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"Tsinghua Yao class " (class of experiment of science of Tsinghua school computer) " Zhang Kunwei " ask for because of be on gregarious media marriage, be scolded by many person ridicule " drive is poor " , "Overconfident " . On certain level, sprit youth " Zhang Kunwei " with monthly pay 50 thousand income " bright sword " ask for marriage, in should calculating content desire marriage to love tide " rely on chart male " . Regrettablly, when " Pu Xinnan " because of " the show that take off a mouth " after the hunt that be surrounded, "Ugly fat short " become again " bisexual each other is ripped " basic dish.
Want to know, "Date under the counter " and " ask for publicly marriage " it is two kinds of marriage love close way completely, "Date under the counter " the thing that is two people, no matter be not become, it is OK to want two individual make a decisions only. Emphasize so, not be to say " ask for publicly marriage " in two people cannot him make a decision, and depend on two people " deserve to do not deserve " can be judged head talking is sufficient.
Go up from this level and character, "Date under the counter " relatively a few safer still. Return so " Zhang Kunwei " " proof marriage is blatant " in, be not his own problem greatly, be in however specific " marriage love examine " on, put in endless bias originally. Although value is loved in mainstream marriage how-to go up, emphasize " spirit agrees " (sex of male and female) , " appearance comparatives " (sex of male and female) , " economy is applicable " (lay particular stress on studies quantity male) these postulate.
But in returning material life, often be condition of sex of acme of lay particular stress on. For instance " ugly fat short " person, as long as enough and rich, no matter men and women, always can find oneself to admire in the heart " Gao Shuai " and " Bai Mei " . Must admit, prior weather condition and end are rich between, exist really " the formula that tick off add " . Just such " the formula that tick off add " must apply under the counter, in every case is taken say to mesa, always can be hit the label of affront.
Must admit, of Yang Li at " Pu Xinnan " more resembling is tear some kind of established Fan Shi. In fact, we are very clear, link is loved in worldly marriage in, even if " Gao Shuai " and " Bai Mei " the problem that also escapes monthly pay be examininged minutely hard. Because all adult are clear, in returning real life, than " ugly fat short " more those who let a person be accepted hard is " poor " .
However lay affectation depends on, when " Zhang Kunwei " bright out personal photograph, deserve to go up when oneself postulate, so called " sprit youth " , " monthly pay 50 thousand " the direct wallop that lets a photograph give a person for an instant becomes aggravated, lean namely " money " and " intelligence quotient " attract a woman very dirty. It is these only relatively " turn over wisdom " logistic, be really " Zhang Kunwei " original idea?
Return " ask for publicly marriage " on the problem, as long as " Zhang Kunwei " be sincerity, should be not scolded by ridicule. Because " ask for publicly marriage " not be " Gao Fushuai " and " Bai Fumei " exclusive the right, just reach the aggrandizement of lay bias because of literary work, "Perfect token " make general comfortable measure, so that " general male general female " in marriage love the market to go up more and more passive.
However no matter men and women, as long as " ugly fat short " did not occupy complete, so most the marriage of core is loved point to the viability that returns an individual to go up, especially the male, this ability is the most important marriage loves competition ability. So the issue came, those ridicule are scolded " Zhang Kunwei " be " drive is poor " , "Overconfident " person, is original idea what after all?
Here we do a logistic demonstration simply, " Zhang Kunwei " will tell, monthly pay 50 thousand really it doesn't matter can show off, this is in city of a gleam of there are plenty of such people. But with respect to home general income level looks, 50 thousand have exceed monthly pay really a lot of youths, this kind of moment, people sees " Zhang Kunwei " this fatso actually so outstanding, can you give birth to a gnash how " envious hate " ?
Will tell from this meaning, surround hunt " Yang Li " scold with ridicule " Zhang Kunwei " the person that should be congener acknowledge, at least can say registration is very big. It is this is compared it seems that it seems that only " split personality " , emphasize at the same time " general is believed " ought not to be spat groove, emphasize at the same time " general is believed " have original sin, also embarrass quite really presumably, this probably namely " general believes a person " the most essential temperament.
Just, yang Li is not " general believes a person " , "Zhang Kunwei " also not be, but will look from individual acknowledge, he (she) people exceed really " general believes a person " . This is brought about, so called " surround hunt and ridicule to scold " more resembling is " general believes a person " the ego of be ashamed into anger is examined. So that " so common, so self-confident " and " my monthly pay 50 thousand " become " general believes a person " the target of go flat, but get to the bottom of sth, can you pull on concern?
In the final analysis, of adult creditable do, and rather than is to rely on group of beat up to force by the head come out. So a lot of moment, if a person always exists " by affront " psychology, so this individual itself is actually should answer oneself too thing, candid ground is told, yang Li just is to saying the mouth is beautiful, "Zhang Kunwei " just be to be being made public ask for marriage, how to become offense your " typical member " ?
Must admit, real world and network world are two systems really, at least thinks from value on look, real world or evolution are very mature, at least " low self-esteem " not so serious, and in network world, even if the communication that people hopes to get mental level, but be being returned finally however is the fall with billowy the force with which sth breaks out to brawl and dogfight.
It is very difficult that people always says to cross sexual communication, but in fact, this is know-nothing builds the dam that rise to oneself. Go up from some kind of meaning and character, only oneself see oneself when the person, sufficient straight oneself ignorance and meanness, probably ability better of straight face others outstanding with fun, or between vitreous heart and low self-esteem, exist forever " do not have brains " and " grouchy " .
Of course, the dispute with Internet history in light of, "Zhang Kunwei " it is to be regarded as apparently " male edition Luo Yufeng " , at least examines measure to still did not change. But the logic with the very delicate existence in this process, "Does general believe a person " brawl is after all " is bisexual each other ripped " and of existence? a lot of people are fond of ridicule to scold namely? This is a problem that is worth ponder.
