I am in parent of 500 student studying abroads group li of conceal 20 months

Civil | Xu Di

From WeYoungMedia

Since go abroad, study abroad the one big regret of the party often lacks time to accompany parental family namely, be in a lot of casual, we can discover suddenly:

Memory is middleaged light they, as if flashy aged, but exclusive and changeless, it is the heart that they are caring us from beginning to end however.

We are in exotic when writing Paper to drive Due, they are in of ocean the other shore group in also a bit does not have at a loose end. . .

Accidental opportunity, I begin to walk into the parents of backside of those student studying abroad.

"Group compasses as follows

Ask each parent to be abided by jointly "

Two years ago, I am sham a parent that parent infiltrate Ohio establishs an university group in, very accident ground discovers: This group group of compasses it is I had seen probably the strictest.

Build group, it is to make these far be in parent of 10 thousand lis student studying abroad, have a platform that communicates information and experience each other.

On this platform, altogether fractionize is 8 group of compasses, friendly affection, solidarity, equal, esteem is thematic, do not allow the words and deeds such as any discrimination attack.

Besides arrange group of plan that come out for nothing obviously, still have a lot of recessive rule, enter for instance group the first job that must want to do, alter group of oneself calling card namely.

To obscure oneself student identity, I am illuminating group of nickname stencil, changed to oneself group of calling card " B Nanjing + bright bright mom -- 16 projects " .

Probably means, I am a mom that is in Nanjing, a son makes shine, the project that is 16 class is professional.

Follow the snout of pa Mom, I sent a message cautiously " the video that child mass organizations makes, hope authority is great support " .

According to be in before with age person small letter group the experience in, video of this kind of article kind share, did not reply mostly.

Very accident is, actually 4 parents replied this my message, right still I " son " admiration has add.

Parents boast my light shines is " the big boy that the thought has the operation "

500 parents, a dialog box

Be in rarely group a little in had closed such to message, to the parent group enthusiastic echo, I am very accident, also began all the more attention to rise then.

Although be mixed in group li of time that already had two years, but before never admit to had looked really group li of chatting record, curiosity drives me to leaf through once chatting record, observed the following kinds of topics.

Commercial each other plays set

Be in this group in, parents are reincarnate for " producer of the whole people " , regard each other child as " love beans " same Pick, the progress that even if one man is nodded,praising them each other.

"Your daughter dishy, very outstanding really, I must make my home child much learn. I must make my home child much learn..

"This thing does your son very maturely, congratulate you, have a so outstanding son! Have a so outstanding son!!

Date series

Besides mutual Pick, father mother are little still not well " promote " oneself child, the important event that is them is held worry about.

If you not trichomadesis, musical instrument of apropos meeting door, blow xiao to pull a two-stinted bowed instrument with a lower register than Jingo for instance of what, be in group of soubrettes over there, you can be in very likely group in date the C of column go out.

- " my home child 91 years, the girl that has of the right age. The girl that has of the right age..

- " the girl that the boy of engineering course thinks to look for a liberal art. - " the girl that the boy of engineering course thinks to look for a liberal art..

Look the young associate that study abroad is to want to learn well only really enough, important event has the parent group hold for you do ～

Life bagatelle series

Besides, parents still can discuss the insignificant minor matter in a lot of a lot of lives.

For instance dollar exchange rate went up again recently, the otherwise in child boot should take one bed quilt again, can the United States buy appropriate teakettle, dormitory air conditioning makes a noise cannot sleep. . . . . .

Have a kind of hunger, call your Mom to feel you are hungry

The parent that is born anew greatly still is in anxious to clear away baggage to the child of before leaving, and big the parent of 2 students gives out very quickly all sorts of close " a n experienced person " directive, even still the parent can bask in the baggage detailed account that gives on manuscript 1000 words and note.

Emmm. . . I as if see 500 parents, stand before my boot, should give me paste of sesame seed of a place of strategic importance.

I want to ask a thing series

More moment, the parent group resembling is an information platform.

Because those children are impatient the problem that is not willing to reply, or the child also is in interrogative problem, helping by the parent in group a little in seek the solution.

Of course, it is the job and the topic that develop prospect for the most part:

Be in group in, any following the thing related the school, affecting their heart, for fear that misses each important time node, about " graduation applies for a job " life important matter, they are exert more all over skill wants to help strength one time.

"I often feel beyond the reach of one's power "

Begin from high school outer go to school, have a holiday every time come home, my Mom always is curious whats to install in my case.

She can hope I put on the dress in the case to her to look, english novel interpreter listens to her, protect skin to taste recommend her to use, it is what kind of that she hopes to be able to imagine from thing itself I live daily, with this fill we live in each other medium blank.

