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Everybody is good, it is here read on the road, I am cold frost, what bring to everybody today is a psychology classical " cold force " . ? ? Think back and forth first, in daily life, the person has to often give out such bewilderment beside you: "I also do not know myself after all err what, why he so be fed up with me? " ? ? This kind of bewilderment comes from sometimes in our family or affinity, may be abrupt with respect to the lover to your sarcastic comments, sweetheart; Dissatisfactory to you from beginning to end perhaps parents parents; Also may be some friend that always makes you embarrassed before everybody; But occasionally this kind of bewilderment comes from possibly also at duty field, compare the leader that always denies like you try hard seriously; Or a colleague that is not willing to cooperate with you from beginning to end. ? ? Of course, everybody has when dominating him sentiment, also can say the word of person of a few injuries now and then, or it is the move that makes others of a few harm. But, if this kind harms the circumstance of other to repeat in very long time,happen ceaselessly, can become very terrible. ? ? You may have not realised, actually this is spirit mistreat, namely: Cold force. ? ? It is early 20 years ago, li Geyang of French psychologist Yi is in oneself " cold force " in one book, put forward first " spirit is mistreated " this concept, she herself since a M.d. , also be division of depth psychology home, psychotherapy, the injured party learns an expert, and specialize in mental rough stuff. But after this book publishs 20 years today, cold force still happens from time to tome in our life. More terrible is, face this kind of indirect violent form, our society often turn a blind eye to, and often be excuse in order to include, the crime silent that suppress victim suffers to its does not make a sound. ? ? Think whether differentiate is existing beside your spirit is mistreated, help oneself or does the person beside earn emergence to come from inside the nightmare of cold force? That should miss this book with respect to scarcely. Believe to listen today the elite content of this book, you can understand at least the following 3 problems: ? ? The first, how him differentiate in daily life whether under cover cold force? The 2nd, how does cold force happen after all? The 3rd, the devil's talons that how casts off cold force?