Psychologist: Made a mistake however shirk responsibility, germ is here actually

Common saying says " the person is not sages and men of virtue, what can have not been had " , it is the individual can err, but after-thought leaves authority, is the error that you admit yourself last time when? Presumable friend had been unable to call to mind. Gave an issue, the first reaction of most person often is not to seek an account, look for excuse to say desperately however " this thing does not blame me " . ? ? You look, in its at a stand when, most person thinks play truant only, not self-conscious even ground is lying, for instance in those days the United States starts Iraqi war, did not find obviously large-scale kill and wound sexual weapon, small Bush still expresses " this does not blame me " . Again for instance, public character is discovered affair, face the evidence of authentic, beat dead not to admit however on the spot, say in the apologetic statement that lies between a day however: "I made the fault that man of whole the world can make. " it is adult not only, dot also can be his behavior plead, you should ask why he fights, he can speak a reason to you for certain, for instance " he is a fool " or " he often scolds me " etc. ? ? Why to happen when the mistake, our person always is can subliminal get on responsibility shirk to others body, perhaps seek a few exterior accounts, do not admit the problem that is oneself namely unluckily? Germ depends on the psychology with apologetic ego. How to want to know this is to return a responsibility? This book that brings to everybody today " the fault is absent I " , the author sets out from psychological angle, analysed the cause of formation of this kind of phenomenon, expression and consequence. It is individual, country or society no matter, be in imperceptible in the center undertake ego defends, also sufferring the undesirable effect that it brings at the same time. So how ability recognize ego is apologetic, the society admits his mistake, obtain grow? The answer is in next in the program. ? ? Believe to listen to this book, everybody can understand at least below a few problems: ? ? The first, how is cerebrum to exhaust all steps come those who acknowledge a mistake avoid us? The 2nd, escape why to acknowledge a mistake to you can bring about marital burst, doctor by accident do examine and mistake adjudicate? The 3rd, why to say to admit one's mistake may bring good result?