Once often somebody asks a question, that is scale of Chinese men and women difference is so big, does Chinese man search really get wife? This problem is actually bad really to reply, because do not have method investigation to say, china has how many man maiden. But after some schoolgirls are seeing this problem, it is the sexual advantage that can feel oneself are born one day, so oneself what choose idol standard puts is very tall, she feels she is so precious, certainly the man can choose her.
And in fact, have the woman of such idea, became big surplus possibly later female, because fine man likes outstanding woman. And these men that have Qianduojin, look from inside a lot of news, they never also had lacked a woman it seems that, so a lot of females are not in improperly belittle oneself, think oneself have natural advantage. Marital cultured still is be matched for marriage, only such marriage just can be happy.
So now why, are more and more men willing to seek a woman actively? Be because don't they want to marry, ? Answer of a n experienced person says: Actually this reason brings about everything!
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Xiaoliu and I tell about him to not be willing to pursue the schoolgirl's matter actively, he says because he gives everything what do not remove a schoolgirl to want really,that is. Feeling is very stable before the cummer before he says he is mixed, put forward to want to buy the business of the room in city of a second line then, also be OK after two individual marriage after all with what get. At that time his offerring is he goes out much, cummer goes out before little, the house keeps two the individual's names, such she is not deficient also. But before cummer rejected him offer, if want to buy,express with respect to him a person is bought, she is not willing to give this money, then this thing was laid aside.
After small Liu Shui passed one year, that flatlet that he values multiplied the price of one times, then he knows or else is bought, house price still meets the likelihood go up, answered county of him native place to buy a house so, it is bottom of him stationary point, as a safeguard. After all lease goes to this house now oneself still can receive bit of fund, later if want to buy a house in the city, so sell also can be worth time, he feels very pretty good still.
Both sides arrived to talk about the phase that marriage talking marries later, this moment just is Xiaoliu most when having a headache. Because mother-in-law puts forward conjugal word to want betrothal gifts, and the bullion headgear with very much preparation of the cummer before wanting, these calculating coming down is not brushstroke small amount. And Xiaoliu lets parents give money without the plan, after all he himself is working now, do not want to bother parents. Work with respect to what can work overtime only so, it is to be besides the job even still receive illicit sheet to make money, want to marry these earlier the money collect of need is neat.
But before cummer expresses however very do not understand, it is to blame Xiaoliu to know the work only every day even, do not accompany her not to care her, also do not accompany her to shop. And small Liu Ye and she explained, say this a few it is for two people can marry as soon as possible, so he needs this paragraph of time hard to make money. But before cummer expresses however, she needs small Liu for company only she, do not need profitable machine, also do not need so much money, this invites Xiaoliu be left without an argument.
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Two people still divided a hand later, because Xiaoliu did not earn enough money,not be, the viewpoint that is the cummer before he discovers he is mixed only is on bad terms, decided so so. And after part company, small Liu Ye is demit dropped the job, taking him hardship to earn the money that come to travel everywhere, learned dive, he discovers former life is so good at that time, fell in love with such life then.
Do you ask he had not wanted to search again? He says to had not wanted to mix love at present marry to be main goal, he wants to enjoy the life first, what do not want to force oneself again is so close, it is good to arrange its nature so. And he is very excited still tell me, since after parting company, he just feels he is so rich before, the time can pass so well, the decision that he feels to did not regret to part company, because he is very happy really now very happy also.
Actually a lot of men are not willing to go after a schoolgirl now, even if went after also not be willing to marry, because do not want to be manacled,be actually, and because,more important is actually " poor " , the betrothal gifts that they pay the woman need without money and all sorts of things. And present youth, great majority also is not willing to let parents take money again, because they feel marrying is his thing, not was necessary to let pay take out so much to accumulate, come for oneself, so this thing also was put down slowly.
Xiaoliu has said very do not demand happy sentence, that is " the moneybags that poor boy of 20 years old is inferior to 40 years old " . Although this word is very much,the female does not love to listen, but man or meeting feel reasonable.
Now topic:
Do you feel doesn't the man think what conjugal reason is now?
