Chang Youbao's Mom leaves a message to me, the problem also is various, the sense that gives me is: Why to hear so much argument, still teach bad child? On the problem that teachs the child, every child differ in thousands ways, I feel the parent still wants the sufficient child that knows his, ability teach students in accordance of their aptitude. Ever had read a book, " Carter Weir's education " this book is a father, how the premature with unresponsive period of a baby, education is become 8, 6 mandarin word can be used freely when 9 years old, 16 years old obtain law doctor's degree, be by analogy in 19 centuries Germany " talent " educational means experience. Carl Weite uses his distinctive inchoate education means, what rear the child is outstanding and outstanding, concept of his a lot of education, up to now still by people place praise highly.
1. ability gives subtration criterion
Inculcate a notion about Carl Weite, relatively famous " ability gives subtration criterion " , if plan institute is shown, this view, it is the key that lets the parent capture the child to develop period, the ability before emphasizing 3 years old especially is fostered, one but miss, foster again can reduce gain greatly. When I am being communicated with a lot of parents, also emphasize for many times, especially language problem of the child, miss 3 years old, foster the effect to will get again very big impact. But, some parents, also cannot because miss this time, abandon, , say this problem again today, it is the to child language education before reminding the parent to want to take seriously 3 years old, if miss 3 years old, also cannot abandon, make the best of time from now on, the child is bigger, it is difficult that education rises to be able to be jumped over only!
2. family education is the most important
Domestic education, school education and society are taught, in the 3 big environments that in us everybody experiences necessarily, domestic education is most important, the formation of disposition of a child, very old rate depends on parental influence, if every parents is before the child, can make with the body duty, go affecting the child with the action, believe all actions want to surpass countless " proper superfluous words " . If every parents can optimize his educational means ceaselessly, be willing high quality accompanies the child, be willing to learn together with the child grow, believe not to let the parents of child disappointment, also can teach a child that does not make parents disappointed certainly!
3. equality speaks
In the educational process to the child, carter Weir is before the child, never regard the child as the child, insist to undertake communication communicating with equal attitude with the child however. I feel to be in we are contemporary on parental body, a lot of families support self-identity opinion to this viewpoint, but in material life carry out in the center, can accomplish child of equal, esteem truly, it is relatively difficult to appear however, have how many father and mother the name with love, make the child helpless comply with. Actually conversion thinks, in those days oneself are also ever against one's will the parents at oneself, nowadays with same attitude, continued once educational means!
4. Maternal education nobody are replaced
The mother is worn in the play of the child in growing the function that cannot supersede, carl Weite says: The mother of small Carl is a brave, happy mom, and this kind of spirit also is affecting a son deeply, after growing up in him, no matter encounter any difficulty, the metropolis is precipitant, the great person of on the history a lot of successes, have a mother that is good at education normally. In inchoate education of the child, the mother should be accompanied more accompany the child, let the child feel he is very fond of.
5. Press can destroy the child
Modern society pressure, let angst of a lot of parents, this direct meeting influence grows to the child's body and mind, exorbitant to child requirement, use force bigger, such doing not only the development education that has couldn't get, can destroy the self-confident heart of a child even, so, after the child is born, parents should discover the child's interest, teach students in accordance of their aptitude, not only the endowment that should develop the child, should pay attention to all-pervasive education more.
6. Happy the key that is health
We hope the child is healthy, the limbs that goes up besides the body is healthy, buoyant ability is the key of health of child body and mind. The environment that the child lives, if domestic atmosphere is disharmonious, the child's psychology can be affected certainly, affect prospective disposition even. Carl Weite pays attention to the child's body and mind to develop very much, the day with sunny sunshine, can bring the child in field, make him sufficient contact nature, breathing fresh air, sometimes, let the child sleep even outdoors, accept sunshine adequately. Insist to bathe to the child everyday, massage hands or feet, can develop his touch already so, what also can develop through promoting blood to let limb circularly is more agile.
So the education that combines Carl Weite, hope we every parent, especially treasure Mom, must accumulate what ecstasy watchs to spend each days with the child! The gold before capturing 3 years old period, promote integrated capability in amuse oneself together with the child!
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