About introversion, in your brain do the first think of what is?
Disposition is dissocial, tacit, antisocial, like to be in alone. . . . . . As if indrawn person inner world is full of loneliness.
Regular meeting of the classics in daily life hears somebody to complain: "My disposition is more indrawn, friend of it doesn't matter, want to let oneself become very much more extroversion a few ah! Want to let oneself become very much more extroversion a few ah!!
Also can hear a few parents to often chatter: "This child is introvert be in an unfavorable situation easily, if can extroversion is good. If can extroversion is good..
When " introvert " became a lot of people cannot refer also be ashamed at admitting cowardly at what face " painful " , still can be thought this is the state that has a problem even, need goes change and adjust.
So, do you understand introversion really?
01.The introversion that you think is probable it is false introversion!
Our habit uses introversion or the disposition that extroversion depicts a person, the person that think what those stay in dark corner all the time on the party is indrawn, what everything tries to make a central point is extroversion person. But the one side that actually everybody shows lively and optimistic one side and quiet melancholy likely.
Basis of case of Swiss psychologist flourish " psychological tendency " will differentiate personality type, put forward the earliest inside - doctrine of extroversion personality type. He thinks, the force that people comes from instinct can be called " force comparing is much " .
These two kinds idiosyncratic the direction that the most substaintial distinction depends on psychological energy pointing to, and be not Everyman place to think " whether to like human truck " .
The person apt of disposition extroversion achieves energy through the outer world, accordingly they more love socialization, like to wait for between one swarm philtrum, lively and conversable.
And introvert person psychology energy points to interior, so they are interested in inner world more, like to be in alone, read, writing, happier heart is mixed at self-communion think.
Anybody has extroversion and introversion these two kinds of features, but among them one kind may hold a dominant position, decided a person is extroversion or introversion thereby.
Notable is, introversion case also has the branch of true and false.
Really indrawn individual and main have the following 3 features:
① is contacted not actively with the outside, the likelihood below the circumstance of be forced to do also can be dealt with.
② does not want to be contacted with others, lack the interest that interacts with the person.
The desire that ③ does not have pressing him change.
And what false introversion holds proportion in indrawn crowd taller, that is to say, the shout in those mouths is worn oneself " introvert " individual great majority is false introversion.
They are glib before family member and friend, dash along, but when be being contacted with stranger to new situation, can become be rendered speechless.
They are pressing want him change, longing and others contact, communication, but just psychological quality is poorer, easy and shy, insecurity, block up they and outside contact.
Actually very much false introversion is the result that the environment alludes, because the person all round feels you are indrawn, affixed to you then " indrawn " label, make you ceaseless the idea that him aggrandizement is introversion.
02.Introvert be defect?
"They do not have a fault. They are indrawn only. They are indrawn only..
In eye of a lot of people, introversion is weakness of a kind of disposition, this is right " indrawn person " cognitive error. Actually, introversion and extroversion are individual inherent temperament, make a decision by gene greatly.
No matter be extroversion person indrawn still person having the dominant position that attributes oneself and inadequacy.
The person of extroversion pays attention to the outer world, they are enthusiastic and bold and unrestrained, make a prompt decision, paddle one's own canoe, sociability, action is quick, but work sometimes the reflection that owes maturity, too imprudent and harum-scarum.
Indrawn person is good at ego analysing, they work rigorous and careful, cogitative, reliable, but easy generation angst, nervous, depressed wait for negative sentiment.
Besides, indrawn person it is OK to like normally the business that the palm dominates, extroversion person the activity that longs to seek alarmingly dangerous to stimulate more. Indrawn person can study certain issue deep, extroversion person the thing that apt contacts all sorts of differring extensively. Indrawn person make correct and decision-making before need time will adjust a mood, extroversion person can make response instantly.
Although the person of introversion case looks so not happy, but type of this kind of disposition is normal, do not belong to neurosis, also have mind not as more easily as the person of extroversion disposition kind disease.
