In the historical culture inheritance that is in China thousands of years, always existing a lot of unreasonable systems, e.g. : System of archaic eunuch, lady-in-waiting. Of eunuch system cruel, it is function of reproduction of will healthy man is abandoned, after that, just can wait upon into palace emperor. Appearance beauty sets like beautiful woman: After entering palace, cannot get married, wait for formulary age to just can give off palace, some often dies in palace even.
These poor people are set even the basiccest human nature requirement by proclaimed in writing and prohibited. But, alleged " on have policy, there is the way to deal with a situation below " . Although, the woman inside palace cannot get married, but, stipulate without proclaimed in writing eunuch and lady-in-waiting cannot be together however, so, in past dynasties of all previous face, can a few is unable to bear loneliness, courage big eunuch and lady-in-waiting people together, chat each other with solace.
Carry relevant unofficial history account, we know, eunuch and the appearance that lady-in-waiting ties together to get along are called " to feeding " , in the meantime, see not hard also " to feeding " in ancient time enclothe rate is very old still. It is especially in the palace of Ming Dynasty, this kind of phenomenon particularly general. So, why can Ming Dynasty appear such " to feeding " ? We announce this result together today.
Break up " 10 thousand all previous are wild obtain make up " , the lady-in-waiting of the Gong Li after knowing just now is married grandpa bark is straight, be not an empty hole invites the wind-weakness lends wings to rumors. The matter speaks of at the beginning of come from 16 centuries end 17 centuries, await in those days, famous on the west Wang Zhi of factory big eunuch is early had died, but, living still eunuch still has a lot of. During this, have the Shen Defu of childe elder brother of a special the Eight Diagrams, right inside palace " to feeding " the thing has had statistic.
Later, he just knows: In Gong Li, if that eunuch did not find lady-in-waiting to become a girlfriend, or if which lady-in-waiting did not find eunuch to become a boy friend, that has been special the thing that lose face. "To feeding " love happen inside palace long, with respect to be accustomed to sth, even, some still developed " to feeding " marital degree, these bitter people " below the month before the star, each other make a pledge " .
Since, two people are together, so, have to have appropriate appellation just goes.
It is in emperor city, "To feeding " like common common people cannot is the same as of course between the men and women, readily " husband " , readily " a form of address for one's wife " so appellation, can have in that way break decency, then, there was cipher between them. Meet to the eunuch that feed in palace be called out " dish door " , resembling is us say now who is " a dish of dish " same, and lady-in-waiting can be called " old lady " .
These cipher from at the beginning when, crying so between eunuch, lady-in-waiting, but, time is long, again secret cipher, the person that call became much also can be announced under the light of day. Even, inside the ear that these things still can pass an emperor, say " law not duty numerous " , so, emperor of some Ming Dynasty also was forced to accept this fact.
Even, when having, emperor now and then character comes, still can speak beside next people that serve, those who ask him " to feeding " who is the object? Since emperor so dehisce asked, next people also can according to the facts report, lest get the charge on delusive gentleman.
In Ming Dynasty, "To feeding " although be general,the thing is in in palace, but, also be unavoidable to have the czar that detests this kind of phenomenon extremely. Zhu Yuanzhang is a very serious person, the look in his eye does not get the least bit sand. During heteronomy country, if see beside have which eunuch or be love of lady-in-waiting Tan Lian, can consider as these people to rot Chao Gang, should suffer decorticated cruel torture more.
Though, zhu Yuanzhang used a lot of methods to put an end to this kind of phenomenon, but, the person's the seven human emotions 6 often be about to be hard pilot, be bat can you prevent?
In so big Forbidden City, eunuch and lady-in-waiting people it is to serve master people servent, the position has been been very low, everybody can no matter be,step on on one foot. Boss people grouchy when, just also take them at will to vent one's anger. It is namely under a such bad situation, also issue people only mutual between can offer the other side trifling warmth, the time is long, automatical can give birth to a sincere feeling.
Of course, in daily life, go up besides spirit they can be accused each other with solace besides, in materially also can assist each other. Lady-in-waiting people what also can notice oneself usually is clad dress up, like to wear the skirt with original design, but pass eunuch only people help, they just can buy the thing that suits him purpose. In the course of contacts, a love talking incidentally between both also happen constantly.
So, dominate no matter estate is used how extreme method, also was not to prohibit " to feeding " of the objective existence of the thing. Mr Huang Renyu old is in " 10 thousand all previous 15 years " in also had mentioned " to feeding " thing, what he writes is Zhu Yi the thing of your moment. Arrived at that time, eunuch and lady-in-waiting had become common issue to feeding, who can still do not have an object?
Even, conjugal love can compare right now their show bolder before, often the hand is pulled hand, shoulder to shoulder in Gong Li swagger through the street, general like common husband and wife husband sings Fu to follow. But, the place that they also dare lose sight of in the emperor only is such. After all, zhu Yi your acceded faultlessly Zhu Yuanzhang's tradition, he also is to object " to feeding " of the thing.
And, have a regulation: Always be in palace of privately give and privately accept, can be in with the death penalty. Connect from which the person of matchmaking, also can be in with bastinado duty.
Finally, be in " to feeding " on the choice of the object, still have so an interesting thing.
A lot of eunuch people also be not when choosing a girlfriend " it is a woman go " , favore those meetings especially however the lady-in-waiting of hutch art. Because, eunuch people be in ferial when be worth, want the clad food of serve boss, unless when after boss have dinner ends, ability be free makes the best of time eat on 9 already cool the meal that appeared.
So, if say which lady-in-waiting is met the word of hutch art, be comparative " popular " . This is so called " the heart that wants to hold a person, the stomach that captures this individual first certainly " .
Reference material:
[" bright history " , " 10 thousand all previous are wild obtain make up " , " to feeding Vicki encyclopedia " ]
