By the girls that the gender invades: The hand of the enclasp in darkness

Cheng Le prepares to speak the old practice that he ever was violated.

On July 22, spit, she asked for leave with the company, come to Chengdu from Xi'an alone. A decision was made on the Gao Tie when coming, she wants to stand in Yi cane poem to knit before, in its new book " black box: Japanese shame " China shares the last station of the meeting, the character of road of Chun Xi of the Chengdu City a few in the bookshop, raise one's hand, " that thing " speak out.

Yi cane poem is knitted is the person that cheered Cheng Le.

She is the female that accuse sex invades the first appearance of Japanese that makes public his and full name.

2015, yi cane poem knits what be respected by mountain pass of Japanese well-known journalist to confuse evil, thought fors the time being 4 years, this year she 30 years old, still be personally up to now in lawsuit. The name accuses this her fact, caused Japan to the society pays close attention to to what the gender invades and be discussed, japan comes 110 years the criminal law neutral that have not has changed commits a crime relevant provision, got editing accordingly.

Yi cane poem knits the on-the-spot record work that keeps according to oneself experience " black box " , had translated into Han Yu and Chinese to publish, among them Chinese edition " black box: Japanese shame " appear on the market 4 months, add imprint 2 times.

This year on July 16, yi cane poem is knitted accepted publish invite just, come to Chinese Shanghai, Hangzhou, Beijing, Chengdu, the signs carry out stay away from home that has by a definite date 10 days.

The existence that Yi cane poem knits, itself is a bewilderment.

She knows she was raped explicitly, but last a period of time 11 months, the sex that procuratorial work hall of Japan rejected her invades fall victim one case, in jural decide she is invaded by the gender without clear evidence proof.

Since the first day when call the police from her, the manner of police is cool. A variety of behavior also cannot make her trust during, include to obtain evidence not actively, important affidavit happens omit, the apprehension that already signed and issue makes by urgent recall, investigation personnel is exchanged suddenly to wait a moment.

She suspects, of this and influence run about. Because rape her person, mountain pass respects, it is Japanese well-known journalist not only, still currently hold the post ofpremier to bring times advance with Japan 3 personal friendship are very close, ever was An Beijin the autobiography with 3 tendentious compose, media recorded them swim together for many times.

Mountain pass respects

She rejects to accept check square adjudication result, 10 months collect last a period of time information, investigate alone, hand over the requisition that reconsider.

On May 29, 2017, yi cane poem is knitted hold a press conference, take the public with true identity, appearance before, tell Japanese people, she is not a fictitious victim, however a real person, she may not be " perfect victim " , but behavior of sexual enroach on really bona fide happening passes.

Right now, she had mastered more evidence, the matchs completely DNA that respects with mountain pass on the complete affidavit that includes her to be procrastinated to drag the kinescope that enters a public house, taxi driver by what mountain pass respects among them, underwear, return sexual to invade the knee after happening to get hurt proof seeing a doctor.

But after 4 months, the application that reconsider again out of court, "This case does not grant to sue " .

Yi cane poem is knitted did not abandon, after criminal lawsuit out of court, she continues to be sued with civil case, the countercharge that is respected by mountain pass at the same time, the other side asks she recoups the cost of loss of a huge sum of 100 million 30 million yen.

Yi cane poem knits relapse appeal affront a few people, the criticism on the network is thick as hail.

"The just sex that suspects adjudication is pair of Japanese judicatory affront. "The just sex that suspects adjudication is pair of Japanese judicatory affront..

"Since the court has ruled he was not touched,make law, yi cane poem is knitted should not hold a news briefing, continue to issue wrong statement. Continue to issue wrong statement..

BBC newsreel " Japanese shame " stage photo

The inquisitor that is in charge of this case tells Yi the cane to the poem knits: "Incident happening is in illicit close space, resemble ' black box ' . " besides party, can know without the person inside what to produce really. And such law case, be in Japan " too common " , "Bad to do " .

But come 4 many years, the job that Yi cane poem knits is, open this " black box " .

