Female undergraduate loneliness is produced child, killing baby -- ignorant and helpless youth is tr

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Can see female undergraduate is pregnant every year produce child the tragedy of generation.

Newest a news is in Xi'an. Last month all fools' day that day, two lodger enter a small hotel, feel the room has a stink.

Boss young canvass looks, two pillows that bestrew bloodstain and liquid trace discovered below the bed, still have polybag of a black, send out in bag an intense stink, after opening polybag, discover inside it is a dead baby unexpectedly.

Police enters a record according to guesthouse, very fast lock is decided and arrest a suspect small red (alias) .

Small red it is a female undergraduate of 20 years old, with high school one will be surnamed last year in July piece love of male fellow student is intercurrent raw concern, was pregnant to also was not stopped gravid, go to school normally.

Abdomen was borne hard sorely March 22, online inquiry feeling is to should be born, booked a room with respect to this small guesthouse near the school, produce next female baby alone that evening.

Terrible discovery, toilet paper a place of strategic importance reachs in child mouth, the hatband that wears cap unlined upper garment with oneself curb of knot of neck of will female baby, cause female baby choking death, use subsequently sleep the conceal after pants laps female baby body falls at the bed inside the room, left guesthouse to go to the school attending class normally at 7 o'clock in the morning the following day.

Our country law sets, fetal and all show the mother's body, be born with when independence breathes, be time, each right such as the life power from this baby, healthy advantageous position is protected namely by law, so, small red had been suspected of intended homicide. She was arrested by approval.

Break up casually on the net, similar issue is very much.

2013, guangdong Dongguan one woman is produced in factory dormitory child, be seen because of be afraid of, postpartum after lapping the baby with polybag, abandon from 2 buildings window, cause infantile death. The woman sentences its set term of imprisonment 3 years with intended homicide later 3 months.

2013, yunnan: Big one schoolgirl toilet is produced child hind Islam room attends class normally, this discovers early, the baby when discovery is living still.

Last year, a female undergraduate of Shandong is discovered to bend over to die on dormitory balcony, when be being discovered beside the baby that still one just is born.

Of Xi'an this small red, during the procuratorate is investigated, she says parental literacy rate is low, the economic atmosphere in the home is general, father and mother dare not tell after be pregnant, oneself also do not have money to go to a hospital becoming abortive operation, never also had appealed to abandon friend or teacher.

It is very bitter really. The baby comes to this world, had not opened open one's eyes was stripped life.

Ignorance and helpless, let them become a murderer, perhaps became the poor woman that loses life together with the baby.

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There may be foolish choice in our life, some has an opportunity to correct, some does not have an opportunity to correct.

Everybody eulogizes green, feel young to do not have failure, green unruly unruly or unrestrained, whats dare be done.

I do not agree completely.

I feel what youth is also via the age that does not live, those " youth is not afraid of " enunciative it is irresponsible flicker.

In my experience, youth is the period that what capital and ability also do not have, if have courage only, the odds that get into trouble is very big.

When attending a college, my cousin takes a picture quite good, he had worked at that time, bought manage bare watch for a chance to take a picture to me. I cover the scene of camera in the process that take a picture lost.

I searched on the park meadow that take a picture very long very long also did not find. This plastic camera lens is built, became my very great at that time pressure. I think truth is bare this kind of advanced watch for an opportunity, the lens brainpan of form a complete set should be very costly.

I dare not tell pa Mom, feel oneself did not make money, can give them incommode, but I do not have money compensate again, I wrote a letter to my cousin at that time, say to I am sorry, but I do not have money now, ask him himself preemptive, wait for my job to have salary regular meeting compensate gives him.

My cousin received my letter, burst out laughing: A plastic camera lens is built just, you work so great pressure!

But I am so great pressure at that time ah, a minute of money beats heroic Chinese, brainpan of a lens is depressed a female undergraduate.

I this still is a plastic fittings only, the other side still is my family member, I sleep several days to be not worn, so helpless, do not say those are pregnant parturient female undergraduate.

See such thing every time, I want when to say particularly:

One, the thing that the person did not do him to be not assumed.