In most person eye, successful personage often eloquent, glib, face the music, face the masses to speak with fervor and assurance. But discovery of result of a survey, indrawn person often is behaved more outstandingly in the job, and the person that introversion succeeds far the person that over extroversion succeeds.
The expert points out, in introversion case about when the person of 1/5 is handling visual information, its cerebra is certain area is very active. They are goot at thoughtful, like to raise the question of different common, pay attention to detail, the target is specific and work more wholeheartedly, accordingly this also increased their successful probability.
There is very outstanding sale, instructor, HR inside the good friend that I know, these are the works that often need contact with following a person.
In alien eye they can talk very much, be goot at chatting with the person, hopeful and active up, but actually they are the person that be not the introversion of constant model: Any social activities can use up them a large number of energy, compare to it, they more the world that enjoys a person.
Introvert person is inherent and outstanding bend auditor, the person that they often compare those extroversion obtains the credit of people more easily, often have deepness, point of view more to the understanding of the problem more distinctive, leave the genuine, sedate, dependable, good impression that has absolute idea easily to the person.
A lot of people will be simple the ground will be introvert be equal at disposition dissocial. Introvert person is not actually dissocial, they just like to explore their inner world, experience in think contented, can speak with fervor and assurance after think. They are met very cautiously chooses choose friends to talk about an object, won't waste time and energy in as optional as the person chat.
Still some of person thinks introvert person is very bashful erroneously, in fact, bashful it is angst of a kind of society, it is pair of someone else concern to him view. A kind of feeling that because people is right,social circumstances lacks confidence and produces.
Bashful not the disposition because of you how and generation, because you fear someone else is met,more is how look upon you, it is a kind of mentation that forms in acquired environment.
03.The company fears, introspective, angst, restrain. . . . . . Does original introversion still distribute a kind?
Compare extroversion, psychologist people the exploration that is fond of pair of introversion more.
The indrawn model that Grimes(2005) studies is indrawn cent 4 big kinds: Society (Social) , think model (Thinking) , angst (Anxious) , restrain model (Inhibited) . A person is OK by one sort dominant, mix a few kinds of types possibly also at the same time.
Society introversion person
Society introversion is the social side that points to introversion, also be the sort of kind that everybody says normally.
They depend on the range of deepness and rather than of human relation going up to gregarious preference, apt enters the social activity of a few quiet small groups. Compared with friend amount, they more the quality that goes after a friend, having the close friend with not much amount to.
Think model indrawn person
Think model indrawn person take ego seriously to think over, include reflection theme, method and value.
They often can be passed introspective, contemplative will know oneself and another person better. With the society model different, they won't be out of line with the society commonly, but also not quite habit and other share the view to some thing. They are happy to be enmeshed in their reflection, pursuit fills the day dream of imagination and creativity.
Angst introversion person
Angst introversion person very the time that enjoys a person, they can feel very uneasy to the new situation of a lot of people, can have a few gregarious and scared disease even.
With the society model different, with stranger communication can let them feel anguish and awkwardness, calculate this kind of feeling after breaking away from a crowd to still won't disappear, other is cared about overly in social situation constant to oneself view feel not self-confident.
They prefer a book and not be a person, so a person is staying to make them more comfortable.
Restrain model indrawn person
Restrain model indrawn person like normally cogitative, it is clear before so their habit is saying every word does every thing to think carefully. Because think repeatedly before their apt conversation, action, work so means is slow and sedate.
Refuse in their dictionary " actuation " 2 words, when its happening they can choose to be advanced slowly, won't let impulse affect their decision absolutely.
Write finally
No matter be introversion or extroversion, a dimension that is disposition actually is spent, do not have the cent of stand or fall. By the individual character of environment and culture apply colours to a drawing the social disposition that is people only actually, and the heart reason case that be not is people.
Understood indrawn essence truly when us only, ability admits him sincerely, find the way that suits oneself to exist more thereby.
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