Those who do not have expect is, try to open a gender to invade in her " black box " when, in the investigation orgnaization that discovered Japan however and judicatory system more tremendous " black box " .

That is a stifling setting.

Yi cane poem is knitted from insensible in awake, discover oneself are being invaded by the gender.

"Very painful! Stop please! " she cries for help with Japanese.

But in Japanese " not " , although relapse, loud, suppliance, imposing manner is too weak also, listen go up to resemble be in even please the other side.

Because there is intense bad language in Japanese, she can change English only, make opposite party " scram! " knee joint gets hurt in revolt, till cannot move.

Mountain pass Jing Zhi bends over to go up in her body, say: "You were passed. " the job that means them to should talk and did not talk in birthday department store invites.

Brightly lit of the lamplight in the room.

Abasement, flooded Yi Teng poem to knit.

A new room that is dragged forcibly, one takes out the job to lure working male elder member of family after confusing evil, one cannot use the girl that mother tongue cries for help, a female cries aloud " not " also meet by oversight, misinterpret country.

And this abasement, did not hereto.

After the accident passes, yi cane poem is knitted appeal one by one to center of hospital, aid, police, neither one orgnaization provides the help of materiality to her. She astonishs ground discovery, japanese society is shown in bisexual respect gave approximately callous one side, people thinks the sexual force that is aimed at a female is not serious social problem, if often saying, be " forget! " behave so that as if to had been born without the accident.

If she is determined to want to invade dimension right for the gender, just ceaselessly " be raped 2 times " , discover ceaselessly another " black box " .

And almost each " black box " in, it is influence is in run.

Mountain pass is in column of first gear interview, denied oneself guilt completely.

Poem of cane of Yi of a common girl is knitted, she can have gone without the road, be in then " death " " silent " , and " the person that becomes identity of the first exposure of Japanese, appearance to be a gender to invade dimension to counterpoise " between, chose latter.

And this momently later, she became two poems gradually to knit.

One is to say the poem of Japanese is knitted, tender, exercise restraint, courteous; Another is to tell the poem of English to knit, sober, OK and free the earth's surface amounts to his demand, powerful belief sense is being conveyed in utterance. The activity that she is in China, communicate, also be finished mostly with English.

Perhaps say, she became " victim poem is knitted " , " reporter poem is knitted " .

Yi cane poem knits the media to China to say, "Reporter poem is knitted " the identity, saved " victim poem is knitted " . Her ideal is to become a journalist, so she to " speak the truth " concept of this kind of news is put have belief, she oppugns a lot of problems, doubt is authoritative, doubt system.

If the reporter is not her belief, this is not her profession, she may be silent.

And, in 4 years of time that pester a body in lawsuit, yi cane poem is knitted also did not quit the job. Besides becoming a free journalist, she began to film 2019 newsreel, the first colliery before paying close attention to is Japan is pressed down, involve population aged, finance breaks down wait for public issue.

Before coming to China, she just came back from the Ethiopia, she and group film over the circumcision of African female is traditional, pay close attention to the harm that it causes to the female.

At present till, see poem of the cane that be like Yi knit place to basically be told about, safeguard, it is oneself story and oneself right, but the original intention that watchs her to be written in the book and the doing later, know, she is not just such.

She is not to discussing that one sex of past happening to invade, did not come for the change however, just " make bold refer goes that thing " .

Gradually, the individual destiny that Yi cane poem knits, reputation, bind with reality of more capacious country, society was in one case.

And thought fors the time being 4 years, she realizes a most major problem gradually, major sex approachs a case, often do not depend on a gender attempting, concern however at influence.

She was become gradually " public character " .

A lot of girls of each countries found Yi cane poem to knit, somebody sends mail to give her, the letter fills in to give her secretly when somebody is meeting, like also having figure Cheng Le, ground of go to the trouble of travelling a long distance runnings the spot sees her personally.

These girls also are the person that be invaded by the gender mostly.

