Every arrive answer of the end of the year dish summary [the beginning of the year plans] when, resembling is to oneself one kind on spirit destroys, what some people finish is very beautiful, some person targets are annual same.
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Nan of my friend Nan says with me: Spend October share, go two many months this year, immediately 2020.
The target that the beginning of the year makes plans, be less than to the present rate that finish 10% , really terrible.
Do I ask the beginning of the year what Flag she established?
She says: True for also have 3 only!
Institutional English, can undertake simple communication learns natant save money 10w piece moneyResemble seeing book and fitness these, without the amount with specific set, calculate do not calculate be indifferent to, because also was not finished euqally.
Be in feeling without exception, let me realize, the target of every time set, it is to beginning a new convention actually, new convention can hold to, depend on this individual uses method of the other side.
Resemble Nan Nan [blind set target, blind is carried out, final results is less than a result. ]
The target of the coming year plans as before such, namely annual target is same, actually annual the growth besides years, the nurturance of a few good conventions cannot see the effect from beginning to end.
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For instance Nan Nan considers assemble fund, the first pace is about to consider to be clear about first, why to want assemble money?is not pure look say to want broaden sources of income and reduce expenditure on the net, the province comes out wealthy person, with respect to preparation every month is saving dot flower, next assemble brushstroke money.
Had not considered however why assemble money, target of this kind of blind, very clear when make, in executive process, should reduce weight with most woman same:
Without specific executive ways and means, reducing weight can be be in normally " begin after anteprandial end, meal " .
Can want to want assemble money when every month did not send salary namely, send salary, what meeting discovery should buy is too much, or next month is resumptive.
In this kind of circumstance, neither one makes clear the use way after assemble money, it is the consumption that confines a person very hard desire.
Find first why the reason of assemble moneyWant to buy a house for instance, assemble 10w piece use Fu Shoufu, or it is the educational fund that 10w piece uses the child.
This kind of aim is very clear, below the set of this kind of target, to the consumption of every month you can begin consideration dry what should each consumption use.
How does ability achieve the deposit of every month set to count.
Be clear about set only of this target backside wish scene, you just can achieve according to plan, always also can remind you how the target for oneself should be done, and before change oneself painstakingly, want to buy buy, want to spend beautiful habit.
B. Want to understand particular implementation wayWhen this objective setting when, you hope the time with how long will reach, separate each month on average next, besides such, still can have particularly main point.
That should consider special setting namely, some larger extra pay, e.g. : The classmate should marry, or oneself, this expense should undertake planning, the consideration is comprehensive, had done a money to store apart.
Can go up in the foundation of successful assemble money so, outside this Qian Zhi that still can not employ scrape up, with respect to the place that can solve other smoothly to need to spend money.
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In set target when, need undertakes an analysis, what is the driving force of the backside of this target cost of your set?For instance of Nan Nan set learn English cause, what should that analyse?
A. Find and be clear about a target to be worth the driving force of backside, you hope to pass learn English, what to harvest?It say what wants to become is better to say what wants to become oneself, oneself interest is liked, this aerospace hole, this kind of driving force is too weak, at any time OK put down carry pole with its load does not work, also do not have what influence;
But say when you: You should become an interpreter officer, this target cost that is you and internal driving force, in such circumstance, calculate you not to want to learn, your heart also can undertake condemning to you, hour can tell you to become an interpreter officer, not be 3 days fish two days to bask in a net can of the introduction.
Or you want travel going abroad, specific to date, so inside limited time, you can sense a kind of sense of urgency, sense of urgency is met the study that you begin drive and lasts, also can produce the move that suffer a pain easily when you do not learn.
About learning to swim, study swims exclusive keyword is " act continuously "Learn to swim it is some easier that this thing can want than English, because the target is more specific, the society goes.
But act continuously this thing is not simple however, why should say to act continuously?
Because Nan Nan is typical,be a month goes swimming-pool 9, namely half or a hour, she such study lets poll ache.
Because she can think her,learn one year, how don't still have a society, she does not suit to learn to swim originally, such meetings are brought about in the following day, to swimming this thing undertakes repulsion.
Mention when somebody say to swim, she can say: "Do not go, learn again anyway won't " , and actually she also is this kind of condition.
Circulate with this, swim in the society what she goes now is further and further on this thing.
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Correct pose is:the issue that you consider to do, for instance: Swim, learn English this thing, regard as habit of a kind of short-term
Above all: Clear implementation way is made before the habit beginsWhat is the target, abide by my general to be in again [time] and [place] do [thing]
Next: When the habit begins, the ceremony on the belt feelsFitness can buy new fitness to assemble, learn English to be able to be tagged go up in calendar or card is played on software
Next: Have a record every time, let he is experienced and see oneself success, interrupt not easily so finally: Forward target, no matter what kind of circumstance is mixed the mood, do not want influence and the plan that delay oneselfBecause delay first time, regular meeting has 2 times, what should do so is " act continuously " , those who insist to come down is a miracle.