A kind of accomplishment cries 3 do not say
Common saying says: Get ill by the mouth, out of the mouth comes evil. . Person this all one's life, because conversation is undeserved,a lot of moment are in an unfavorable situation is.
We often say, the person should defend his heart when be in alone, gregarious when the mouth that should defend oneself. But person this lifetime, when be in alone little, with person contact with when much. Clever person, often know the mouth that runs oneself, some are undeserved the mouth won't be spoken absolutely if telling.
1.
Do not say the claver of others rear.
Some people, idle will like to say some of claver without the thing, but claver often provokes dispute. A colleague of the company is red before resembling me elder sister, because love rearward says person claver,was fried squid.
Red elder sister is boss assistant, often can hear the decision that a few companies had not published outwards. Once employer plan transfers a fellow worker post, the company has not made final decision, she has leaked the information to that colleague, still expressed oneself opinion one time. Result, that staff runs to boss office to argue strongly one time, let a boss do not have face very much.
Total also rearward says red elder sister the boss' claver, the boss has reminded her a few times, dan Gong elder sister does not listen, the boss is driven beyond forbearance eventually, give her dismissed.
Red elder sister feels when be dismissed very grievance, not be blunder made on the job, because of how to say a few words lost the job how possibly? But she is wrong, working err still has method to remedy, but if saying, resemble sprinkling the water that go out, also closed not to come back again.
2.
If the person saying before the person.
I still remember a word that the husband of one's maternal aunt ever said to me up to now: This child, looking is not the makings that read, read so old book, do not have even deputy glasses, it is to read for certain not serious!
In the process that grow, the husband of one's maternal aunt and I had said by tens of thousands sentence word, but I remember exclusively have this one only however.
That is spend the New Year, a flock of kin are surrounded when year of meal eats all round the table of grandmother home, old people talks about the result that has children and the expression that are in the school at ordinary times suddenly. The husband of one's maternal aunt goes to attention move suddenly on my body, ask I take certificate of merit not, I say, then he said that paragraph of word in front. Although he says with joking snout, but I in letting sit in the crowd however am particularly embarrassed, feel as if sitting on a bed with needles.
Others continues josh, I also am participated in however again without what idea among them. Often think, still feel to get hurt. His word resembles an aeriform knives, harmed me deeply. But besides me, do not have a person to know, I sufferred an injury.
He looks one sentence be like inadvertently word, make me painful a lot of years. Hurt the person's word, it is invisible, but the harm that brings to the person is potential however very deep very long.
3.
The word can never say too completely
We often say, the thing cannot be done too absolutely, the word cannot say too full, everything also leaves a whirly room to others to oneself.
Before paragraph time, friend and I said a thing. He regards the gold of the company as the sale, have self-confidence very much to his ability. Their company has a regulation, if which sale group is successive,4 quarters are sale champion, send award of 100 thousand cash.
His group is already successive 3 quarters took champion, and this quarter, his group sale outstanding achievement and the 2nd have between the name on the balance of ten million. He is so self-confident chock and oneself team member guarantee, their team can take stake for certain, if be not taken, he is private take out 100 thousand to give everybody cent.
His heart thinks he is to win decided, but the group that did not think of the 2nd is in Feburary a few days receive a few large sheet continuously finally, exceeded them. The eye looks at bonus bubble soup, he is confused, team member people each takes him jokingly: Irrespective, although take the stake that is less than a company, but can take the stake of our header at least!
Team member people if let his embarrassment unceasingly, but the word has been spoken, do not give, appear do not have too article; To, what do oneself take to give? Do not have method, he asks team member people engorge, be make up for.
Language to us, it is a kind of instinct. But should have used it, it is a profound knowledge however. The little gossip, word that does not say a person, him control does not say too full word, such, just be clever person.
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