1.Have a fish year after year or plant next killing course of study?
We often say " spend the end of the year " , what cannot spend the end of the year truly actually is all living creatures of brute path. Human festival, the bad day of all living creatures. Our kitchen became their guillotine. Some other peoples, the New Year's Eve kills live fish in the evening, so called " annual and superabundant " , kill chicken to slaughter a pig, this is to kill all living creatures already, caustic blessing newspaper, make the conduct that reduces employment, kill be born is the biggest evil line of business, can say in the beginning of the year you are planted to oneself only left evil job.
Spend the New Year suggest you eat more maigre, if must make the pork, the proposal is used " 3 clean flesh " , namely " disappear kill, do not hear kill, do not kill for me " , did not see, hear it to be killed, either be me and kill, the animal that also had better not kill oneself are raised.
Not only ahimsa, we still suggest your free captive animals, protect unripe, spend the New Year baled meal can put passageway of crossroads, underground to give wandering person, they also need to spend the New Year; See roadside endures what aspic starves to roam about feline dog, shi Yu a few food; Some of Mi Gu is scattered below windowsill or tree, the spadger that gives a winter avian, it is more difficult that they forage in the winter. Southern friend, suggest you can wait in fish of free captive animals of first day of the lunar year, bird, these are to leave year accumulate blessing to sign up for best method for oneself.
2.How should the Spring Festival drink?
Celebrate a festival dine together, have it seems that do not become the regulation of article to want namely " drunk wine " , hurt a body already nohow, spit so that do not wake human affairs, or name-calling, fight, because this husband and wife becomes estranged, be troubled by those who give human life to also have. The Buddhist has a legal case, ferial and strict hold the lay Buddhist that defends 5 give up, one day did not take care to break wine ring, drink as drunk as a sowly, come back to see the chicken that neighbour raises, the desire is great, killed eat off, neighbour eldest sister will ask, he pretends not to know, visit eldest sister good-looking, will illicit sexual relations, return theft property, the afterthought after wine wakes not is reached. Break wine ring, 5 give up are completely broken as a result. " appearance of law of Mahayana cloth Sa " also say: "Numerous be depended on too, wine should be broken completely except. " spend the New Year party, although be not done,do not drink completely, also want somewhat abstemious oh.
3.The hall that ask the home, offer an ancestor, if how about manage is like a law?
Ask native place hall, it is a familial important matter, the Zu Liezong that ask a kind comes home spend the New Year; Ask small hall, it is the important matter in a family, in those days or nearly 3 years of parting elder, come home to spend the New Year together please at the New Year's Eve.
Sacred ancestor kills a lot of people unripe, the meat or fish such as the head that feed a swine, fish is fed, the blame that is family member of aggravating ancestor, die actually course of study, forefathers not only cannot get happiness, instead because this is castaway, so offerings must be offerred maigre. Make offerings to Buddha Bodhisattva, should offer maigre, clear water and joss sticks and candles more.
If be mixed in the New Year's Eve first one, can read Song " ground Tibet classics " , " door of general of Guan Shiyin Bodhisattva is tasted " wait for lection, time to the dear one that gives die, row ancestor Lie Zonghe complains close creditor, will have huge blessing mind, benefit old friend not only, more benefit oneself and family.
" ground Tibet classics " medium mention " 10 fast day " . Namely at the beginning of every months of the traditional Chinese calendar one, 8, 14, 15, 18, 23, 24, 28, 29, 30 wait 10 days to suffer hold abstain from meat, can have the works of twice.
4.Spend the New Year put firecracker to be equal to kill unripe? !
"In cracker sound one year old is divided " , put firecracker to become those who had added solar term atmosphere is important and consuetudinary. Put the origin of firecracker, it is to be frightened allegedly be called " year " strange animal, this is the way that the ancients protects him, firecracker also has the power that hurts all living creatures really.
Drive the person of weather eye, all living creatures that sees putting firecracker is to have countless is gotten by scamper badly mutilated. If we cannot be accomplished,do not put, also must put firecracker less. When putting firecracker or Amitayus reads aloud more when seeing somebody is put, all living creatures here leaves, avoid to be harmed.
5.Can be the person that burns paper made to resemble money and burned as an offering to the dead to die received after all?
Burn be related of paper made to resemble money and burned as an offering to the dead, allude not clearly in sutra. Burning paper is folk consuetudinary, it is OK to think costly burn Acheron dear one. With Buddhist viewpoint, and neither one is so called " Acheron " exist. The meeting after the person is dead is entered " in shade body " level, the longest can achieve 49 days, the shortest likelihood has a split second only, also be an existence condition only, enter later in reincarnation of the 6 cycle in the path. We are consuetudinary in saying ghost is 6 medium " ghoul " , all living creatures that enters ghoul talk is very miserable, be coerced thirstily day and night, experience with the environment it is industry strength is changed now, have nothing to do with material. But in spirit way " blessing mind spirit " , be not the benefit that does not receive paper made to resemble money and burned as an offering to the dead.
