Of adult break down, those who come is too easy. When I see this word, I thought of a lot of. Why to think of to you can break down? Is the person that break down very much? If have a lot of a lot people, is this kind of phenomenon not quite normal? We today's corporeal life height develops, but have a lot of however everyday cronk person, why ah? Are we to should pass compare before happier? Why to break down, be anguish? In view of me although had grown up, but just 19 years old big, be big the student of one, the job in entering a society passes, also had not experienced this kind breaks down truly the pressure of backside, so I may not be to suit to answer these questions very much. But of the opinion that I think myself or some are original and view. The understanding that I can press myself as far as possible and idea go answer and the reason that explain backside of this kind of phenomenon. If you are not agreed with, also forgive please, him experience is still shallow, the view may be not quite overall, still need to continue to grow, the thing that has a lot of needs me to learn, the thing that has a lot of needs me to experience.
Factitious what can break down? Assumes pressure is too heavy, arrive again oneself are suffocative come. The job that person place has our much the pay of every month is fixed commonly, we are OK easily him cipher out is in in the future a certain number of year the salary total that can receive. I consider the measure of this summation too won't tall, insufficient you buy a fine house, insufficient you go buying a similar car, insufficient you can assume an all sorts of defray of this family easily. If stand in a record of formal schooling,not be very tall, the angle of the undergraduate with average household goes looking, do not rely on parents, rely on oneself only, him just think completes college school work in 22 years old, graduation hind enters work to earn money directly, but the school that attends because of you is average, oneself ability is general also, pitching a lot of resume, but most disappear forever, have finally so 9 units agree to enrol you, but salary won't be very high, the probability became high also with respect to 559 that appearance, general meeting is lower, next wage is average also. But you must agree to work, it is better to because search,be less than, also do not have what other unit wants you. Next you went to work, the job that tries hard everyday, go struggling for oneself future, you hope the other in part that allows your can have a good life, need not follow you to have a rough time, also can let natural span of life of parental take care of oneself, the child that lets oneself not was born one day need not lag behind at the person on start. You want to buy a car to buy a house in working city, you hope you can mix type giving a person, you hope oneself and your parents can raise a head to come before kin friend. Can Where is reality? The parents that the salary that you take every months still may do not have you is tall. Take my Mom for, my Mom dry-nurse salary of every months 559, but my Mom is peasant family background, did not finish even junior high school. And you are a college graduate at least, but salary also so a bit. Do you begin what had before suspecting your, gone up to learn useful? Pay is so low, be inferior to even parents. You do not think the parents that connects your has not been compared, you should prove you are stronger than parents. You are very able, you long to rise duty raises, can be in reality there often is the sort of job to do not have you beside you assiduous, ability does not have you strong, but raises rising job is them forever that kind of person. Their some is relative, some meetings talk, affection quotient is high! Some meetings are in crucial when reveal oneself. What the boss often sees is they are working hard, although you are more assiduous, but nobody sees. They are a favourite by sb in power beside the boss, and you are those who work. All sorts of likely the main chance have nothing to do with you, you want to scold those be able to achieve success one way or another but the person that does not have skill, you think the boss superior that scolds you is fool, it is to lack heart, see the person that is less than genuine effort at all, be turned all round by what Lilliputian plays, fatuity incapacity, how can they sit to the boss of that position? Old day is not to open his eyes really! But you can bury those anger in the heart only, still want to be mixed to a favourite by sb in power beside those bosses in reality the boss is humbly, must please them everywhere, you do not have anthology, can in that way. Your salary as before very low, although good rise duty raises not easily, but you calculate again, oneself are in 30 years old before buy wanted house very hard still, the house is must some, does the other in part that allows oneself otherwise live? The likelihood does not have other in part, the family's family does not agree, follow you how to wedding day can pass. The family wants you to there is a house in the city, build in the country again how good be no good. That goes, buy a house, loan Fu Shoufu is bought. But because loan buys a house and you must not return a room every months to borrow, and that room is borrowed occupied you the one much of every monthly wages, you must the expenditure of cut other respect, often dare not go out to play, often dare not go out to eat very expensive meal, dare not buy expensive thing. Passed a few years next, you want to have a car again, also not be you think, however you are forced, celebrate a festival come home, even if country, the person that is brought up with generation with you has a car, and you are done not have, you can let parents carry do not start, although your parents never has said you,let their lose face, but you cannot bear at the heart namely, you are parental pride, you do not want to let parental comparing do not cross the parents of others, also do not want to let oneself be before classmate friend lose face, then you borrow money again bought a similar car, however you may not leave one year a few times, come home at most celebrate a festival, because fat fee is too expensive, assume do not rise to drive everyday the charge that go to work. This falls but good, your room is borrowed did not pay off, the car is borrowed also came, in before long the child also came in the future, the child that other friend works in the same place went up good nursery school, go up classes of all sorts of take lessons after school, pay attention to quality education, you cannot make the child backward! Spend again much money to want to go up, oneself have nothing to do with bit more painstakingly, the child must win on the scratch line. During this you are likely wages rose a few times, but that bit of money that go up has not touched all sorts of your expense! You are in slave of room slave car was become in 229 years of life next, you often complain old day is unjust, become depressed angst, be not understood by other in part, you are very painful, let a person deeply want to cry, but you are the pillar in the home, you do not have method. Arrived more than 40 years old in you next when, your parents is old, the person became old often go to the bad, next once your parents got an a serious illness, need a lot of money, but you are done not have, and calculate did an operation to also may have sequela, still need to use expensive drug for a long time. So are you treated to parents or do not treat? You want to treat, but you are carried do not have that money! But immedicable him word is too cruel and unscrupulous also! Painful, endless anguish, you broke down. . .