They counterpoise in the dimension in reality as a result of all sorts of reasons all up, but cannot forget again " once abasement " . Although they are encroached by sexual force hind, in jural cannot get affirm, thought fors the time being, but their body and memorial itself, namely " fact " live body specimen.

These girls are not mostly " perfect victim " .

The likelihood drank wine before be invaded by the gender; The likelihood is by acquaintance, it is human nature invades elder, boss, name even; They did not revolt the likelihood desperately; The likelihood bathed immediately after the accident; The likelihood did not realize he is raped immediately, the ability after a few days calls the police.

Cheng Le tells " south wind window " reporter, she the first reaction is to come home bathed, threw away dirty clothes, the following day the case that wine woke to just sign up for completely. Police called her to be done twice after noting, also did not contact her again, did not signal the result that DNA examines even, and a few evidence that are invaded by the gender, it is herself goes actively of collect.

Chengle feels he did not get police is treated seriously, but she is hopeless.

Yi cane poem is knitted also reiterate, she is not " perfect victim " .

On the network ceaselessly somebody is censuring her.

The mountain pass Jing Zhi that why want and has met twice only has a meal, and drink? Why be after the accident the first reaction is to come home, bathe, the trace is rub dropped? Why be call the police for a short while? Why to buckle the button of the shirt to the neck to fall? Why to want to be after the accident, laugh in public circumstance?

"Black box " in what to produce, netizens do not know, can capture only " black box " a variety of evidence besides, will judge " black box " , associate, guess " black box " in what to produce after all. But these judgement, guess and associate in, wrap up is worn the prejudice of a variety of societies, with humiliate.

Have more very person, the meeting because of victim individual behavior not " accord with a tentative idea " , and try to blur, do not go whether does dug exist " sexual force fall victim " fact.

Also because of this, yi cane poem is knitted invade a victim from a sex, turned a sexual distinction into equal advocate. She begins to extend a few concepts in Japan, " sexual license " " faulty victim " , the hope corrects those establish to change medium sexual bias at Japanese article.

She is attracting such Cheng Le's girl euqally like magnet. These Chinese girls, going up to be knitted with Yi cane poem somehow sharing same experience and kind of anguish, their apace is obtained in all affection, think to have each other only, just be the person understand truly of the other side.

Cheng Le also is such, she is knitted to Yi cane poem instinctively have kindness, even the heart puts a hope.

She hopes, yi cane poem is knitted to " pursue the truth " belief, can let her breaking " black box " on the road straight. Perhaps one day, be invaded by the gender, the girls that the gender annoys a worry can no longer helpless, get showing loving care for, with equality treat.

Adscript

If wish to relate his story in mobile spot,Cheng Le fails, because her college fellow student works in Chengdu, also came that evening the spot, issue decided determination to break down suddenly all the way, she becomes again hard open one's mouth.

Then, make evening almost, cheng Le is crying all the time, at the same time book of disease of act vigorously pen. She chooses the story oneself, tear and hope, send in the hand that Yi cane poem knits with literal means.

She gives on the Gao Tie that returns Xi'an " south wind window " the reporter sends a message: "Want to knit Yi cane poem assimilate to is magical female a person adept in martial arts and given to chivalrous conduct. "Want to knit Yi cane poem assimilate to is magical female a person adept in martial arts and given to chivalrous conduct..

But in fact, yi cane poem is knitted also facing enormous pressure.

The lawsuit of she and mountain pass Jing Zhi, this year the end of the year is met somewhat result, if lose a lawsuit, the other side will to her claim for compensation 100 million 30 million yen, this is Yi cane poem is knitted can not susceptive is tremendous amount.

A reader of Chengdu knits concern for Yi cane poem, ask whether she has made preparation, yi cane poem knits a response to say, "It is his countercharge no matter me, still be I sue him, do not divide, this is similar law case issues interact in similar situation actually. This is similar law case issues interact in similar situation actually..

Yi cane poem is knitted express to be able to want hold on, the reason is, land of can different level goes to these two law case that she thinks she is being experienced the law case that affects someone else, affect everybody's belief.

