What the world does the hardest is relation of wife and mother probably. A lot of people think marrying is two the individual's things, it is the thing of two families actually. See excellent program of a true person recently " mother-in-law and mom " , lin Zhiying carries mom and wife to enter a program for the first time, cause wide attention.
Although program of put together art always can have a few plots of prearrange, but true person show is after all several days uninterrupted film, adieu outfit also can reveal a true one side.
Be in forest on mom body, I discovered a lot of mother-in-laws meet a some characteristics: Say a daughter-in-law, son is coequal on the mouth treat, the fact is not however such.
Although Lin Zhiying wife can do chore not quite, but it is before the mother-in-law able and virtuous kind and gentle heart. Mother's day buys the clothes actively to the mother-in-law, do not know the mother-in-law likes what kind of, bought a lot of facilitating mother-in-laws to choose then.
The mother-in-law asks them the home whose family position is top, chen Reyi says, it is husband Lin Zhiying. Boast mother-in-law cooks delicious, side mother-in-law cleans sanitation, anyhow is the meaning down the mother-in-law comes.
Say what be very fond of like the son to regard daughter-in-law as forest mom, after taking the home from Chen Reyi all sorts of cold-shouldering, order about. Children are free inaccessibly come back, the dress that cold-shoulders daughter-in-law into the door shows the flesh.
When having a meal, daughter-in-law boast mother-in-law cooks craft should learn to the mother-in-law very much. It is a greeting word only really, with her home level, ask 10 8 housekeeper unchallenged also. Forest mom says however, you should learn early to cook.
Daughter-in-law helps a mother-in-law pull the land, at the beginning not quite mop of habitual mother-in-law home. Forest the appearance that mom teachs her resembles teaching the newcome in the home baby-sitter really, station aside the edge sees an edge say her pose is incorrect.
They plan to eat pineapple later, forest mom says to Chen Reyi, "You should brush glass first or should eat pineapple first " , chen Reyi is forced to say to brush glass first. Lin Zhiying wants to help, the mother-in-law says, "You rest had fallen " .
Forest mom says when program series is interviewed, it is same to daughter-in-law son, present mother-in-law cannot be told really, want to open an eye to close a key point.
Treat actual condition, very different however. There also are this kinds of a lot of cases in the life of our Everyman.
Boudoir honey is like the mother-in-law that be like to often also say, "I am very fond of daughter-in-law euqally when get married girl, compare to her not bad to my son. ... "
Dan Rere however not so think, cook every time, want husband to have a meal in the home only, the mother-in-law has been done. Husband is absent a mother-in-law delicious close, boil bowl face casually.
If come off work,be like, the mother-in-law throws the child to her immediately. Husband comes off work look meeting the child, the mother-in-law says, so tired rest quickly rest, let him child look meeting cartoon.
If say,be like, it is good to if the mother-in-law says, listen, must not take seriously. You raise old son to place on a par with her endure all kinds of hardships by what. This orders come round, do not have so much grievance. That why mother-in-laws say and is those who do different?
Objective without recognize fact.
At first the think of a way that approaching to handle the other side well goes to major mother-in-law. After marrying, daughter-in-law is oneself person, want to be very fond of her to care her.
But ignored an objective fact however, one walks into the stranger in life suddenly, become a family member how possibly at a draught.
Even if the one's own children that has kin, if not be brought up beside parents, live very hard also together later. It is daughter-in-law what is more,the rather that more.
Ignore objective fact, become the mother-in-law forcedly requirement of get married Mom, ask daughter-in-law when get married girl, how can contradict.
Once each other should not intention, with respect to feel sad sad, the mother-in-law thinks daughter-in-law is unconscionable, daughter-in-law thinks the mother-in-law is illogical reason.
Limit move obscurity.
Parents did not love the child, but some parents are about to compare to the child's control strong, think to daughter-in-law without a break follows only after son marriage, not was close to with oneself, blame responsibility for an offence to the head of daughter-in-law.
For instance we often say " Mom treasure male " , because parents likes to control the child, bring about son habit to comply with parental arrangement. After the son gets married, parents still does not have limit move, want to control the child the following life, give birth to the child for instance, buy house, job to wait a moment.
There was oneself little family after child marriage, parents should be exited in time. By them 2 people of young husband and wife decide the son's life after, can give a proposal, but counterpoised without interference.
Some mother-in-laws, love child loved in one's heart, saying to without giving thought to,let go on the mouth, interference still wants in the heart. When should give birth to the child, when must want 2 embryoes, child education wants how how...
Some mother-in-laws can regard the son as oneself demesne belongings, regard the daughter-in-law as the enemy, regard the ab extra aggressor that reaves a son as, below such environment, can relation of wife and mother in good health how?
Just divorce to husband and wife with the village, main reason is relation of wife and mother. Before the child is born, had held out, the mother-in-law is in native place, young husband and wife goes to work in the urban district. After the child is born, the mother-in-law comes over to look after children, cold-shoulder daughter-in-law bad to oneself. Housework also does not love to work alive, a smiling face, little thing that has a meal to letting the trifles such as the mother-in-law is done not have on the face all the day, long-term accumulation is together, husband follows a mother-in-law a batch, be troubled by unexpectedly finally to the divorce.
But some mother-in-laws master the distance very well at the beginning, have oneself interest and life, do not saunter round little family of the son, also do not mingle the life of young husband and wife.
Actually the person's feeling is quite complex. Want wife and mother the relation is further upward, need each other show sympathy, with be being accumulated what reach time slowly. Complain each other with its, be inferior to recognize fact, find formula of first-rate photograph prescription.