Because of a piece of IOU, the friend pulls me black

It is easy that people says to lend money, it is difficult to return money, two people are caused because of returning the responsibility of money between some friends even final favour is broken justice absolutely, from now on never in contact with each other.

Always can see news perhaps hears usually beside the friend says:

Such-and-such good friend borrows money to be not returned, regret ought not to borrow him at the outset;

Or:

I want to let him make a bill signed in acknowledgement of debt, he is direct anger, without language. . . .

Often serve as a spectator right now (look on sb's trouble with indifference) can think: What IOU still talks between the good friend, is friendship the most important? But do not have when such thing happens on him body so simple.

The thing is such, a few days ago small make up a friend to come to lend money, the circumstance of the other side is some difficulty really, groups small are a country, 80 hind, after dating, begin relatively successfully again anxious buy a house, estimation is woman abstract was begged, can be the brother in the home several, conjugal marriage, go to school go to school, it is when spending money, in the home original not rich, want to pay in the city head it is more difficult to pay, lend money everywhere so.

The decision after I had discussed with the sweetheart borrows him, it is not much, 20 thousand. My means money of two can borrow, but to avoid the following awkwardness wanting money, put forward to let him make a bill signed in acknowledgement of debt so, "The gentleman after aing person of low position first " lending Qian Fang the face is most those who rely on chart. Look at his awkwardness of one face at that time, because,also be urgent need money, final reluctance made a bill signed in acknowledgement of debt. Think money borrowed originally, good person also was done, the thing does quite well, but give the ability when he sends small letter discovery recently, he pulls me actually black. . .

What circumstance?

Do not return money at this moment and rip the rhythm of turn against!

Because that piece should have,the likelihood is probably seemingly but ought not to some IOUs ah!

I this kind of circumstance is compared " owe money to be not returned " fiercer ah, money also was done not have, the friend also was done not have.

It is a friend originally, let a family make a bill signed in acknowledgement of debt, estimation is the metropolis in most popular feeling feels embarrassed.

But you do not know, in the life, below most circumstance, thinking in the heart is a friend after all for the person to lending money, the first won't let me write a bill signed in acknowledgement of debt, the 2nd won't urge me to want debt in that way like the bank;

And give money to borrowing, lend money actually incorrect, do not borrow incorrect also. After once borrow,going out, the affirmation in the heart feels embarrassed urge others reimbursement, it is a friend after all, such doing much worse, can encounter what do not return for long to perhaps be pulled directly so like me black of this kind of circumstance, can admit only hapless (minority also can go to law< , premise is you have significant bill signed in acknowledgement of debt to be in hand) . When both sides meets will naturally very awkward, time grew the hard to avoid between the friend to produce gap.

That is friendship after all important or money is serious.

This problem appears the answer is affirmation, it is friendship of course, but this is not the truth it seems that, because it cannot be passed,carry out examine.

This problem does not have the answer it seems that.

Do you say?