The men and women interacts, investment puts in investment 's charge, but should draw a red line, the thing beyond red line cannot be done. For instance the other side lets you peddle poison, let you commit a crime, this cannot be done!

Still have even if need not not use contraceptive!

The sexual thing between the men and women, physiology reason, the woman bears sexual consequence. Because,do not want bashful, be afraid of feel disappointed, be afraid that the other side is not happy and do not ask to use contraceptive.

Is this very general in adolescent schoolgirl? Fall in love with a person low arrived in dust, doing what thing is: Master, your joy is good, you are enjoyed well... a lot of young girls are plunged into directly into love or relationship of male and female is very easy such.

Affection arrives in, come to suddenly " did you take safety to cover? " , it is to be afraid that the other side feels you are very old arrive, 2 it is to be afraid of destroy a mood.

Calculate feel disappointed, can the bear the blame man of a human nature there is a place be this bit of feel disappointed blame you? Those who blame you is a bastard.

You can steal or else aid eat prophylactic stealthily, you can have or else benefit prophylactic of after the event ah!

I do not believe an undergraduate does not know these, resemble small red in that way, she just takes no account of consequence, irresponsible to oneself.

2, how to approach life, how to treat oneself and the infant that face dilemma. These life teach the thing that is the lack in our culture.

Have some of girl that the country comes to especially, there is this kind of education completely in the environment, in their home town, the girl is called money of be out of pocket, want to give birth to a boy in the home, the likelihood still meets unripe biddy baby to be thrown to the be addicted to in closestool to die.

Be opposite so for them, a baby does not calculate an individual, they do not have the truth with life inviolable power.

3, schoolgirl, young woman worker is single be pregnant, come up against perhaps lose the boy friend that does not have responsibility irresponsibly, it is very pitiful.

In our culture, the woman bears above all the ashamed feeling of sexual relationship of male and female. Look for a few boy friends to be able to be taken more as the weapon that condemns a woman, do not say maiden and parturient. Include family, you are scolded dead if the metropolis is offensive.

Below this kind of culture, they will be very helpless, they do not have money nobody can pour out, they need to help.

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I feel every city should have a hot line, adolescent helps an organization. It is some in fact, but also feel embarrassed conduct propaganda " if you are maiden,be pregnant need help, look for us please " .

Organization people always fear to say to be able to be brought about so more maiden be pregnant, more irresponsible.

I pass without statistic, I feel previously won't, because of major youth, especially undergraduate, the person in the city knows contraceptive knowledge, won't choose not to put in a road 's charge for oneself, also can oneself are handled, only the person of dinky part needs to help.

But it is me there is data on the hand, 2 be I did exposed to the sun to spend fund to dare decide not quite later. Because because did not get education,I see the person of too much ground floor, because of poverty, their behavior is very irresponsible.

In the children of our deliverance, a lot of father do not know whereaboutldirection, or mom does not know whereaboutldirection, or dad Mom does not know whereaboutldirection.

If publicize,I do not know " you are maiden be pregnant need help looks for us please " can let these crowds more feel the gender is one does not need to guard against at any time and place anyway the job that somebody provides.

But what I still feel such social orgnaization has presence is necessary, it is for instance in the school, in the factory, make helpless female OK get the basiccest help.

Still having is a family.

We are very much the family never has a consideration to cross the child to may appear such problem, one have such thing, the first feeling is you lost my face of 8 all one's life! You so shameless is dry living still!

Also not be do not feel distressed really daughter, let her go dead really, but meet so abreact.

Such, supportive system of the family also was lost.

I had written an article before, those who say is a beautiful theatrical work " ugly female Betty " . Betty and Henry love each other, the cummer before henry tells a pack of lie cherishs pregnant to search, henry should be in charge of becoming the child's father. And before Betty decides to be born in henry child, still be together with henry.

The father of Betty and elder sister did not scold her cheap, did not follow her disengage, choose SUPPORT however -- support. Not be approve of they love each other, get hurt when her however when, support her, help a paragraph of concern that she overshoots this needs centering breaks.

The person errs possibly, ourselves, it is OK to should avoid to make foreknow cannot redeem the fault that drops into abyss even, and family and society, want to be the person in predicament, provide supportive system as far as possible.

Such, the world just is not acedia.