The means of my pa is more implicative, he can stand to the table aside, see the business that I am doing, now and then discuss a few learning and life with me.

The life of our be accustomed to sth, extremely fresh in their eye curiosity, the bagatelle that we feel undeserved to be carried, let their be very worried about however.

Each restless night, parents always is guessing us to read some of what kind of book in the library again, ate what cate on the weekend again with the friend.

And the parent group it is the way that they know me.

Although be mixed because of the distance the reason of time, our relation can become aloof, but the connection that they still do not allow I and home in effort is weaker and weaker.

The parent group li of normal that share

Group in other parent also is such, the life much place that they want to understand children to be in the United States is again bit more, ensure when children are encountering a problem, can be clear that state, side is worn of parenthood give counsel.

"I hope I make the child's route of retreat, let him no matter,know how up ascend, parents catchs him below. Parents catchs him below..

"I am afraid that they climb not tall, be afraid that they climb again too tall, do not follow high to go up a bit to our line of sight. Do not follow high to go up a bit to our line of sight..

This kind of terrified and but, also be this group can gather together probably, the reason that shares message each other.

And group in most often appear, the inquiry spends highest topic, also be to stem from safety kind news, for example the force that university seat produces, accident is waited a moment;

Before paragraph time, the mental health of student studying abroad that the heat on the net discusses also is the parent group one of topics with numerous intermediate frequency, those they are aching is in on the brim struggling children, at the same time they also are examined in ego, earnestly cuts understanding how to just can approach the psychological world of children.

Make the parental border, communication about teaching way besides exploration, the parent also can discuss social topic.

And the pressing psychology that hopes to get information when them and want to protect the child when the heart is encountered one case first, total meeting has a few misunderstanding to happen, the viewpoint of a few extremes often also can arise.

Because their news source comes from media coverage of home mostly, some information are existing the possibility of misdirect, parental hard to avoid of the part will be a little extreme.

And we rise from the first day when begin to study abroad, expose in new culture, the world outlook that oneself is based on place of Chinese traditional culture to build is in keep producing collision with new thing, we just begin to understand, a lot of things do not have the uniform standard that establishs absolutely, inscribe those who had reason think to word of a few societies with the manner.

And serve as children we just should be communicated with them more, after all the new idea that we give them, far understand more easily from the website than them be admitted.

20 months, 500 parents, allude " the child " this word 6021, digital backside is cannot quantify care and care.

These because of love strange feeling, should more share with party, is not to become the parent group a deep feeling in.

Whole the process that study abroad, be a paragraph of student studying abroad and parents share experience.

"The child is not beside, our parents can sign up for a group to warm oneself here only " , this word also is the parent group essence. Their deep feeling is worn and of the child part, comforting each other let each other relaxedly, they the progress that each other are praising the child, discussing the important matter minor matter in the school.

Only here lets them feel, oneself still are done not have by child place " forget " , had been not lived by the child's new student " abandon " , even if is in exotic life of the child, cannot be the person that steer a boat again, also want to become an eligible spectator, at least also if not backward spectator.

Parents is adjusting him, the attempt accepts a few new point of view and view, what they need most is the way that knows news. And to him student studying abroad, what we need is the support on affection and mood go up abreact mouth.

A lot of moment, we worry to do not let parents, and pretend painstakingly oneself pass well still same, resembling is parents also is not willing to let us worry for them. But undeniable is, there is a line to be in forever between parents and children coupling, each other hope the other side is in of the earth eat fully, wear warmly, sleep spicily while, rational is solved and still can participate in.

We pass each other between more communication, between each other can some more understand, in the life that shares the other side with another kind of means, after all, which parents does not want to sit in the home to follow your video, listen to be favored with of be favored with of be favored with of be favored with of daughter be favored with to study abroad daily, listen to a son to liked to go up again recently a little which beautiful girl.

Read this article so, hit a video to communicate to father mother, they think you, I guess you also is.

Write finally

Of the story at the beginning, we just are taking amused manner to do this period content, still had wanted to want to do even " how to become the parent group in the most welcome ' the parent ' " challenge. We try to searched to have more very much explode dot, have the chatting record of the topic, final be moved by they are simple and clear insitute of language however.

So, we chose the directest way, direct the parent group chatting record, arrange amalgamative share you. Hope this period share can bring to you a warmth and touch.

This period recommend read:

Tiring-room reply key word [go back to the motherland] , extract " after going back to the motherland, I why so fear to become " is the society rock-bottom " ? "

Date of small letter public correcting of double ...

To allow authority see high grade abroad content for a short while

Ten million! Ten million! Ten million!

Remember [astral mark] or [buy supports] INSIGHT eyeshot