen a sense with the story. For instance, parents acts hellion, how should when teaching the child to encounter similar problem, refuse, the intention that explains hellion to them and meeting cause what harm to wait to our body.
Additional, tell the child even, not all growing so that resemble good person is good person, no matter who be, even if be a teacher, if their behavior already " offside " when, we should say bravely " not " !
2, do not want stranger of pay attention to besides smile or say hello to beyond other strike up a conversationWant to teach the child not to contact stranger at will, not right stranger is too friendly, too close to stranger behavior, should raise vigilance in time and be far from.
Do not answer the ask the way of stranger to request easily, if want an answer,also should leave stranger 1 be in beyond rice. Prohibit in stranger home, no matter the other side is old person or pregnant woman, cannot head for alone stoutly, without any exception!
3, the gift that refuses adult and the requirement that raise, occupied should tell father and mother immediatelyBesides stranger, parents tells the child even, do not accept the gift of adult casually, no matter the other side is out at any reason or excuse, politely declines of the other side well-intentioned.
If the other side puts forward to come home with him or try body of lay a finger on the requirement of any place, should say stoutly not! No matter who the other side is, should maintain certain distance with its, do not let the other side take advantage. When discovering against the law of cherish of the other side, should not get along with its alone again, appropriate time should learn to seek a help.
Additional, the most important is, tell the child, occupied must come home tell father and mother. A few jobs that produce outside to the child, when they come back to pour out to you, parents should know patience to listen attentively to, do not make conclusions too early, do not believe the child, we must stand in the child here, give him support and support, let what the child experiences you take seriously, produce safe move thereby, outer happening the question also is willing to come home to be communicated with you more.
4, parents should do good the following1, the meaning that helps the child understand a gender to invade, also cannot ignore to the boy
Now besides the girl, a lot of allergy person still can look for the boy to do it, so parental scarcely should ignore the education to the boy.
Very much now family be ashamed is taught at the gender, bring about a few children too pure, understand what kind of ability calculates a gender to invade far from, parents must make great efforts more in this respect, let the child understand the specific meaning that the gender invades.
The content that communicates above all wants incorporate, if you tell the child " your body is cannot let a person feel casually " , this meeting makes the child a little muddled, do not have a law to have a specific idea. You should say some more specificly.
For instance, the teacher touchs your head, when expressing to encourage, this does not calculate a gender to invade. But if the teacher feels your arm, cheek, you were about to notice, the buttock that if the other side continues,feels you, genital or when using other excuse to let your disrobe, these are the gender invades behavior, you must be gotten say bravely " not " , learn to cry for help or escape.
Want to emphasize to the child additionally, if was invaded by teacher sex, perhaps start work use a base, must tell family for a short while, also want to tell the leader of the school, the leader that invites parents and school helps you together. Because the behavior of the other side already made crime, need not worry so fear.
2, do not give alien to attend the child, prevent acquaintance to commit the crime
A lot of convict are very clever now, it is to seek acquaintance right-hand seat, so the parent does not give alien to attend as far as possible, let child place oneself very easily below your circumstance without enough understanding at danger in.
Additional, to the teacher, because of authority, not simply the student is enough to them accredit, connect parents also won't somewhat guard, feel the teacher is a very decent job very to him child even.
Actually to teacher exorbitant " take care of " , the parent also should raise vigilance, because,avoid " accredit " let the child be harmed.
3, the unusual response that wants attentive observation child at ordinary times
A lot of parents busy now the job, at ordinary times outside the achievement besides attention child, care the thing beyond achievement rarely. Encounter a problem when the child actually when, their expression and psychosis can appear unusual.
For instance, wash his hands often bathe, become silent or close oneself in house not to wish to come out to wait a moment. These change need parents to observe at ordinary times attentively, once discover doubt is like enroach on behavior, should look for the child in time to communicate and call the police, do not hinder to keep silence at fame.
4, had withheld relevant crime evidence to be opposite in time cure of psychological problem interpose
If affirm the child suffers sexual enroach on, must have withheld relevant crime testimony, be like briefs, recording or the report sheet that go to a hospital checking and relevant data, because the court is exquisite evidence, your evidence is more sufficient, crack a criminal case will be more seasonable, the opportunity that win the lawsuit is greater also.
Additional, encounter this kind of thing to be affected to the child's psychology very big, calling the police processing while look for psychological doctor even in time to do psychotherapy for the child, at that time, psychological doctor jumps over early intervention to had been jumped over, lest makes the child long be enmeshed with nightmare in, cause permanent harm.
5, write finallyEvery child is angel, must not because of parents neglectful let anguish accompany child lifetime, at ordinary times outside the study besides the child, parents should take out time to accompany the child more, communicate with them more, the school that understands them more lives, be taught only with parental intention, go guiding, ability lets the child avoid suffer harm, avoid tragic happening.