Close friends, countryside adjacent 4 abandon, go inaccessibly, get together, with promotional feeling, but want to notice, wine has 5 to be not drunk, money has 3 to be not sent, the word has 3 not to say, adjacent has 3 unlike!
Wine has 5 to be not drunk 1, do not drink much wineWine is drunk much, afflictive is him. Cannot be too fond of drink on wine desk, cannot wine of be addicted to. Answer to drink a few cups less, not drunk advisable.
2, do not drink urgent wineWine is intense content, reserve strength is very great, must drink slowly. Cannot drink urgently, do not work first easily to respect. Drink urgent, once aftereffect came up, the meeting is very afflictive.
3, do not drink urge sb to drink.When drinking, want to know oneself bottom is measured, not via living of others persuade, feel embarrassed the face of stroke others, casual drink exceed an amount.
4, not malty wineClose friend meets, do not great rejoicing big Bei, desperately drink, oneself or others is malty, to oneself also advantage of it doesn't matter, so classmate friend party drinks must one is spent, and malty and easy make trouble perhaps has an accident.
5, do not drink anonymous wineDo not drink anonymous wine. Drink should have a renown head, proposing a toast each other also is of course, but to what do not know each other, come with wine of purpose fill your person, do not want to drink as far as possible.
Money has 3 to be not sent 1, the money that lends an unit light is not sentHim have the aid of of a lot of people is in the influence in the unit, borrow the east wind of the unit, doing oneself business. Although may send bit of little money, but the result is very miserable also when having an accident, the facilities with him old effort is destroyed at once.
So, no matter the opportunity has many good, the thing that lend an unit light and gets rich is not done, the cause that cannot take oneself is joking.
2, overdraw the money of 3 affection is not sentAlleged overdraw the money of 3 affection, disregard a family member namely, the feeling of friend and family, below the condition that violates their apiration, earn a few shocking money.
To anybody, this 3 affection are extremely precious, a thousand pieces of gold is bought hard, must not overdraw everybody's emotion goes getting rich.
3, the money of damage person is not sentThe money of alleged damage person, do the interest that harms others to come namely the job that seek expands, it is for instance in the unit, for oneself upgrade climbs not hesitate to make to oneself colleague caustic action is waited a moment.
Adjacent has 3 unlike 1, do not compare goldMoney this thing, it is good to be used quite, not was necessary to be compared with others.
2, do not compare the childThe child has prospect, the thing that is him child, not was necessary to take oneself child to follow those who fasten a family to compare.
3, do not compare a houseThe room is used, no matter size, just be a nest. The check is the most serious is sweet, have nothing to do size.
The word has 3 not to say 1, not gossipThe person has the trouble of gossip more or less, many people " rumor, lie " or " the secret of others " treat as talk endowment.
Everybody knows " Out of the mouth comes evil. " , claver not only nonnutritively, say much easy still wake a sleeping dog.
2, do not say mad wordBe an upright person work, mad word boast should say less. Self-abased what does a person jump over, pretentious what to jump over, full paddy is low head, the not plump Gucai of only available sky admires a Xiang Tian.
Be an upright person should low-key, condescending, if because of temporarily achievement, ego of arrogant and conceited loss, that thed loss outweights the gain.
3, do not say to complain a wordLife is inferior to meaning nine times out of ten, in the life say less to complain a word as far as possible, search from oneself more when anything crops up seek an account.
Think whether oneself were accomplished before blame everyone and everything but not oneself best, whether were oneself paid hard.
Like to hear the word that grouse without the person, now and then the complaint that send a drop is OK, groan for long, again close person also can be overcome.