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Write down my home child to roll about from full ground the whole process of happy and feigned course of study

Graph article edits Wu Wei of Piao of final judgment of Piao Pan Cunying

Be accompanied recently the picture video of child writing job is brushed explode, I also add trouble to, how do sharing me accompany child to write line of business.

Love Man Zeyi

Weekday, mao Mao sits on sofa to watch TV, I begin to prepare breakfast, breakfast is ready, mao Mao still does not agree to come over to have a meal tardy, I enquire curiously, mao Mao how long do you plan to watch TV?

Mao Mao replies, I think the time that see, you do not bear. Listen to him to say this word, my heart rose a sentiment, the sound in the head flocks and go up subsequently: You had looked so long, look even, how to see inadequacy? Has not been your exercise finished? Where is the work that why to miss you? Know to watch TV, watch TV, be fed up with really!

The feeling that catchs me begins as these sound of the head irritating rise.

When the anxiety that feels a heart and uneasiness, I knew when to loving my, arrive, I stop to be listened attentively to carefully, in all him affection, heard me special expect the son can do a business according to his idea.

I experienced the sort of lose after that others does not expect according to oneself, the sort of afflictive, the sort of catching mad heart. The fear that I also felt backside and fear. I stay together with oneself silently, heard a son clearly next that word: "You cannot bear I look one morning TV " , my solution covered the instant, yes, I am not to bear, so I tell the child with respect to calm ground. (honest ground is not done to his)

Did not have the drag of the mood, I go calmingly to the child before, conveyed me to think the word that says to him, what you say baby is right, "Mom cannot bear you look one morning TV " , the word below has not started to talk, he had put out TV.

Next I saw a mood is very irritating, lie on carpet to roll about the child that abreact, I silently for company he, look at him, I ask him: Are you so afflictive be because did not have method to watch TV,?

He replies: Either.

I ask him again: Be because want to write line of business,are you very so afflictive?

He " wow " cry out came to the ground: I do not want to write line of business, a lot of exercise, very irritated, so much work, need is done very long ability finishs, I do not want to write. I also do not want to play, I want to be in the home.

I understood, face writing job he has pressure, then my cuddle is worn he, for company he cries.

I ask him: It is not to want to write line of business, still do not want to play.

He replies: Do not want to write line of business.

I: Do not want not to write us.

He is crying to say again: I do not want to be not written, I should write line of business, I want to finish.

I: Mom hears you special want to complete work, but do not know how to keep this operation again, be such?

He replies: Yes.

Ask again: Do then you need mom to give you how support?

He replies: You accompany me to play 10 minutes.

I: Good, mom accompanies you to play!

In the process that employ he bursts out laughing, released the pressure that comes from exercise.

Experience good deed to just had been met

The hand Zhang that Mao Mao opens him this, little face laughed at a flower, say:

Mom, actually not much exercise! You look so dot. I do Chinese first, redo English, make maths finally, nevertheless I need you to continue I keep for company.

In the process that accompanies Mao Mao to write line of business, I look at him dedicatedly, touch his back with the hand, admire the ground to looking attentively at him next, he looks up from time to time see me, continue to write line of business next.

Mao Mao looks at the letter that he writes to ask me during: Mom you feel I am written are these good-looking?

I: Good-looking.

He continues to ask: Can then I get Laoshi is praised?

I ask him: How to when are you writing these words, just think?

He replies: I want to complete the work that the teacher assigns namely, finish this job.

I reply: Particularly good, you know you are to finish the job and write. So raise of if you are conceivable old a person of exemplary virtue, do you know the teacher's demand?

He replies: I know, I write the word that just did not write good afresh again.

Two words did not change, he looks at say to me: I decided not to change, did not praise very good also.

I reply: Good, particularly marvellous, know what ourselves wants first-rate.

Wool wool loosened at a heat agitato says to me: I wrote mom to work, very happy, very relaxed, very excited ha. Actually this bit of exercise also does not calculate what, I need not remember with concern to work again, played OK and happily. Really good.

In the process that writes line of business in company child, can assist you to face easily according to the following measure:

The first pace: Listen attentively to oneself, pacify oneself mood, how does the heart that lets oneself come down surely, have nothing to do to the fault, face oneself honestly, do the business that fits him rhythm, can admit what degree to admit what degree, we also are the mom in growing. It is very normal to be not done.

The 2nd pace: How does oneself heart come down surely, listen attentively to again in all affection the child, because defy writing job,see the child this thing, brought mood, assist the child to release the mood of his heart, convey the feeling of child instantly, the child's mood flows drip, he has mental efforts to face task this thing. Completed work when the child this after the event gives the child sees and praise. So the child can be in writing job, harvest full achievement feeling! The thing is very simple, the person is very serious.

The 3rd pace: See oneself expectation, allow oneself to have to the child expect, allow the child not to come according to your expectation at the same time, when coming according to your expectation when the child, inner mood belongs to him mom, need him mom is handled. Return the first pace.

The 4th pace: We accuse to the child's expectation, palm, come from pair of mode that are fostered before prospective fear and us, look for a warm admitted field region, accompanying you, warm you, you had experienced by termless after admitting, the fear that can put down a heart adjusts his position, what give oneself alive is wonderful, also can allow the child to give him himself alive at the same time.

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