But she also has more hopeful one side, civil case is having more transparent, open link than criminal case, be in next in civil case, people has an opportunity to see front courtyard careful, also can see all referred evidence, will be commented on jointly next, what is to be short of those who break, what are these thinking after all in the judge's heart. She also hopes to be able to borrow this to examine judicatory system of Japan.

Poem of conversational Yi cane knits: The sex that defeats solution hard is violent " black box "

Yi cane poem knits last autograph that is in China carry out activity ends, will been on July 22 in the evening 10:20, " south wind window " reporter and Yi Teng poem are knitted, worker of the interpreter that still has a person of the same trade, media went together the inn of a chaffy dish of Chun Xi road, everybody has not had dinner.

Furtive Yi cane poem knits disposition very optimistic, everybody teachs her " be agitated " bowel of duck of ground scald thin slices of meat in boiling water, she stands up rinse, rinse is over ask, otherwise should divide you to eat a bit. There is nose when laughing, greatly eye narrow one's eyes rises.

When she has chaffy dish, go to a lot of vinegar are put in oily dish, also can have chili particularly, jealous and she allegedly long-term United States student studying abroad is concerned alive, the habit when those uses acetic go with rice, the habit is withheld up to now. Eat hot can use drive cold, as some closer as her year coming always is the body algid about. Yi cane poem is knitted say, vinegar and chili, these feel a few more comfortable in the heart that excitant food can let her.

" south wind window " the reporter is opposite that evening interweave of Yi Teng poem went special interview.

South wind window: 4 years, you tell us, you still are done not have from " that thing " in " survival " , still be in " seek to live on " . Why the sexual force victim in our society, be in Japan is the sexual force victim in environment of East Asia culture even, after fall victim restore very hard for long " natural person " the identity?

Yi cane poem knits: It not so should difficult. What I see no less than, deliverance system often matures in dispute of a few countries, for instance the center of rape help sb to deal with an emergency of British London, the close emergency treatment of rape fall victim of a few hospitals aids Sweden center. Pass these orgnaizations, a person that has experienced a rape can be returned quickly come in normal life. If we also can be in get such help for a short while, resumptive course can become a few faster.

In the rape crisis center of these major, after rape happening inside 10 days, can use " material evidence of sexual force fall victim collects a packet " undertake detecting, detect the result will be kept by the center 6 months. The victim is OK preexistence center accepts examination, cure and psychology to coach, after waiting for a series of deliverance measure to end, consider to whether call the police again.

Because had such close first aid,aiding a center, people ability not by " victim " the identity is imprisoned, with a the natural person's footing, accept treatment above all, restore health of body and mind quickly.

South wind window: You to judicatory, medical establishment even when media seeks help, where was gotten stuck to be in? Encountered what must want amendatory difficult position? Be in now for what to try hard?

Yi cane poem knits: Raping itself is a case that produces in illicit close environment, if did not save the material evidence at that time, follow-up right is safeguarded become more hard, they can say, we did not produce sexual behavior.

Although had center of crisis of hospital, rape, also must undertake grooming, let them produce effect, become the place that can in time win evidence certainly, because of these evidence to the victim, it is very important, be ignored very easily again.

South wind window: The power of sexual force why so tremendous?

Yi cane poem knits: Sexual force commits a crime is the violent crime that escapes the most easily, it happens in an illicit close " black box " in, often defeat solution hard. In our country, it asks not only very strong evidence, and requirement him party quote, oneself had said " No " , had had refuse, in spirit, body the circumstance of double harm falls, stay take complete testimony. And, sexual enroach on is to cause the crime with highest PTSD.

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South wind window: What thing is abet, lengthen them?

Yi cane poem knits: Of course, this and influence are having very big concern. And differ the instantly that if the gender is annoyed,be decided or is force happening, influence exists in the environment. Because have the power that is used by the mistake constantly, it is so difficult to inform against them so, it is so difficult that force letting a gender commits a crime to be noticed by people. It is invisible that influence is like, it is being used erroneously in people unware place, a certain want to phonate, the condition that recalcitrant promoted special dreariness. Because they know, they can lean their power only.