However buddhism is advocated, after family member reincarnation, after dying especially in inside 49 days of shade body, for its Song classics holds cuss release souls from purgatory, fast monk waits for Buddha, time to the family member, die the person is OK thereby goes toward 3 be apt to, jump even metempsychosis goes going to western ecstasy, yuan Chao of merits and virtues burns the merits and virtues of paper made to resemble money and burned as an offering to the dead.
The Republic of China one of 4 old eminent monk Yin Guang's Great Master, think to although,burn paper made to resemble money and burned as an offering to the dead Buddhist ancient codes and records not account, cannot recommend abolition however, express oneself intention through this kind of form: "Should add with supernatural power mental efforts hold, make its become little into many, apply oneself in order to all over ancestor close with all Gu fetch criterion but.
6.Give father and mother best, not cross company and hug
"Often come home look, come home look, the back after even if be beaten to mom,be being beaten is kneaded rub a shoulder. " this is the song that a lot of old people likes to listen, it spoke the need of the old person, either jade of bright and beautiful garment is fed, old people also what of not feel like eating, it is the family surrounds lively reunion together, it is a kind of company, even if one does not have greeting, dumpling of a bag looks spring late. Old person heart has the loneliness of difficult character actually, do not have the old person of companion especially, the anxious, fear of their heart and anguish, it is OK to do not have the way of scanty solution, accompany them to chat a little so, listen to them to talk about a nag, the hour that knocks noisy in the bell holds them in the arms, say sentence " father, mom, I love you " , the hot water that make a tub is washed to the old person wash a foot.
If can, read Song for the old person or copy " smooth Buddha of apothecary coloured glaze wishs originally classics of merits and virtues " time to to the old person, can dispel disease prolongs life, disappear calamity gains blessing. Or Song holds number of apothecary Buddha name: Without disappear calamity delays birthday apothecary Buddha south, or cuss of apothecary Buddha heart: "Die is elegant he buzzs to block a Mahabika than getting stuck to be compared criterion shuttle of Die of Ga of eye of La miscellaneous Sa is breathed out " . Perhaps read, copy the king in classics " clever Falianhua is tasted via door of general of Guan Shiyin Bodhisattva " answer Xiang Yike, after this has been copied via reading, generation after generation won't forget, this dispute often has the sutra of King Kong sex special.
7.The Spring Festival, live a few days in temple!
Cross the Spring Festival after the flesh, cloister also has Buddhist fete, can hold special law to meet, during the Spring Festival, might as well go in these special days cloister chapel Jing Xiang makes offerings to 3 treasure, have double works. The fete during the Spring Festival is as follows: On Feburary 7 (the twelfth month of the lunar year of the traditional Chinese calendar 29) China severe Bodhisattva Christmas, on Feburary 9 (at the beginning of the first month of the lunar year of the traditional Chinese calendar one) Maitreya Bodhisattva Christmas, on Feburary 13 (at the beginning of the first month of the lunar year of the traditional Chinese calendar 5) Parinirvana of the 4 person that know perfectly well ceremony honour,
The holiday with god-given Spring Festival mights as well live a few days in cloister, experience the life that morning bell dusk rouses, time course, vegetarian food, song classics, sit quietly...
In the meantime, make offerings to 3 treasure, have mysterious works. Light a lamp before figure of Buddha, can the eye is bright, face a life eventually when, can produce 3 kinds of wisdom, 4 kinds of light. Read aloud the merits and virtues that Amitayus does not have south sound, surpass all living creatures of boundless of money alms giving 1 billion times; The flower is supplied before Buddha, fair system is popular, big money becomes a leader, everything is obtained to get the better of the heart law of clever merits and virtues in daily life.
8.When the party little speech, want to say to say a good word
" add An Xianwen " in say: "Gregarious defend a mouth, sit alone prevent a heart. " when the Spring Festival meets, chat of relatives and friends, total meeting has some of idle character broken sign, eristic person accident, one language missay, cause conflict possibly. When everybody meets, need careful one's words, a word, be magnified possibly also before everybody by twist, right intimate word, stay in furtive the lay one's heart bare of two 3 people had better. When place is numerous, little life, alleged " merits and virtues of baked wheaten cake forest " , say Yan Aiyu of be apt to as far as possible, not be adulatory, praise more however other, self-identity other, the person needs to affirm and be encouraged, let more is reading aloud benevolence between person and person.
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