Read here, the reader can feel too miserable also for certain! Very few somebody is such in reality all the way Bei after all! You this is not quite one-sided! Say those anguish only, still have very a lot of more happy and happy time! Your this person is written so that be no good, still be a child that did not enter a life. Yes, my chest thinks out all these, guess the mentation of the break down person that give and life are experienced, myself had not been experienced, the reader can become these only a story look. But I want to a lot of people should be met had encountered above 9 mentioned things!
What actually we can pass originally is better. Regard an average college as the undergraduate of graduation, you have very large possibility is finished in the college of a big city. Your experience arrived outside of the world flourishing, next you do not want to return that little place that you are born, think over there the look does not issue him, oneself have taller sky to hover. Can do you have really? With respect to the native place that takes me, a of Henan small town, I still am born in the country, right rural person. I attend a college in Xi'an now, take my present record of formal schooling for, if work to be not taken an examination of directly after my graduation,stay in Xi'an, I can find an average job possibly only, salary has great likelihood to do not have my Mom tall. Xi'an undergraduate is too much, stronger than me person is too much, I not worth at all in this money. I struggle in this a just a little can not afford a room 10 years, also can not afford a car. Next I do not suit to stay in Xi'an really with respect to the ability that may discover my, next outer enter that small town that I return after swinging a few years. In that small town I am OK very find a good job easily, it is very costly that I am returned in that ground, after all content with rare for expensive, salary is quite high also, I may struggle a house with can buy a surroundings a few years very fine in the west of of that city, still perhaps can buy a car, the money that I make can let my more than sufficient, the life is OK very satisfied. Can if be in Where is Xi'an? What I have big probability to pass is very miserable. Here the person that I can not rely on, I never had belonged to here before attending a college, I will to this get on an university to also do not represent me to be able to belong to here later. Because my ability cannot be propped up,remove me to wait for here. If I am waited for forcibly,be here, so real difficult task will press me have one's body smashed to pieces, my ability cannot bear this heavy burden, I also can be likely finally in anguish break down. I work 20 years in this insufficient I buy a poorer house in this, talk about what future and happiness. Somebody of so affirmative meeting asks, little place comes to you, have leeway, can we these itself are born in big city? I can say only, that small town is the start of my life, I climbed with effort relative to me that small town higher degree. And your start is big city, enjoy the resource of each better than me sides, you become backer in the father and mother that has you then, although your parents also may do not have too big original story, but should meet at least somewhat house. If you cannot bear even the place that is born in oneself the pressure that it gives you, can say you and parental photograph compare retrogression only. With respect to a few people that encounter in big city like me, they may be the poors here, but want them to be willing to sell everything only, OK in a small town entire section buys a room to buy a car, still be the sort of pretty good car room, what can pass is very happy. But the person takes to altitude, nobody is willing to be retreated. Do not think after what the person of these little places crosses even us big city in experience is flourishing, more what is more,the rather that are those itself of big city? Do not say nostalgic the sort of thing, say to hate to part with the place that leaves ancestor! Rise with reality comparing, oneself this acting person work just must be kingcraft very. Your father generation, grandfather generation has the limit of own pressure, your pressure limit and they may have very big different, the probability is high likely also low, they are adaptable you may not suit surroundings and pressure, also carry do not have that heavy burden. The person is one kind gets used to the biology with very strong capability, do not subdue oneself because of lay experience and eye, what you subdue is not temporarily oneself, however of lifetime oneself, this decided the future of your this generation and destiny. Our Xian Zuceng comes to this land via crossing hill and ocean, got used to the environment here, fought natural weigh, just also had accordingly today's all round we and everything. Acclimatization is a kind of instinct of the animal, because civilized and those who lost oneself is natural,do not want. Survival of the fittest is never antiquated nature law, prophetic way is asked before knowing you are an individual you are an animal.
Said so much, should say also said, the likelihood has some of place to did not think of, forgive please, after all I am young still, my life still is growing! I had not found the limit of own pressure! Hey! No matter you feel this article how, although you feel very poor, it is abracadabra at all, all is highbrow illusion, also respect work achievement please, you do not need this article, but total somebody may need, be? Hope all people can have a happy life, the world is very good! Do not see wrong inactive thing only.
If this article affected the life of a certain person, produced positive effect, I will be very happy.