South wind window: Is the influence that you point to male influence?

Yi cane poem knits: Any influence, have nothing to do sexual distinction. General of course for yes the male has more power, but this did not concern. Can say the power in the family, the influence in the school, company, can have power everywhere.

South wind window: A few countries think generally, tropism is annoyed, the gender is invaded say not, it is the female's responsibility, legal level also asks by quote of the one party that be invaded by the gender, oneself once had expressed clear rejection. But oppressive, 70% females can produce the power in considering the gender is violent play dead, answer these questions, sweden had done law to edit, advocate the female does not have come to an agreement or understanding, producing sexual behavior is a rape.

But in root establish at Japan, in culture of whole even East Asia, have a confirmed bashful culture, desire refus still is greeted, with do not reject a delegate to acquiesce, " not " understanding is " should " . If rushed raise a rape to conviction in East Asia country " freewill " standard, the likelihood also can bring an issue. So, if someone says you urge Xiang Ruidian study, it is lead at the society. How you should be responded to?

Yi cane poem knits: Sweden can ask before have sex " you want " , must want to get " Yes " later does ability begin? Not, either such. Be in Sweden, they are not to must be spoken " not " or " be " , ability undertakes sexual behavior, before beginning sexual behavior however, both sides must be communicated, obtain to agree. Agreeing is not to must be heard certainly " be " this word, however you cannot be misunderstood quite.

In our culture, we also won't ask, is mutual communication only. This kind " communication " " be not misunderstood " , it is a whole world should some, and not should literate difference.

But be in Japan, say " not " be by understanding " want " , be breakneck, very easy and abet sex is violent. Undertake when Sweden " agree with authority actively " when legislation, what show actually is consensus of a kind of society. Our need gives a victim more support, the victim does not need to explain whether he has said " No " , go proving whether oneself had had intense confrontation.

I feel Sweden is done very marvellously in this respect. It is Sweden not just, still a few countries also are done so now.

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South wind window: You are in the United States and Japan have in two kinds of culture get along experience, what is you think two kinds of societies treat the female's biggest difference?

Yi cane poem knits: I never had said the difference of the United States and Japan. But in fact, nowhere is not in sexual difference, sexual distinction discriminates against nowhere to be absent, delimit very hard so a line, saying which area is better. But I feel really, in American culture, I am freer, can do oneself more. But I do not think the United States protects a respect in sexual enroach on is a nicer area.

Special is, I feel the language is a very important role. When talking with English, I was not necessary so polite, although that is a kind of polite conversation way only, but the pattern that it can affect communication. When I talk with English, it makes me easier speak the content that thinks truly from personal place.

South wind window: I feel the your department is in a kind of difficult unfavorable situation, insist to phonate on one hand, think him exposure is a kind of 2 second rapes on the other hand. Him exposure, it is one is compared call the police, accept media faceless interview, affect bigger decision. Are you what to kind of consideration be based on?

Yi cane poem knits: I am not sudden decision. I try to pass a lot of agency, a lot of reporters, the country that will remind everybody to notice us ought to change the law related the sexual crime that 110 this years have not has changed, but did not have effect. I tried all and other measure, but not be successful, come out to announce oneself status, it is my decision finally. I made all effort, making public his is be forced to do only.

South wind window: Him exposure, to advancing the development of incident, what effect is there?

Yi cane poem knits: Him exposure later, had a few reaction, had had, also have bad. I spoke out, not be merely " speak out " , representing a kind of pressure however, so law produced change after 110 years, parliamentary chairman speaks this thing because of me, expressed to thank to me, also myself expects these changes.

But my life also ran, I must leave Japan to live to England. This is in at that time, it is a decision of my cannot help doing, I also do not regret for it now.

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Author | Hy@nfcmag.com of He Yan of reporter of south wind window

Editor | Li Shaowei

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