A person, what is the weakest position? The answer is: The heart.
A hale person, the psychological line of defence that wants him only by smash, he can become extremely flimsy.
Destroy one the individual's intelligence, the key is not from exterior attack, let him himself defeat him however, lose real hope, just be the key that destroys person psychology.
Deny continuously
If the psychological quality of a person is insufficient powerful, its are when those who face another person is negative, can generate psychological pressure and ego suspicion.
But those who last is negative can make cognitive to ego generation suspects a person, sense of its self-confidence heart, value can suffer annihilative blow.
These just are a people the most essential, most the part of core.
Finally, he can suspect himself the meaning of existence. Serious person still can generate deep commit suicide idea.
Deracinate
The person is a social animal, the person's life, cannot leave socialization. But, the person cannot cast off alone feeling again.
Alone cent is two kinds, one kind is the circle on physics is banned, keep apart its human relations in society compulsively for instance.
One kind is spirit those who go up is isolated, suffer for instance all round the ignore that the crowd lasts or animosity.
According to the result of psychological test, be in when a person be isolated all social connection exceed 120 hours, can observe, then the individual can have remarkable mentality maladjusted, language and the circumstance that cognitive ability ebbs.
More serious is, these harm are permanent a little, not repairable. So, destroy a person, isolated he, repellent he, he can break down by oneself.
Stick label
The psychology that sticking label is a kind of the the commonnest, simplest, highest effect alludes a law, everybody benefit from, and far-reaching.
Stick label, do not need complex preparation, need the characteristic according to a certain person only, stick various label to him.
For instance, say him more at ordinary times " farouche " , " start work ability is poor " , " response is slow " .
Because these label accord with the psychological feature of that person originally, animosity is not strong, be accepted easily accordingly.
But should be accepted only, these label meet person of influence of ground of exert a subtle influence on really, make the person is changed towards the direction of label.
For instance you say a person is stupid, and when repeating ceaselessly, he can lose his head really before you, thinking become rigid.
When you say a person is farouche, introvert ceaselessly, he can become slowly really such. Be in imperceptible in, he has been in label deep-set.
Suggestion of this kind of psychology looks be like might small, but the harm is very actually great.
If be affected for a long time by negative label, our then true meeting ego is negative, incompetent.
Language force
The language is a Shuang Renjian, the language is OK and warm other, also can kill the person's heart chronically.
Persistent language is violent, can hit the person's self-respect, affect the person's mood.
If a person, lie originally in trough period, return violent to his use language word at that time, he can be attacked by the double retype on the body and spirit, as time passes, with respect to the habit that can form ego to deny, create self-abased mentality.
On put together, want to destroy a person, far in imagining complex.
Psychological how of the person is flimsy, psychological line of defence of the person, may because of a certain instant, a few words crumble.
So, when we interact with the person at ordinary times, want to notice oneself words and deeds, do not injure another person, do not sneer at other.
In the meantime, we also should have protected ourselves, the evildoing that does not let others harms him.
